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Printablehokie said: Byron said: Nobody, male or female, should base how much their spouse loves them by how they dress. There are far, far more profound ways of measuring someone's love. Next time you go out, wear a burka lol  ...
"I'm ready to go to dinner, honey!..." He'll be out buying you miniskirts by the weekend lol  The funny thing is (and this is off topic), but the burka (sp?) is supposed to cover everything so no men will be attracted to you...But, this woman has very alluring and sexy eyes. If I was a dude I would be drawn to those eyes and then be dying to get up under that burka! True...that woman's husband would probably make her wear sunglasses as well lol ... | |
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Ocean said: Amaxx said: Yep! Good way 2 loose a perfectly hot woman! Sorry! But he's got issues! Maybe he's realised U're out of his league. So he wants 2 bring u down 2 his level!  I love that my wife is out of my league! Pisses other guys off no end!  I'm not out of his league but hes about to have a flat head when I get out my  You know what's bad Kylie? Whenever I think of you I don't even think of your face I just think of the
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Ocean said: Amaxx said: Yep! Good way 2 loose a perfectly hot woman! Sorry! But he's got issues! Maybe he's realised U're out of his league. So he wants 2 bring u down 2 his level! I love that my wife is out of my league! Pisses other guys off no end! I'm not out of his league but hes about to have a flat head when I get out my  | |
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Byron said: Ocean said: But what is annoying on top of all that is they are guilty of looking at other women that dress similar  so what to they want.....women to not give a shit about their appearance ..or no longer be sexually attractive to them ....cause I tell u I know he wouldn't like me gaining weight or anything eithier
Is any of this making sense?
You treat other women the way you want your wife/daughter/mother/girlfriend to be treated. And conversely, if you see there's nothing wrong with giving an appreciative glance at another woman, then you should think there's nothing wrong with men giving your wife that same type of appreciative glance. Can't have the double standard...it's not suddenly "different" just because it's your spouse/gf. The real problem is if he gives those appreciative glances in such an obvious manner that you notice he's doing so. That's a whole nother area to go into, though lol... [Edited 7/10/08 22:47pm] | |
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hokie said: Ocean said: I'm not out of his league but hes about to have a flat head when I get out my You know what's bad Kylie? Whenever I think of you I don't even think of your face I just think of the
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Amaxx said: Ocean said: I'm not out of his league but hes about to have a flat head when I get out my I'm a violent poster ....I have never hit anyone in real life | |
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Ocean said: hokie said: You know what's bad Kylie? Whenever I think of you I don't even think of your face I just think of the
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Amaxx said: Ocean said: I have a face like a chair
Hush  | |
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Ocean said: Amaxx said: Hush  | |
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Ocean said: Byron said: You treat other women the way you want your wife/daughter/mother/girlfriend to be treated. And conversely, if you see there's nothing wrong with giving an appreciative glance at another woman, then you should think there's nothing wrong with men giving your wife that same type of appreciative glance. Can't have the double standard...it's not suddenly "different" just because it's your spouse/gf. The real problem is if he gives those appreciative glances in such an obvious manner that you notice he's doing so. That's a whole nother area to go into, though lol... That's what happens when the spouse is not subtle in his looking...I mean, it's not THAT hard to NOT look at other women while with your wife. It's just respectful. Why start to give her insecurities about herself and her looks by having her see you checking out other women while WITH her, even if you don't have any desire to do anything but look? It's not like some uncontrollable urge and we men can't help it lol... Not talking about Dean, btw...I've just heard about and even witnessed this being done by men who were with their partners, looking in VERY obvious ways at women who walked by or whatever...always bothered me. | |
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Byron said: Ocean said: Exactly and by doing that ..even if its not obvious ..we are human ...we do appreciate the opposite sex (or same sex as the case maybe) so in doing that aren't we also encouraging our partners to try and look good so they look more at us than elsewhere
That's what happens when the spouse is not subtle in his looking...I mean, it's not THAT hard to NOT look at other women while with your wife. It's just respectful. Why start to give her insecurities about herself and her looks by having her see you checking out other women while WITH her, even if you don't have any desire to do anything but look? It's not like some uncontrollable urge and we men can't help it lol... Not talking about Dean, btw...I've just heard about and even witnessed this being done by men who were with their partners, looking in VERY obvious ways at women who walked by or whatever...always bothered me. Byron...you sound like such a dreamy guy.  I hope you find someone special to share your life with. She'll be one lucky lady.
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Amaxx said: Ocean said: Hush  | |
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Byron said: Ocean said: Exactly and by doing that ..even if its not obvious ..we are human ...we do appreciate the opposite sex (or same sex as the case maybe) so in doing that aren't we also encouraging our partners to try and look good so they look more at us than elsewhere
That's what happens when the spouse is not subtle in his looking...I mean, it's not THAT hard to NOT look at other women while with your wife. It's just respectful. Why start to give her insecurities about herself and her looks by having her see you checking out other women while WITH her, even if you don't have any desire to do anything but look? It's not like some uncontrollable urge and we men can't help it lol... Not talking about Dean, btw...I've just heard about and even witnessed this being done by men who were with their partners, looking in VERY obvious ways at women who walked by or whatever...always bothered me. I know what u mean ....but it isn't even that that would bother me (if he were obvious) but the double standards of how its ok to look at other women but other men can't look at u  | |
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hokie said: Byron said: That's what happens when the spouse is not subtle in his looking...I mean, it's not THAT hard to NOT look at other women while with your wife. It's just respectful. Why start to give her insecurities about herself and her looks by having her see you checking out other women while WITH her, even if you don't have any desire to do anything but look? It's not like some uncontrollable urge and we men can't help it lol... Not talking about Dean, btw...I've just heard about and even witnessed this being done by men who were with their partners, looking in VERY obvious ways at women who walked by or whatever...always bothered me. Byron...you sound like such a dreamy guy. I hope you find someone special to share your life with. She'll be one lucky lady.
