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SkletonKee

Teen Murdered after being discovered as a Transgender



(this was started on another thread...to my surpise, many were unaware of this incident...i figured it would be a lil more appropriate to discuss within its own thread)

Newark family rejects 'gay panic' defense
One suspect in slaying of cross-dressing teenager pleads innocent, two others delay pleas
By Robert Airoldi

STAFF WRITER

FREMONT -- One of three suspects pleaded innocent Thursday to the murder of a transgender teen, Eddie "Gwen" Araujo Jr., as a spokeswoman for the victim's family dismissed the legitimacy of a possible "gay panic" defense.
Jaron Chase Nabors, 19, entered his plea at the Fremont Hall of Justice, in front of a throng of local and national media. Jose Antonio Merel, 22, did not enter a plea and Michael William Magidson, 22, is scheduled to return Tuesday to formally hire an attorney. All three will return Nov. 8 for pleas and setting of future court hearings.

Merel and Nabors, both of Newark, and Magidson, of Fremont, are facing murder charges in connection with the beating and strangling of the 17-year-old Newark resident -- who also was known as Lida -- during a Newark party the night of Oct. 3.

The charges carry a hate-crime enhancement because police said Araujo was killed after partygoers discovered he was a male dressed as a woman. Some defense attorneys, in similar cases, have successfully argued that their clients were surprised by an unwanted sexual advance -- a strategy known as gay panic.

"Sylvia (Guerrero, Araujo's mother,) is not inclined to accept any excuses for why her son's life was taken," said Gloria Allred, hired to represent Guerrero, during a press conference outside the courthouse. "(She) is devastated by his death and she is sickened by what are reported to be the so-called reasons for the violent and brutal killing of her child."

Gay panic is a defense strategy in which lawyers suggest defendants committed a crime because they were thrown into a panic by a sexual advance from a person of the same gender.

Attorneys have tried it in several highly publicized cases, including the "Jenny Jones" murder case and the Laramie, Wyo., trial of Aaron McKinney in the murder of Matthew Shepard.

In the Shepard case, the judge barred lawyers from using the gay panic defense, and McKinney was convicted of felony murder. But the strategy has proved successful in other trials.

The day Shepard was found tied to a fence in 1998, a Honolulu jury found Stephen Bright guilty only of a misdemeanor for beating a gay man to death after the man made sexual advances toward Bright.

And in January 2000, a Detroit jury convicted Justin Wallace of manslaughter, rather than murder, for shooting a man he claimed made advances toward him.

Guerrero said she is doing her best to make sense of what happened.

"I want justice for Eddie because this should never have happened, and I never want it to happen to any other child or any other family," she said.

The killing is unforgivable, said Monica Taher, the Western regional media manager for the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation.

"The fact they discovered the gender of the person is not a basis to commit this crime," she said, calling the killing "trans-phobia."

Robert Beles, Nabors' attorney, said his client is not guilty of a homicide and is "frightened and feels the overwhelming tragedy of the situation."

"There's not a shred of homophobia in my client's background or in his nature," Beles said.

An anticipated protest outside the court by the Rev. Fred Phelps, the church leader who plans to picket Araujo's funeral today, did not materialize. Phelps also said he plans to picket Newark Memorial High School's production of "The Laramie Project," an account of Shepard's murder.

Araujo's body was found Oct. 16 after Nabors led police to a shallow grave halfway between Pollock Pines and Lake Tahoe, about seven miles south of Highway 50.

Araujo, who died of asphyxia due to strangulation associated with blunt trauma to the head, was discovered in the same clothes he wore to the party -- a black shirt, denim skirt and thongs.

He was punched and dragged into the garage of the Newark home, where he was killed.

A rope was tied around his neck, and he had been hit with a blunt object.

Whatever the eventual outcome, it will not bring Araujo back, Allred said.

"His physical body has been taken from us. However, we believe that Eddie's spirit lives on and we want to make sure that he did not die in vain," she said.

Contributions to the family may be sent to the Eddie Araujo Jr. Memorial Fund at San Benito Bank, 300 Tres Pinos Road, Hollister, CA 95023.

Anyone with information may call police at (510) 790-7237.




kee says:
also of note is this article

Newark teen's family, activists differ on memorials
By Yomi S. Wronge
Mercury News


Photo courtesy of Sylvia Guerrero

Transgendered teenager Eddie Araujo in an undated photograph.


To the family that had come to accept his sexuality, Eddie Araujo was so much more than a transgender teen. Eddie, who sometimes used the name Gwen, was a multidimensional human being -- a great kid, a music lover, a stylish dresser -- cut down in the prime of his life.

That's the story they want told.

