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PrintableOcean said: hokie said: Yes...Even though you drink Coke. 
I've come a long way by even allowing it inside my dwelling.  Ur safe with him ...hes a closest pepsi drinker ...and a very smart man! I'd rather lick the closet than drink a Pepsi...  | |
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Ocean said: Amaxx said:  Again with the emoticons   | |
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Amaxx said: Ocean said: I know what u mean ....but it isn't even that that would bother me (if he were obvious) but the double standards of how its ok to look at other women but other men can't look at u  I'm begining to think ur quiet smart after all | |
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Sweeny79 said: Ocean said:  That sounds kinky I guess it does, well rubbing things seems to bring my guy around to my way of thought most of the time.  | |
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hokie said: Byron said: ...I had four Pepsis in my fridge once, due to them coming out of the COKE machine by mistake (or out of the Coke slot). They just sat there, and I hated seeing them in my fridge everytime I opened the door ...I ended up throwing them away instead.  
Dude! You're hardcore! Very lol 
Oh...I MADE him drink every last one of them because I knew that no one in my house would drink them.
If he had left them they'd still be in there the next time he came to visit.  Being "made" to drink "every last Coke"... 
And you thought I was dreamy lol ... | |
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Sweeny79 said: Ocean said: Provided they want these chnges and see them as being for the goodWell, there's the rub.   | |
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Ocean said: Sweeny79 said: I guess it does, well rubbing things seems to bring my guy around to my way of thought most of the time. Well it's true! In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Ocean said: Amaxx said: I'm begining to think ur quiet smart after all  | |
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Ocean said: evenstar3 said: no way, that's fucking lame.
I'm wondering how many males will disagee... U know then u get the whole ....well u dress like that to get attention..do u need other mens attention....u have me so tell me what do u get out of it that's a stupidly immature response to it.  if he's insecure it's his problem. | |
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Amaxx said: Ocean said: I'm begining to think ur quiet smart after all Ok maybe not | |
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Sweeny79 said: Ocean said: Well it's true! U naughty girl ..using ur powers for evil .....
although I think thats our womanly right [Edited 7/10/08 23:22pm] | |
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EvilAlthom said: Sweeny79 said: Well it's true! U naughty girl ..using ur powers for evil .....  In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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evenstar3 said: Ocean said:
I'm wondering how many males will disagee... U know then u get the whole ....well u dress like that to get attention..do u need other mens attention....u have me so tell me what do u get out of it that's a stupidly immature response to it. if he's insecure it's his problem. | |
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EvilAlthom said: Amaxx said: Ok maybe not   | |
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That's craziness. For me, I want an attractive wife and that means preferably her wearing whatever looks nice/good/hot/sexy/whatever on her. I'd be peeved if she looked slutty. What you're wearing isn't slutty IMHO. If Mon wears a short skirt (like what you have on in the pics), if it isn't slutty then I couldn't care less if guys look. I'll be looking too so how could I blame them? Ideally I'd just like my wife to make clothes choices that look good on her, just as I would try to do for myself, and if she does that then all's good. I want her to look good and feel good about looking good and most importantly for her to be happy in her skin and in her clothes.  | |
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I think its perfectly fair. Honestly is paramount in relationships, and I HATE the mode that women get into where they rely on you to be a little bit pyschic about something they want to tell you
As far as how a man does it, I think men just lay it out on the table...literally  | |
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No.
You know if you need to change the person you're with, that says something about YOU. I wouldn't dream of telling my gf what to wear. She's a grown ass woman. I might not occasionally like something she's wearing, but i'm sure she'd say the same thing about something i was rocking and i sure as hell wouldn't let her tell me what to wear. http://www.facebook.com/p...111?ref=ts
y'all gone keep messin' around wit me and turn me back to the old me...... | |
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Ocean said: Do u think it's fair that once u start seeing someone u should be able to tell them u don't like what the wear, what they do as a job, aspects of their personality that were all there and were part of what attracted u to them in the first place. No, not fair. | |
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Ocean said: Byron said: What exactly turned the opinion around on these things if they were attractive in the beginning? Let me give u an example with Dean .....he loved my choice in clothes until we had been together for awhile and he decided other men sometimes looked .....then he hated the fact that they looked and wanted my skirts to be longer and tops more covered (even though im not big breasted or anything). But what is annoying on top of all that is they are guilty of looking at other women that dress similar  so what to they want.....women to not give a shit about their appearance ..or no longer be sexually attractive to them ....cause I tell u I know he wouldn't like me gaining weight or anything eithier
Is any of this making sense?
