MuthaFunka said:

So you're justifying your double-standard against women because it's gone on for centuries, and that somehow makes it okay?

JustErin said:

I disagree wholeheartedly...but

CarrieMpls said:

Sorry, but you're talking about sex - to think men will change how they view women & sex - fat chance. That's like thinking your dad is gonna change and start saying to his daughter "Hey Carrie, how much dick did you get this week?" - Nope! Not happenin'!

pardonme4livin said:

but lol @ hate

REDFEATHERS said:

evenstar3 said:

( Uh-oh, I forgot, I gotta watch you - you like to put words into people's mouths ) - You can't find 1 post to where I said it's justified. All I said is "IT IS WHAT IT IS," meaning it will never change because men in general won't ever be able to ACCEPT women as equals when it comes to being promiscuous.

MuthaFunka said:

Wow. I hope you don't have the same attitude about racism. In fact, I know you don't, so your "c'est la vie" comments are beyond messed up to me.

Guess you only care about issues that only effect you.

MuthaFunka said:

Does your mother say that to you? Of course not.

I'm saying double standards don't have to exist and tend only to exist for the uneducated and hypocritical. Not ALL men feel the way you do. So it already doesn't exist for everyone.

pardonme4livin said:

Oh yes, I forgot being in love with someone gives you more intense orgasms, etc.

JustErin said:

Oh, I know YOU ain't talkin'! We went there in orgnotes about your views on racism and how you let shit slide when you see racist comments, so don't even go there.

And for the record, racism will never go away because there's too much power and money involved for those benefitting from it to let it go.

JustErin said:

Now now Erin...don't get all testy.... you know damn well you've never been in love...

JustErin said:

Exactly. How about we phrase it like this:

lol: Yeah right! If you think you can change CENTURIES of how black people have been viewed all over the world to where it would knock down those stereotypes, then you're more than welcomed to try!

MuthaFunka said:

So you don't think you should try? Or call it out when you see it? You think everyone should just go ahead perpetuating it cause we'll never change anyone's mind anyway?

CarrieMpls said:

I didn't say all men, we are using generalizations, are we not? And I can tell you this, my mom and pop were a lot stricter with my sister and her men than they were with me. I think that's the concensus. Ask around. Ask women if their parents were harder on them (daughters) when it came to dating than they were with their sons. Then ask parents in HERE that have "of age" kids and they will more than likely tell you the same thing.

MuthaFunka said:

Don't give me that fucking bullshit. You know that it was never, ever about letting someone's comments slide, we went over that and you got it by the end of our conversation. So seriously, get off it, dude. Nice try, though.

You're a massive hypocrite. I find that pathetic.

Le fin.

CarrieMpls said:

Are you calling me a ho ?????

CarrieMpls said:

Do you REALLY think stereotypes for ALL people are gonna vanish just because the ORG wants it to?

pardonme4livin said:

Nope, never.

MuthaFunka said:

I'M saying you're justifying it, purely by saying 'it is what it is'. You feel secure in dismissing a woman as a whore, and then went on to say that it'll never change. Justification.

and Erin's dead-on with her comments, and you know it.

pardonme4livin said:

Best sexual chemistry I've ever had was with a friend I disliked strongly.

CarrieMpls said:

Try what? That's not my crusade in life . The problem is, it's not that deep to me. I'm not about governing people's sex lives, so I could care less actually. All I was doing was pointing out at how the double-standard will always flourish because of how women are viewed. Simple as that.

MuthaFunka said:

Do you REALLY think we shouldn't try to dispell sterotypes that are just plain wrong when we see them?

Mars23 said:

This is the only thing i could think of while reading this thread...

"Try not to suck any dick on the way to the car"

To answer the question of the thread title, as long as there's not an STD that's not being mentioned, I could give a damn...

JustErin said:

Bullshit my ass. You wanted to go there, so let's go there - I gave you props on "never backing down" but you didn't say a damn thing until a bunch of us raised hell about that racist comment, so miss me with that nonsense. Again, YOU brought this "racism angle" shit up, so don't get all pissy at me. Ridiculous.

MuthaFunka said:

I suppose then I could say racism isn't that deep to me. Hell, I'm not a minority. I'm not about governing people's lives so I could care less. Racism will always flourish because of how minorities are viewed. Simple as that.







Just to say, I'm only saying it to make a point. I actually do care about racism.

evenstar3 said:

Wrong. Completely wrong. Look up the definition for "justify" and THEN get back to me.

JustErin said:

wanna be friends? you will really dislike me....

MuthaFunka said:

Selective memory AND delusional to the facts. I must have told you oh...I dunno...maybe 25 times that I didn't see racist comments until way after the fact and commented when I did.

But hey, doesn't matter what the facts are...you just don't accept facts.

So you write me off as a racist, that's fine.

I think you're a delusional hypocrite.

I'm ok with this equation.

CarrieMpls said:

Now, show me where I said "No one should dispel stereotypes" . I just said stereotypes won't go away.

chuckecheese said:

That depends.

Are you hot?