To members of the transgender community, the fact that Gwen Araujo was transgender is the story. They feel strongly connected to the 17-year-old who was allegedly killed by three men who found she was not anatomically female.

They want Gwen's story to raise awareness and highlight discrimination.

And therein lies the point of contention in an awkward situation where both family and advocates want Eddie remembered for what they believe he, or she, represents.

``This not a gay issue; this is a human issue,'' said Eddie's mother, Sylvia Guerrero. She and other family members fear that Eddie's story is being used to further political causes.

``Right now,'' said Eddie's uncle, David Guerrero, ``we just want to bury Eddie and focus on bringing those responsible to justice.''

But to a community that has long suffered intolerance, the death is one in a string of violent acts against transgender people, and there is an obligation to speak out.

``If the family doesn't want to be associated with the community we definitely respect their feelings,'' said Rachael Janelle Light, president of Transgender San Francisco, an advocacy group. ``But we must represent that we lost a young sister.''

While Eddie's family plans a private funeral service for later this week, activists from throughout California and the nation are organizing vigils, rallies and protests.

``I'm getting 40 e-mails a day,'' Light said. The Bay Area activist groups ``are bringing in more of their heavier guns. I'm definitely seeing a rallying around.''

The National Transgender Advocacy Coalition estimates there have been 25 killings of transgender people this year, making 2002 the deadliest year on record, according to the group's Web site. There have been 38 such slayings in California since 1990, the Web site states.

``Another one of us is gone,'' said Elaine Rhodes, 47, of San Jose, a pre-operative transsexual who has been living as a woman since January.

Day of remembrance

On Nov. 20, members of the transgender community plan to gather to honor Gwen and all victims in at least 35 locations nationally and internationally during the Day of Remembrance, designed to memorialize victims of murder and bias. From quiet events with a handful of people to candlelight vigils to performance events to art installations, each city finds its own way to make the lives of those killed visible.

On that day there will be special memorials to Gwen at the Billy DeFrank Lesbian and Gay Community Center in San Jose and the San Francisco Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center.

Guerrero said her answering machine stays full with messages of condolence from people throughout the gay community. For that she is both overwhelmed and appreciative, but she prefers the family be left to grieve privately.

This week, the gay Latino community will show its support to the family with a vigil Friday in the Castro district, the heart of San Francisco's gay community. There is a growing altar in memory of Gwen at 18th and Castro streets.

``Unfortunately, when gay, lesbian or transgender persons of color experience violence . . . the media pays little attention,'' said Monica Taher of the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, based in Los Angeles. The group recently launched a Spanish-language initiative and has teamed up with two other Latino groups, AGUILAS and Proyecto Contra SIDA Por Vida in San Francisco, to address Eddie's slaying.

Hundreds of people from across the state and the country are expected to descend upon the Bay Area this weekend to pay homage to Gwen with marches and vigils. They also want to be on hand to confront the Rev. Fred Phelps, a fundamentalist preacher from Kansas, who on Tuesday said that he will picket Eddie's funeral -- if he can find out where it is.

``No one is going to scare us back into the closets we came out of,'' said Fremont teen Felicia Avila, 17. She is organizing a march Friday with other high school students.

Identification

``My feeling is the community is not wanting to make a political football out of Gwen,'' said Denis Moore, pastor at Metropolitan Community Church of San Jose. The ministry supports gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people. But ``there's a strong sense of identity with her,'' he said. ``They want to lift her up.''

Carolyn Laub, executive director of the Gay-Straight Alliance Network, which oversees 300 clubs at schools throughout California, said that whether or not Eddie's family embraces the attention, their actions support the cause.

``What is inspiring to me is to see a family that loved and accepted their child for who she was,'' Laub said. ``That, in itself, is a political message.''


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Mercury News Staff Writer Renee Koury contributed to this report. Contact Yomi S. Wronge at ywronge@sjmercury.com or (510) 790-7315.
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Reply #1 posted 10/28/02 9:01pm

Natasha

How very Sad. My Condolances go out to the Families. I cannot Believe that HomoPhobia still Exist Today. Please guys if you are Dressing as a woman please make sure you Tell the one you are with. Don't keep any Crying Game Surprises because this kind of thing happens Way Too Often.
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Reply #2 posted 10/28/02 9:46pm

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That's my town eek

I'm so embarrassed redface
I mean, like, where is the sun?
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Reply #3 posted 10/28/02 9:50pm

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How very very sad... cry
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Reply #4 posted 10/28/02 11:56pm

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This has been a major story in the Bay Area, so friggin' sad. Dude was gorgeous, could have been a model... cry
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Reply #5 posted 10/29/02 12:14am

garganta

This is so sad.

