MuthaFunka said:

Ah, just like I thought, you wanted to throw a half-insult out there and then run away from it. That's cool, do what you need to, but keep in mind you're not doing your argument any favors.

MuthaFunka said:

Nah, i know a liar and a hypocrite when i see one pal.

evenstar3 said:

Half-insult? C'mon, you're better than that. If you're gonna try and "go there," then at least realize your own attempt at half-insult that started all of this "observing" of one another. But, sorry, that's just the vibe I get from observing you over the course of a year, I just don't see why you're so paranoid about it. It is what it is. But who cares what others think about you? Why are you so caught up in any of that? Makes no sense. You should learn to move on and pay it no mind. You know who you are and that's all that matters.

mdiver said:

And no one here knows one better than you mate.

OK...truthfully? Yes. It probably would bother me. It would depend I guess. I think I could get past it, but if I went on a date with someone and we got more serious and were divulging this info and his number was really high I'd be turned off I think. If he was someone I was really into and meant enough to me I'd try and work through it.

Just being honest folks. It may not be "cool" to say it but yes it would bother me.

I didn't read the thread, and yes, I do care to some extent, because it reflects on the person, like any other thing that the person does.

hokie said:

Much props for at least being honest about it.

If someone has slept with so many people, it means that there's a chance that I might be just another number before they move on. It's not what I'm looking for. If I was looking for sex, then yes, it would probably be a good thing, because a larger number in their past means I probably have a better chance. But it's not what I'm looking for, so lower number would show this person is more committed to be with one person for a long time, or forever.

MuthaFunka said:

Thanks.

Well, for me I have to have a connection with someone and special thing with them to have sex with them.

I can't say for sure because I've never done it, but I don't think I could have a one night stand. It's just not me.

I don't want to judge others. I have my own standards for myself and that's what matters.

It really would depend on the situation and the person. I want to be with someone that values the act of sex as something special. I want them to have the same views on it as I do.

MuthaFunka said:

I merely pointed out that you dismissed a women as a whore, and that your attitude originally displayed was hypocritical. I don't care, I just think it's cute you can't back it up & are trying to use random personal 'observations' that have nothing to do with the topic to get off-course here.

SO- the double standard. It obviously exists, no one's saying it doesn't, but rather that attitudes like your original one are wrongly perpetuating it.

hokie said:

but hokie...what about our threesome?

evenstar3 said:

You should be a lawyer Laurel. You argue in such a scarily intelligent way.

evenstar3 said:

hokie said:

wow, thanks! I don't think they let many art history majors into law school, though.

evenstar3 said:

Please. You have been chasing every on the org in the past few months. You broke my heart long ago.



I thought I was special.

hokie said:

I told you she was a slut.

I suppose it depends on the situation. If I met some female I was attracted to and she told me that she slept with 50 to 80 other men and was telling me that she was sexually active for all of this time, then I might have some misgivings about being with her. But, for instance, let's say that she is in her late 20's or early 30's and admitted that she was a total slut in college and slept with about 80 frat boys and liked getting gangbanged then but changed her ways afterward and had only been in two or three serious sexual relationships in the last five years prior to meeting me, then I wouldn't necessarily hold that against her. Likewise, she could have been a nasty porn star who had sex with 350 men but found God and is being celibate and saving herself for marriage.

hokie said:

I can dig that.

evenstar3 said:

Uh...yeah they do! You don't have to have a specific major to get into law school. I know lots of atypical majors that have been accepted. Lots of psychology majors, history, etc.

I think you could do it if you wanted.

hokie said:

~Pushes Laurel out of the way~


You still got me mamacita! I don't have any other org womenz

MuthaFunka said:

I've spent lots of time doing things and having opinions that pleased someone else. Now it's time to please me. I'm not ashamed for my views. They're mine. And I like them.

hokie said:

noooo! you are! you're the very first person on the org we wanted to !!

evenstar3 said:

And I still don't get why you're so hellbent on what others think about you? Watch this: I don't care what you or anyone else here thinks about me and I don't deem you important in my life to where I would ever care. See? No worries. I'm not gonna obsessed over it and you shouldn't either. Don't allow people that have no affect on your life to hold that kind of power over you. It ain't that deep.

JessieJ said:

If any org girl is getting my it's you.

hokie said:

Now THAT'S what the fuck I'M talkin' about! Stand and stay true to YOUR convictions. Fuck how everyone else wants you to be.

hokie said:

Maybe!

Women that have had many partners can teach you things. Women that have not had many partners, you can teach things. The more things I'm taught, the more I have to teach. And so on....and so on.

What is all this fuss about?

JessieJ said:

Ahem...

MuthaFunka said:

You really do need to try close reading, you missed the bit where I said I don't care.

If you're not obsessing over it, care to address my second point and get back on topic?

MuthaFunka said:

I just got out of a rotten marriage and I finally feel like I can breathe. I was stifled for so long. I've let that go and I'm not looking back. And any man that wants to be with me is going to have to deal with me and my opinions. If he doesn't like them then he can go find someone else. I'm done compromising myself for the sake of someone else.

OK...bitter ex-wife rant over.