Do u think it's fair that once u start seeing someone u should be able to tell them u don't like what the wear, what they do as a job, aspects of their personality that were all there and were part of what attracted u to them in the first place.

FUCK YOU

Fauxie said:

Ocean said:

What exactly turned the opinion around on these things if they were attractive in the beginning?

well, i think if you liked them for those things to start with, why change now?

Byron said:

Let me give u an example with Dean .....he loved my choice in clothes until we had been together for awhile and he decided other men sometimes looked .....then he hated the fact that they looked and wanted my skirts to be longer and tops more covered (even though im not big breasted or anything).
But what is annoying on top of all that is they are guilty of looking at other women that dress similar so what to they want.....women to not give a shit about their appearance ..or no longer be sexually attractive to them ....cause I tell u I know he wouldn't like me gaining weight or anything eithier
Is any of this making sense?
And I don't think they are slutty or anything (besides the point though since that's the same person I always was)
example


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Amaxx said:

Well ur a great help

Ocean said:

Amaxx said:

Ur a typical aussie male so spill Mr

no way, that's fucking lame.

Ocean said:

Ah, ok...Well, no, it's not fair lol ...He should look at it as other men see the same physical beauty in you that he did and does, as long as they're respectful about it (no crude remarks or gestures or anything). An appreciative glance here and there should be a source of pride, not a source of insecurity. Then he should tell himself "They only know the outside beauty...if they knew the inside beauty I'd be in trouble", laugh, and go buy you some jewerly lol ...

You don't look slutty. I say he needs to get the f*** over it.


If he can't handle men looking that's retarded.


So what!!!???

You dress how you feel comfortable. If someone has a problem with it....its their problem and also if the relationship is young YOU can tell them that you do not tolerate jealousy in any shape or form. If they start to dictate things in clothing it will lead to bigger things and ultimately a very unhappy relationship.

evenstar3 said:

I'm wondering how many males will disagee...
U know then u get the whole ....well u dress like that to get attention..do u need other mens attention....u have me so tell me what do u get out of it

Byron said:

woo hoo I like the way u think

Ocean said:

He needs his head read followed by a severe ass kicking then a labotomy for good measure! Enough said by me!

hokie said:

Thanks hun.....
Lets put another angle on it .....this doesn't relate to me or dean though ....
posting pics ..like the show us ur boobs .....or body part kinda thing.....should that also be something u shouldn't do ..and if u do are u doing to get some sort of pay off ...would they have a right to be angry do u think and tell u they think its inappropiate?

Amaxx said:

And if ur wife dressed the same way..u would still say that?

Ocean said:

That's why you keep it a secret...



I kid!!!!


Well, in the show your boobs thread I guess it depends...

I never showed anything that you wouldn't have seen in a bathing suit. Actually my bra covers way more than my bathing suit.

I don't know. Sure. I guess sometimes you like that affirmation that you've still got a nice rack. I know I'm proud of mine. I'm almost 35, have had two kids and they still look hot.

To answer more seriously...I think if your partner says that they absolutely would be so hurt over it then I think you shouldn't EVEN though I don't think showing boobs in a bra is that big of a deal.

I think any time your partner would be really hurt over something then you should think long and hard about whether or not you should do it.

Ocean said:

Yep! She can wear whatever she wants. I think she's a bit 2 conservative! If I was your husband I wouldn't change you in any way! U sure he's not a woman! Womaen like making their partners change 2 suit there agendas usually!

hokie said:

I agree....and have lines that I draw for myself also ....I have only done the bikini boob shot which I see nothing wrong with but I know he would

And at the secret bit

Amaxx said:

No he is definatly not a woman

And I love that he cares and I don't even mind a little jealously ..but the real anger gets a bit much

Ok another scenario ...what if ur partner was an stripper ....was when u met them ...but now u want them to stop ....
I think this would be a hard one....

Ocean said:

Yep! Good way 2 loose a perfectly hot woman! Sorry! But he's got issues! Maybe he's realised U're out of his league. So he wants 2 bring u down 2 his level! I love that my wife is out of my league! Pisses other guys off no end!

Ocean said:

Nobody, male or female, should base how much their spouse loves them by how they dress. There are far, far more profound ways of measuring someone's love.

Next time you go out, wear a burka lol ...


"I'm ready to go to dinner, honey!..."

He'll be out buying you miniskirts by the weekend lol

Amaxx said:

I'm not out of his league but hes about to have a flat head when I get out my

Byron said:

Byron said:

The funny thing is (and this is off topic), but the burka (sp?) is supposed to cover everything so no men will be attracted to you...But, this woman has very alluring and sexy eyes. If I was a dude I would be drawn to those eyes and then be dying to get up under that burka!

Ocean said:

You treat other women the way you want your wife/daughter/mother/girlfriend to be treated. And conversely, if you see there's nothing wrong with giving an appreciative glance at another woman, then you should think there's nothing wrong with men giving your wife that same type of appreciative glance. Can't have the double standard...it's not suddenly "different" just because it's your spouse/gf.

The real problem is if he gives those appreciative glances in such an obvious manner that you notice he's doing so. That's a whole nother area to go into, though lol...