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Printablehokie said: It's a long story, but I'm going up to NJ (he has the boys with him at the moment) this weekend to see them and to help him out as he has a wedding he wants to go to. I wanted to take the train to save on gas and just the hassle of having to drive through Washington DC. He also wanted to take the train to where he was going which means he would be leaving his car there. I asked if I took the train could I use his car provided that I paid for all of my gas. I know we're divorced, but I'm trying to be friendly with him for the sake of the boys. I'm trying to be as flexible as possible with him.
He said he didn't want me using his car. 
I have nothing more to say. Honestly, cars are touchy for some. I can see that while it's a pain, it's still a reasonable answer. Though you are helping him out I can see why you'd be pissed.  Sorry all I can offer you is a Libra-type of comfort.Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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hokie said: Another thing....
Since I knew he'd be gone for the weekend I asked if I could just stay at his house with the kids. The boys already have all of their stuff there. It seems crazy that I would keep them in a hotel all weekend when their house is right there. If anyone has ever tried to keep 2 little boys in a hotel room you know the insanity of that idea. 
He didn't seem like he really wanted to do it, but he finally said it was ok as long as I stayed out of his bedroom and didn't answer his home phone. 
Someone has a girlfriend that he doesn't want me to know about!
So, when he e-mailed me with his "conditions" I replied and asked him if he was taking her to the wedding he's going to.  Oh and I was going to say "I wouldn't ask him to stay at his house either" But you already did. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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superspaceboy said: hokie said: It's a long story, but I'm going up to NJ (he has the boys with him at the moment) this weekend to see them and to help him out as he has a wedding he wants to go to. I wanted to take the train to save on gas and just the hassle of having to drive through Washington DC. He also wanted to take the train to where he was going which means he would be leaving his car there. I asked if I took the train could I use his car provided that I paid for all of my gas. I know we're divorced, but I'm trying to be friendly with him for the sake of the boys. I'm trying to be as flexible as possible with him.
He said he didn't want me using his car.
I have nothing more to say. Honestly, cars are touchy for some. I can see that while it's a pain, it's still a reasonable answer. Though you are helping him out I can see why you'd be pissed. Sorry all I can offer you is a Libra-type of comfort.If I was just coming there for the hell of it and we didn't have kids together and I was like, "Hey, um can I use your car?" OK yeah. I would totally expect a "no". I wouldn't do that anyway.
But, I AM helping him out and have done so on several other ocassions when he's been in a bind. And, I'm chaufering our children around. And I'd be paying for the gas... Oh well. To each their own I guess.... | |
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You want to get back at him?
Just show him the picture of us kissing, and the big smile you have on your face when I'm kissing you | |
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ArielB said: You want to get back at him?
Just show him the picture of us kissing, and the big smile you have on your face when I'm kissing you How about we show him our sex tape?  | |
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hokie said: ArielB said: You want to get back at him?
Just show him the picture of us kissing, and the big smile you have on your face when I'm kissing you How about we show him our sex tape? How about you show me?  | |
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hokie said: ArielB said: You want to get back at him?
Just show him the picture of us kissing, and the big smile you have on your face when I'm kissing you How about we show him our sex tape? The one with whips and chains? or the rough one? | |
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ZombieKitten said: hokie said: How about we show him our sex tape? How about you show me? | |
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ZombieKitten said: hokie said: How about we show him our sex tape? How about you show me? How about you and I make our own?
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ArielB said: hokie said: How about we show him our sex tape? The one with whips and chains? or the rough one? I was thinking the one where I'm screaming your name as I come.  | |
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hokie said: ZombieKitten said: How about you show me? How about you and I make our own?
~checking prices for video camera rentals~ | |
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I think he's doing it just to annoy you if you act nonchalant about it it may fuck with his head a little. Just cough up the cash for the gas for your car and call it a day. It isn't worth the stress. really.[Edited 7/8/08 21:18pm] | |
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hokie said: ArielB said: The one with whips and chains? or the rough one? I was thinking the one where I'm screaming your name as I come. 
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ArielB said: hokie said: How about you and I make our own?
~checking prices for video camera rentals~ You can tape us and watch. | |
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honeypot69 said: I think he's doing it just to annoy you
if you act nonchalant about it it may fuck with his head a little. Just cough up the cash for the gas for your car and call it a day. It isn't worth the stress. really.
[Edited 7/8/08 21:18pm] That's what I'm doing. I think I'm even going to just get a hotel room instead of stay at his house. It will be more inconvenient for me, but the more I think about it the more I don't want to do it. | |
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hokie said: ArielB said: ~checking prices for video camera rentals~ You can tape us and watch. Watch is not all I'm going to do  | |
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ArielB said: hokie said: I was thinking the one where I'm screaming your name as I come.
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hokie said: Steadwood said: Oh hokie... I do understand 
It hurt me that she felt the need to do that... (though I do believe her new boyfriend was involved) She offered it back... but I thought you were keen to take so you can keep. ...I wouldn't see her stuck even now... she isn't that kind of person really. It's hard in these early stages ... the hurt is so raw... ... you need time , space and comfort to work through it, but you will you have Ariel  
chuckle  It does hurt. Sometimes A LOT. It's weird because I'll think all is well and I'm doing great and then the pain will come on all of a sudden out of nowhere and I'll feel like I'm having a panic attack. I've never had them before, but I think that might be what it is. Yes. Time. And I do have Ariel.
He has been nothing short of amazing. 
Most of you don't know him well enough to know just how truly amazing he is.
I love you  | |
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Deepest Sympathies.
Oh, and  for Conner! | |
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superman said: Deepest Sympathies.
Oh, and for Conner!Thanks.
My sons are amazing! Awesome. Yeah. I'm a proud mom. 
Conner is 8 and Noah is 5. Noah is my snuggle bug. | |
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honeypot69 said: I think he's doing it just to annoy you
if you act nonchalant about it it may fuck with his head a little. Just cough up the cash for the gas for your car and call it a day. It isn't worth the stress. really.
[Edited 7/8/08 21:18pm] Honestly, the best approach is to never let him know he's bothered you!  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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hokie said: honeypot69 said: I think he's doing it just to annoy you
if you act nonchalant about it it may fuck with his head a little. Just cough up the cash for the gas for your car and call it a day. It isn't worth the stress. really.
[Edited 7/8/08 21:18pm] That's what I'm doing. I think I'm even going to just get a hotel room instead of stay at his house. It will be more inconvenient for me, but the more I think about it the more I don't want to do it. I would not stay at his house...if he believes/perceives something is amiss or missing, you will be blamed, adding insult to injury. Good luck....
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I think Ariel should kill him. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Lammastide said: I think Ariel should kill him.
You'll get implicated if there is any kind of accident!  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Lammastide said: I think Ariel should kill him... with kindness.
You'll get implicated if there is any kind of accident! Uh... There! I fixed it! 
 Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Lammastide said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: You'll get implicated if there is any kind of accident! Uh... There! I fixed it!
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cubic61052 said: hokie said: That's what I'm doing. I think I'm even going to just get a hotel room instead of stay at his house. It will be more inconvenient for me, but the more I think about it the more I don't want to do it. I would not stay at his house...if he believes/perceives something is amiss or missing, you will be blamed, adding insult to injury. Good luck....
I'm not staying there. I got a hotel room. Thanks for the well wishes. | |
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Crap
All the hotels in the area are sold out. Now I HAVE to stay at his house.  | |
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