Be truthful, no lies.

Protege
theodore
SpookyMuffin
evenstar

i think that's it

luv4u said:

Is this a trick question?

My closest friends here and they know who they are .

Steadwood said:

Never! Now answer the question!

luv4u said:

Ok

among others....

I trust you

i think i trust different people in different ways, based on how easy it is to relate to them on different topics. if i "mistrust" someone, it may not have to do as much with me being afraid they'll screw me over, but it might have more to do with not really feeling like they have a lot of experience or investment, and if i trusted them with a particular thing, it might be an unfair thing to lay on them. if that makes sense.



like i'm all complex and shit

Kim
mdiver

retina
ocean
sextonseven
NDRU

Anxiety said:

which ones would you lend money and know they pay you back when they say they will?

ZombieKitten said:

oh, a bunch of em. good luck finding me on a day when i have enough money to lend, unless you need a can of soda or maybe a box of little debbie snack cakes. if that's the case, then i've got your back.

Ariel
Jess


These two I'd trust with almost anything.


I have different levels of trust in people however and I'm not going to name every single one of the people I have some level of trust in.

Anxiety said:

same here I might have a couple of $2 coins in my apron pocket

ZombieKitten said:

i always carry a book of stamps in my wallet. because, well, i never know when i need to be prepared. i know a lot of people i would loan a stamp to. and these are forever stamps - they're good literally forever! and ever! so i'm not just whistling dixie out my hathole here.

Hokie and LittleSmedley... and maybe one or two other orgers.... maybe

hokie said:

And I feel the same about you, lady

JessieJ said:

littlesmedley seems like a very trustworthy soul.

Anxiety said:

is that like food stamps or postage stamps?

Anxiety said:

He totally is.

Anxiety said:

And I don't?

ZombieKitten said:

they're postage stamps that the post office sold a while back, and no matter how much they jack up the price of stamps, the forever stamps will have the same value as the current price of stamps. it's like perforated gold with gummy backing.

hokie said:

did i say littlesmedley? oh OOPS, i meant hokie

Anxiety said:

oooooh,
weird idea!

Anxiety said:

i think trusting someone with money and trusting someone with sensitive information are two completely different forms of trust, and it's kind of silly to assume just because someone can keep a secret that they'll pay back a loan promptly or vice versa. and i'm not saying that to be all untrustful of people - i just think it's being fair about people and their limitations.

Anxiety said:

I totally agree. There are people I'd trust to pay me back, but I wouldn't dare tell them something I want kept secret. Some people have big mouths.

Anxiety said:

information is a MUCH slipperier thing

ZombieKitten said:

ZombieKitten said:

yes and no. money seems more cut and dried, but i've seen friendships really go south because of money lending issues. if i had to choose between sharing a secret and lending someone money, i don't know which i would consider more potentially volatile. i really don't care about money that much, but if i'm trusting them enough to lend them more than i can afford to give out, that raises the stakes considerably.

ZombieKitten said:

Is that a word?


I have a hard time saying it.