Even though I drink Coke? lol...(well, wait...you should know all about dreamy guys who drink Coke, huh  )
And thank u...  | |
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Sweeny79 said: Some men are just fixer uppers.
Fix them upper by a rope around the neck u mean? | |
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Amaxx said: Ocean said: Again with the emoticons  | |
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Byron said: hokie said: Byron...you sound like such a dreamy guy. I hope you find someone special to share your life with. She'll be one lucky lady.
Even though I drink Coke? lol...(well, wait...you should know all about dreamy guys who drink Coke, huh )
And thank u... Yes...Even though you drink Coke.
I've come a long way by even allowing it inside my dwelling.  | |
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Ocean said: Byron said: That's what happens when the spouse is not subtle in his looking...I mean, it's not THAT hard to NOT look at other women while with your wife. It's just respectful. Why start to give her insecurities about herself and her looks by having her see you checking out other women while WITH her, even if you don't have any desire to do anything but look? It's not like some uncontrollable urge and we men can't help it lol... Not talking about Dean, btw...I've just heard about and even witnessed this being done by men who were with their partners, looking in VERY obvious ways at women who walked by or whatever...always bothered me. I know what u mean ....but it isn't even that that would bother me (if he were obvious) but the double standards of how its ok to look at other women but other men can't look at u It may not bother you...but if a woman gets to a point where she starts to question her looks due in part to seeing her boyfriend/husband "looking elsewhere" too many times, then it's bothering her in my opinion ... | |
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Ocean said: Sweeny79 said: Some men are just fixer uppers.
Fix them upper by a rope around the neck u mean? No! I mean some guys need guidance about what clothes, hairstyle etc. work for them. Some guys need a woman to put abug in their ear about finances and work issues. Isn't that what women have done for all time? Gently guide their men into doing what we think is right,but all the while making them think things were their idea all along? In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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hokie said: Byron said: Even though I drink Coke? lol...(well, wait...you should know all about dreamy guys who drink Coke, huh )
And thank u... Yes...Even though you drink Coke.
I've come a long way by even allowing it inside my dwelling. Ur safe with him ...hes a closest pepsi drinker ...and a very smart man! | |
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hokie said: Byron said: Even though I drink Coke? lol...(well, wait...you should know all about dreamy guys who drink Coke, huh )
And thank u... Yes...Even though you drink Coke.
I've come a long way by even allowing it inside my dwelling. ...I had four Pepsis in my fridge once, due to them coming out of the COKE machine by mistake (or out of the Coke slot). They just sat there, and I hated seeing them in my fridge everytime I opened the door ...I ended up throwing them away instead.  | |
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Sweeny79 said: Ocean said: Fix them upper by a rope around the neck u mean? No! I mean some guys need guidance about what clothes, hairstyle etc. work for them. Some guys need a woman to put abug in their ear about finances and work issues. Isn't that what women have done for all time? Gently guide their men into doing what we think is right,but all the while making them think things were their idea all along? Provided they want these chnges and see them as being for the good | |
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Byron said: hokie said: Yes...Even though you drink Coke.
I've come a long way by even allowing it inside my dwelling. ...I had four Pepsis in my fridge once, due to them coming out of the COKE machine by mistake (or out of the Coke slot). They just sat there, and I hated seeing them in my fridge everytime I opened the door ...I ended up throwing them away instead. pfft | |
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Byron said: hokie said: Yes...Even though you drink Coke.
I've come a long way by even allowing it inside my dwelling. ...I had four Pepsis in my fridge once, due to them coming out of the COKE machine by mistake (or out of the Coke slot). They just sat there, and I hated seeing them in my fridge everytime I opened the door ...I ended up throwing them away instead.
Dude! You're hardcore! Oh...I MADE him drink every last one of them because I knew that no one in my house would drink them. If he had left them they'd still be in there the next time he came to visit.  | |
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Ocean said: Sweeny79 said: No! I mean some guys need guidance about what clothes, hairstyle etc. work for them. Some guys need a woman to put abug in their ear about finances and work issues. Isn't that what women have done for all time? Gently guide their men into doing what we think is right,but all the while making them think things were their idea all along? Provided they want these chnges and see them as being for the goodWell, there's the rub. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: Ocean said: Provided they want these chnges and see them as being for the goodWell, there's the rub. That sounds kinky | |
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Ocean said: Byron said: That's what happens when the spouse is not subtle in his looking...I mean, it's not THAT hard to NOT look at other women while with your wife. It's just respectful. Why start to give her insecurities about herself and her looks by having her see you checking out other women while WITH her, even if you don't have any desire to do anything but look? It's not like some uncontrollable urge and we men can't help it lol... Not talking about Dean, btw...I've just heard about and even witnessed this being done by men who were with their partners, looking in VERY obvious ways at women who walked by or whatever...always bothered me. I know what u mean ....but it isn't even that that would bother me (if he were obvious) but the double standards of how its ok to look at other women but other men can't look at u | |
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Ocean said: Sweeny79 said: Well, there's the rub. That sounds kinky I guess it does, well rubbing things seems to bring my guy around to my way of thought most of the time. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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