And I don't think they are slutty or anything (besides the point though since that's the same person I always was)
example 
I sent Althom that t-shirt for Christmas!  | |
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And, Kylie, you've never looked slutty - you always look very stylish and beautiful. | |
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SHENANIGANS!!!!! | |
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Fauxie said: That's craziness. For me, I want an attractive wife and that means preferably her wearing whatever looks nice/good/hot/sexy/whatever on her. I'd be peeved if she looked slutty. What you're wearing isn't slutty IMHO. If Mon wears a short skirt (like what you have on in the pics), if it isn't slutty then I couldn't care less if guys look. I'll be looking too so how could I blame them? Ideally I'd just like my wife to make clothes choices that look good on her, just as I would try to do for myself, and if she does that then all's good. I want her to look good and feel good about looking good and most importantly for her to be happy in her skin and in her clothes.
 A freaking men | |
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Why don't you ask the REAL question Kylie...?
What she really wants to know is, why do guys who find-->date-->marry a woman who dresses sexy...then "politely" ask that they no longer dress as provacatively as they once did....? The answer is this....(WARNING!!!! Broad statement alert!)...women dress sexy,get their hair and nails did and generally throw their mack down (referred to hereafter as "fluff" ) to attract a mate....as do WE men....once this is accomplished, what is the point in continuing with ALL of the fluff...? It appears as though you are still looking for the same feedback and are STILL searching for a mate.... Now we still like you to stay in shape, hair and nails still done...but why dress so provacatively still? I believe the reason us men get touchy about this is because we know you are no longer doing it JUST for us and we don't like it... | |
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pardonme4livin said: Why don't you ask the REAL question Kylie...? See I think that is crap! While yes we do these things and it does attract a mate or we want to look good for one .....how can u decide for the females of the world that that is the only reason we do it...
What she really wants to know is, why do guys who find-->date-->marry a woman who dresses sexy...then "politely" ask that they no longer dress as provacatively as they once did....? The answer is this....(WARNING!!!! Broad statement alert!)...women dress sexy,get their hair and nails did and generally throw their mack down (referred to hereafter as "fluff" ) to attract a mate....as do WE men....once this is accomplished, what is the point in continuing with ALL of the fluff...? It appears as though you are still looking for the same feedback and are STILL searching for a mate.... Now we still like you to stay in shape, hair and nails still done...but why dress so provacatively still? I believe the reason us men get touchy about this is because we know you are no longer doing it JUST for us and we don't like it... I mean bascially ur saying every grooming habit is for attracting someone...which is utter rubbish..... | |
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applekisses said: And, Kylie, you've never looked slutty - you always look very stylish and beautiful.
Thank u love  | |
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Ocean said: pardonme4livin said: Why don't you ask the REAL question Kylie...? See I think that is crap! While yes we do these things and it does attract a mate or we want to look good for one .....how can u decide for the females of the world that that is the only reason we do it...
What she really wants to know is, why do guys who find-->date-->marry a woman who dresses sexy...then "politely" ask that they no longer dress as provacatively as they once did....? The answer is this....(WARNING!!!! Broad statement alert!)...women dress sexy,get their hair and nails did and generally throw their mack down (referred to hereafter as "fluff" ) to attract a mate....as do WE men....once this is accomplished, what is the point in continuing with ALL of the fluff...? It appears as though you are still looking for the same feedback and are STILL searching for a mate.... Now we still like you to stay in shape, hair and nails still done...but why dress so provacatively still? I believe the reason us men get touchy about this is because we know you are no longer doing it JUST for us and we don't like it... I mean bascially ur saying every grooming habit is for attracting someone...which is utter rubbish..... Word. | |
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JessieJ said: Ocean said: See I think that is crap! While yes we do these things and it does attract a mate or we want to look good for one .....how can u decide for the females of the world that that is the only reason we do it...
I mean bascially ur saying every grooming habit is for attracting someone...which is utter rubbish..... Word. Shut it..... no helping the kiwis dammit..... | |
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Ocean said: pardonme4livin said: Why don't you ask the REAL question Kylie...? See I think that is crap! While yes we do these things and it does attract a mate or we want to look good for one .....how can u decide for the females of the world that that is the only reason we do it...
What she really wants to know is, why do guys who find-->date-->marry a woman who dresses sexy...then "politely" ask that they no longer dress as provacatively as they once did....? The answer is this....(WARNING!!!! Broad statement alert!)...women dress sexy,get their hair and nails did and generally throw their mack down (referred to hereafter as "fluff" ) to attract a mate....as do WE men....once this is accomplished, what is the point in continuing with ALL of the fluff...? It appears as though you are still looking for the same feedback and are STILL searching for a mate.... Now we still like you to stay in shape, hair and nails still done...but why dress so provacatively still? I believe the reason us men get touchy about this is because we know you are no longer doing it JUST for us and we don't like it... I mean bascially ur saying every grooming habit is for attracting someone...which is utter rubbish..... I'd have it no other way.... I love it that we agree to disagree on this one... 
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pardonme4livin said: JessieJ said: Word. Shut it..... no helping the kiwis dammit.....You shut it! I'll do whatever I want  I agree with Kylie | |
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JessieJ said: pardonme4livin said: Shut it..... no helping the kiwis dammit.....You shut it! I'll do whatever I want I agree with Kylie I have a great visual of you saying this to me... too funny.... | |
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