But what really got me mad though reading the article is the fact that that horrible Rev. Phelps is planning to picket the boy´s funeral.

What a mean, horrible, despicable son a bitch!!!
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Reply #6 posted 10/29/02 12:43am

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"Gay panic defense" ? - That's pretty messed up disbelief

How awfully sad, and unfortunately not an isolated case.

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Reply #7 posted 10/29/02 1:51am

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garganta said:

This is so sad.

But what really got me mad though reading the article is the fact that that horrible Rev. Phelps is planning to picket the boy´s funeral.

What a mean, horrible, despicable son a bitch!!!


My cousin heard him on some radio station, spewing all kinds of hate. I just don't understand some people... sad
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Reply #8 posted 10/29/02 6:06am

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Same thing happened to two transgender 20 year-olds in D.C. this past summer. Shot multiple times while sitting in a car minding their own business. The person(s) who did haven't been found yet.
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Reply #9 posted 10/29/02 6:57am

Tom

Gay Panic? What the hell? Its ok to murder someone if they hit on you and you're not interested? Does this apply to heterosexual situations as well. I can't believe people consider this a defense.

How about there would be no "panic" if these uptight bastards weren't conditioning people to fear homosexuality in the first place. How hard is it to say "sorry dude I'm not interested"?

Theres a special place deep in hell for the murderers as well as people like "Reverend" Phelps.
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Reply #10 posted 10/29/02 7:07am

endorphin74

Wow..this is just horrible... sad

My heart goes out to this family. heart

The 'gay panic' defense is the sillies thing I've ever heard..
Tom- you hit it right on the head, can you imagine how many straight men would be killed daily if women could kill them for unwanted advances??

It makes me sad that in this day there is still so much ignorance in the world...
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Reply #11 posted 10/29/02 7:16am

SkletonKee

endorphin74 said:

The 'gay panic' defense is the sillies thing I've ever heard..
Tom- you hit it right on the head, can you imagine how many straight men would be killed daily if women could kill them for unwanted advances??

It makes me sad that in this day there is still so much ignorance in the world...



one of the reasons that I feel this story hasnt received Mathew Sheppard proportions is that the boys had *sexual relations* under false pretenses with this girl. So, and i hate to say this, the 'gay panic' could possibly be a justified defense...

now, obviously, no actions deserve death...but, i think the gay community really needs to look at its actions...and learn from this horrible incident...

and the boys who murdered the poor girl need to be locked up forever, as an example...dont f*ck with life...
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Reply #12 posted 10/29/02 7:49am

endorphin74

SkletonKee said:

one of the reasons that I feel this story hasnt received Mathew Sheppard proportions is that the boys had *sexual relations* under false pretenses with this girl. So, and i hate to say this, the 'gay panic' could possibly be a justified defense...

now, obviously, no actions deserve death...but, i think the gay community really needs to look at its actions...and learn from this horrible incident...

and the boys who murdered the poor girl need to be locked up forever, as an example...dont f*ck with life...


with the sexual relations aspect thrown in, I wouldn't be surprised if the court allows the "gay panic" defense...as you said though, the girl didn't deserve death...

it just boils down to the basic rule that you need to be honest about who you are before entering into a sexual relationship...

sad it's just a sad, sad situation

I'm a bit confused, though? what were the 'sexual relations'??
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Reply #13 posted 10/29/02 8:07am

Natasha

I was thinking of a movie awhile ago which I mentioned,but forgot the title, "Paris Is Burning." One of the characters in it was also killed because of this kind of thing. How about the JOHN Dahlia/ DELIA case from a Long time ago? Except both his Male Lover and a Woman {Robyn}from Scarsdale were Accused of his killing.
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Reply #14 posted 10/29/02 8:12am

SkletonKee

endorphin74 said:

I'm a bit confused, though? what were the 'sexual relations'??



the media outlets dont seem to want to say..the only reason i found this out was because a local panel was discussing the issue and it was aired on one of our pbs stations...all they kept refering to was "sexual relations"...im assuming of the oral kind...

obviously, it wasnt anal...the only reason the boys found out what was really going on was that he/she had bent over to pick something up..she was wearing a real tight leather mini-skirt..and i guess during the bend, the bulge became appearant...
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Reply #15 posted 10/29/02 8:15am

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This is just plain EVIL!!! This shouldn't happen to anyone regardless. The gay community looks at many serious issues, but this isn't why ppl in the gay community get killed.

If you think into most relationships straight, gay, bi whatever there's usually lies. I have heard so many ppl say they lied about their age or they lied about this. Should they get killed for it?

I understand we have a situation more intense than that, but it's still not right. For example I had a friend that naturally looked like a girl his whole life... all his boyfriends were stright gansta and football types that all the girls wanted. I few times he would be interested in a fella and would ask that fella you know what's going on right? And the fella's always said oh yeah I know, have sex, and then freak out the next morning b/c he's a man. They knew that from the beginning but didn't mind the night before.

I have to say that some in the Gay community are out there and mess with straight folks, but shoot them same dang straight folks are out there messing with me. I don't want to be bothered by those men but if I dare tell them I'm not interested because I like women only they would call me every name in the book. Doesn't matter if he didn't let anybody know he's really a man, the hate is there no matter what.

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Reply #16 posted 10/29/02 8:25am

Natasha

What I wanna know is why is it much more accepted to see 2 Lesbians in Public but Male Homosexuality still has to be IN THE CLOSET? Transgender guys please don't PRETEND ! Tell the Guy you are With that you have a Penis! Tell Them! Guys ,please Don't Hurt these Transgenders who are having a Hard enough time dealing in a world where they feel they are Trapped in another Body. Put yourself in Their Shoes! How would you feel if you felt you were a Woman but had a Penis? And have you seen what some of these Drs. have done to young guys? They have removed their Balls,given them Female hormones and given them Breast Implants,etc. These are MINORS! These Unscrupulous Drs. Will do Anything for Money! They have made these young boys Freaks sometimes all Scarred up and they can't Ejaculate or get their Penis' Hard anymore. This is Horrendous. Do you Realize how Much THERAPY these TRANSGENDERS Need ? I Feel for Them Soo Much. It Sucks being in that kind of State.
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Reply #17 posted 10/29/02 8:33am

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I hate to say this but those women out there expressing their Lesbian affection, usually aren't lesbians. These ppl do it for attention. I would almost bet that majority of the ones you see would have a penis in their mouth the next day. I have no respect for this at all. Gives the Lesbian communtiy a really bed reputation. I mean I know very few real lesbians that actually go out showing their lesbain affection in public. The most affection I've ever showed was by holding my girlfriend's hand in a large crowd. I wasn't holding it because affection I was holding it because I didn't want us to get lost from eachother. That time I did that the bartender came up to us and said they weren't gonna have that. eek I asked have what and they said gay affection because it teases the guys. So my point is that it's not easier for the real lesbians!!

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Reply #18 posted 10/29/02 9:43am

applekisses

This is so horrible...she was beautiful...I'm sure in makeup and out of it.
This shit has to stop. What the hell is wrong with people? Are they so afraid of their own sexuality? I disagree on the "gay panic" thing...what I think is that these murderers killed this innocent beauty because THEY were attracted to HER -- a transgender male -- and couldn't handle the thoughts in their minds that they could possibly be "gay" because they were attracted to a man dressed as a woman. But, HELLO, he was DRESSED AS A WOMAN. They were attracted to the illusion that this man was actually female.
But, regardless...why is hurting or killing someone the answer to this, or the answer to ANYTHING??
I'm outraged...
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Reply #19 posted 10/29/02 11:24am

SkletonKee

applekisses said:

This is so horrible...she was beautiful...I'm sure in makeup and out of it.
This shit has to stop. What the hell is wrong with people? Are they so afraid of their own sexuality? I disagree on the "gay panic" thing...what I think is that these murderers killed this innocent beauty because THEY were attracted to HER -- a transgender male -- and couldn't handle the thoughts in their minds that they could possibly be "gay" because they were attracted to a man dressed as a woman. But, HELLO, he was DRESSED AS A WOMAN. They were attracted to the illusion that this man was actually female.
But, regardless...why is hurting or killing someone the answer to this, or the answer to ANYTHING??
I'm outraged...


no..this isnt the case here...this boy/girl was passable as a girl...yes, her friends knew her true orienation...however, she had started to attend parties with a different crowd..and she/he was passing herself off as a she...the people at the party were unaware of her true sex...and the boys that had "relations" were unaware...ive seen other pictures of the poor girl and she could easily pass as a girl..quit beautiful...so to say these boys were confused that she was a boy is not the case...they didnt know otherwise...until someone at the party noticed...
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Reply #20 posted 10/29/02 12:58pm

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We still got a real long way to go...
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Reply #21 posted 10/29/02 3:49pm

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My two cents? I cannot under any circumstance condone a "gay panic" defense. If someone if so messed up in the head that their first reaction to deal with an albeit scary and/or shocking situation is to lash out with violence, and in this case end up murdering someone, they need to be locked away to protect the public. Point blank. (Not to mention receive some serious counseling!) I fully understand that the men in question were probably angered and confused at the turn of events, but this does not in any way, shape or form justify their actions.

Truly tragic.

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