dawntreader said: Cinnie said: I don't get what you're saying here. i meant to confuse ya'll. if you want sex with your partner and not use a condom, you have to be sure that both of you didn't contract the virus the past half year, as that is the incubation time (it's shorter actually but to be sure it's detectable in a test), then both do a test. this is what is advised. i rather use a condom. I'd rather not and just have sex with people I have been with for years and are up to date with their tests. I haven't been with a new partner in over almost 5 years. | |
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JustErin said: dawntreader said: i meant to confuse ya'll. if you want sex with your partner and not use a condom, you have to be sure that both of you didn't contract the virus the past half year, as that is the incubation time (it's shorter actually but to be sure it's detectable in a test), then both do a test. this is what is advised. i rather use a condom. I'd rather not and just have sex with people I have been with for years and are up to date with their tests. I haven't been with a new partner in over almost 5 years. sounds perfect, and i am glad! yes SIR! | |
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I was with a man that used to stop himself right before an orgasm and control it as much as possible.
He said he loved that feeling right before he had an orgasm and loved to be in control of it. He would eventually have an orgasm and said it was more intense the more times he stopped himself. [Edited 7/10/08 12:30pm] | |
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ArielB said: Yes I did. On the second or third round that night, I guess it took me too long and she was done already, so I faked it. I was too scared to say I wasn't done yet, she was a hot blooded Mexican
[Edited 7/10/08 4:10am] her phone number? "LOVE YOURSELF AS ALL PEOPLE" | |
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JustErin said: I haven't been with a new partner in over almost 5 years. but you're THE official . . . . . . org hussy! "LOVE YOURSELF AS ALL PEOPLE" | |
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G0d said: JustErin said: I haven't been with a new partner in over almost 5 years. but you're THE official . . . . . . org hussy! I just rotate between two dudes that I have known for years. I'm no hussy! | |
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That's a strange question coming from God. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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JustErin said: The thought of a dude having to fake it, or thinking they would really get away with it the chick not knowing cracks me up.
If you can't get off, just admit it and go home to curl up in a fetal position and cry yourself to sleep. Dayum Girl! Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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shanti0608 said: I was with a man that used to stop himself right before an orgasm and control it as much as possible.
He said he loved that feeling right before he had an orgasm and loved to be in control of it. He would eventually have an orgasm and said it was more intense the more times he stopped himself. [Edited 7/10/08 12:30pm] It's called Edging. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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shanti0608 said: I was with a man that used to stop himself right before an orgasm and control it as much as possible.
He said he loved that feeling right before he had an orgasm and loved to be in control of it. He would eventually have an orgasm and said it was more intense the more times he stopped himself. [Edited 7/10/08 12:30pm] It's called 'edging.' Yes it does intensify an orgasm. I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. | |
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lol
at the dual responses. If I fake an orgasm it's because I'm bored and ready to go . . . someplace else. I've had them faked on me also but I can't recall a time I really cared. I was fine ending it. I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. | |
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superspaceboy said: That's a strange question coming from God.
I strange questions. "LOVE YOURSELF AS ALL PEOPLE" | |
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I faked it once. I'm not a fan of "old Prince". I'm not a fan of "new Prince". I'm just a fan of Prince. Simple as that | |
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JustErin said: The thought of a dude having to fake it, or thinking they would really get away with it the chick not knowing cracks me up.
If you can't get off, just admit it and go home to curl up in a fetal position and cry yourself to sleep. My new sig!!!! | |
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I was bored and it was dark..... MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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shanti0608 said: I was with a man that used to stop himself right before an orgasm and control it as much as possible.
He said he loved that feeling right before he had an orgasm and loved to be in control of it. He would eventually have an orgasm and said it was more intense the more times he stopped himself. [Edited 7/10/08 12:30pm] you speaking of karma sutra and tantra..? follow the leader follow the leader | |
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G0d said: ArielB said: Yes I did. On the second or third round that night, I guess it took me too long and she was done already, so I faked it. I was too scared to say I wasn't done yet, she was a hot blooded Mexican
[Edited 7/10/08 4:10am] her phone number? She got married. | |
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A few times. I was on Celexa for depression, which delays orgasm. In fact, they also prescribe it for men who have a problem with premature ejaculation. | |
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shanti0608 said: I am not a guy but I must say that I have never caught a guy faking it.
I am not sure why anyone would fake an orgasm.. The reason I have done it is because I'm about the other person getting theres. Plus, I take forever. I get turned off really quick if the person is concentrating on me getting off. I don't know why that is. So when I've faked it it's because the whole act has gotten on my nerves. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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shanti0608 said: I was with a man that used to stop himself right before an orgasm and control it as much as possible.
He said he loved that feeling right before he had an orgasm and loved to be in control of it. He would eventually have an orgasm and said it was more intense the more times he stopped himself. [Edited 7/10/08 12:30pm] That's called "edge-ing" (I most likely spelled that wrong.) My orgasms are more intense if I just go with it the first time. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: shanti0608 said: I am not a guy but I must say that I have never caught a guy faking it.
I am not sure why anyone would fake an orgasm.. The reason I have done it is because I'm about the other person getting theres. Plus, I take forever. I get turned off really quick if the person is concentrating on me getting off. I don't know why that is. So when I've faked it it's because the whole act has gotten on my nerves. I get ya! I used to have trouble some times when I was on antidepressants. I could go and go and go... I would just tell him that I keep getting close but it was not going to happen. Then I could focus on him and he would know to just lay back and take and don't worry about me that night. I am so glad that I am not on those anymore! I think it is important to be honest. Some nights you can just keep losing concentration and at the end of the day, for me anyways, I LOVE to hear, feel.... his orgasm, it gets me off! | |
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shanti0608 said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: The reason I have done it is because I'm about the other person getting theres. Plus, I take forever. I get turned off really quick if the person is concentrating on me getting off. I don't know why that is. So when I've faked it it's because the whole act has gotten on my nerves. I get ya! I used to have trouble some times when I was on antidepressants. I could go and go and go... I would just tell him that I keep getting close but it was not going to happen. Then I could focus on him and he would know to just lay back and take and don't worry about me that night. I am so glad that I am not on those anymore! I think it is important to be honest. Some nights you can just keep losing concentration and at the end of the day, for me anyways, I LOVE to hear, feel.... his orgasm, it gets me off! I agree. Honesty is the key. It's great to communicate because if you don't people tend to jump to conclusions. "Oh my God, there must be something wrong." MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: shanti0608 said: I get ya! I used to have trouble some times when I was on antidepressants. I could go and go and go... I would just tell him that I keep getting close but it was not going to happen. Then I could focus on him and he would know to just lay back and take and don't worry about me that night. I am so glad that I am not on those anymore! I think it is important to be honest. Some nights you can just keep losing concentration and at the end of the day, for me anyways, I LOVE to hear, feel.... his orgasm, it gets me off! I agree. Honesty is the key. It's great to communicate because if you don't people tend to jump to conclusions. "Oh my God, there must be something wrong." Exactly... though I must admit it took me a while to find someone I felt comfortable enough to talk to about those things. It does help to be open about things, then you can explore and feel comfortable. BTW.. I do not like ppl holding back around me or edging, unless it is their thing and they really enjoy it. Otherwise...just bring it on baby! | |
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