What's wrong with looking??

DexMSR said:

STATIC: don't start none...won't be none!

DexMSR said:

Nothing wrong with looking..but when a guy stare us down or we check them out..dont get mad!!

Brownsugar said:

nothing wrong with looking.. I would rather someone look at me when they are talking to me than look in the sky..

REDFEATHERS said:

a joke.

DexMSR said:

Nothing. Just not when you're with her.

Oh and by the way...WHAP, WHAP, WHAP

Boriqua1130 said:

DexMSR said:

well dex, how about this -

youre with your lady friend and her ass is constantly starring at another man... guess youre gonna say that doesnt bother you at all huh?

DexMSR said:

I thought that's what you meant.
Would it bother you, if the woman you're with, behaves the same way? Checking out hot guys?
At that rate, both should be elsewhere.....like, at a singles bar, with friends.
Extreme jealousy aside, it's distasteful and disrespectful.
If you are a perpetual "player", why date?

xplnyrslf said:

awww shit...

sammij said:

stepping back nice and slow....

xplnyrslf said:

You have a point.

Brownsugar said:

she sure does.

i check out guys & girls when i'm out and so does he, but 99% of the time it's because we like their hair, clothes, etc.

Brownsugar said:

yes, she has a point... kinda what i asked right before that...


except we all know dex
hes gonna say that thats just how he is and she needs to deal with it!
and then, we'll get a whap for askin

sammij said:

Oh Hell Yes!

MY eyes are gonna wander off this thread now

nakedpianoplayer said:

I'm surprised modern women put up with that. It's kinda "old school".....

xplnyrslf said:

you just gotta know dex... he doesnt mean any harm by it, thats just who he is.

nakedpianoplayer said:

Well, he asked the question and there's an answer for ya ass.

rachel3 said:

Please.....

If you are a committed, respectful and thoughtful man then you wouldn't want or need to check out another woman. When you are truly and deeply in love, nobody else body or charisma matters.
In my eyes,nobody else compares to my woman, and I don't need or want to check anybody else out. I am honest about that.

AbucahX said:

All this is great but not a requirement to be respectful of the person whose company you're in. I mean, even if you ain't my man and we may not be in a committed relationship, if we are spending time together, the VERY least you could do is be respectful and gentlemanly and not ogle every hottie that walks by when I'm with you. Or at least, be discreet enough that I won't notice. In the end it's all about respect and appreciation for the person you are with, not scoping for your next conquest.
[Edited 5/1/08 15:47pm]

when are men ever in love

nakedpianoplayer said:[quote]

xplnyrslf said:

you just gotta know dex... he doesnt mean any harm by it, thats just who he is.


Yes, a perpetual bachelor.....
I can see someone with low self esteem, wondering, "What's wrong with me?"
It can be cruel, even if it's not meant to be.....
[Edited 5/2/08 4:12am]

DexMSR said:

maybe it's just your experience "Dex". If my eyes follow my man's to a nice ass... i tend to take a long look for myself. Nothing else. Simply curious.

However, nothing sickens me more than a man thoroughly & purposely checking me out in front of his woman. Some pretty weak ass ish if you ask me.

But i digress.

Dork.

REDFEATHERS said:

CO-sign x billion

Last time that happened was with my ex-fiance. We went to eat at Subway right after a movie at Webster Place Theater. Some girl walked in wearing next to nothing. Now, I'm not some crazy woman who goes all ballistic..I like to look too, but damn, it's about respect. He sat there all slack jawed, practically drooling. I didn't say a word. I just walked over to the girl and told her.."That guy over there thinks you're hot, and wants you to sit with him."

I walked out and got in the car and went to the Shedd Aquarium. Didn't come home for hours. He had to catch a cab.

noimageatall said:

Ouch.

noimageatall said: