Ok so peopke started talkin about Mr. T and stuff and it got kinda clique so back to the question...


Now how come my partner can talk about who we would do on the street but when I say, "hey maybe we can.." he shuts me down quickly and said, "we are enough, we dont need no more.."

paisleypark4 said:

Cuz some guys like to talk, but at the same time stay monogamous and not slut out like most other fags.

Talking about it is one thing, doing is another.

Because he wants to be monogamous?

HamsterHuey said:

That is true. I just always thought that if some1 talk about it so much they must want to go that way. I never had a guy who openly expresses who he would do on the streets. I thought I was bad. I for one whom hate relationships; is willing to be open just because i don't think they work.

paisleypark4 said:

You saying you prefer open relationships or not?

Cuz open relationships work for some, but not for others. Relationships are different from one person to another, even from one day to another; nothing ever stays the same.

I have found out, the more secure I am of myself, the better my relationships work. You cannot enter a closed relationship, then act surprised if the other does not want an open relation.

It all comes down to communication.

gay men are so promiscuous. He probably DOES want it, but wants to see you beg.

HamsterHuey said:

I have never been in one. Never even had a 3some (which I am kinda curious about). But when i was in a very strong relationship I got cheated on so I made the adjustment to be more open for myself and my partner....


Lawd, these men will drive u up the wall if u let them.

Anxiety said:

im @ work so i cant view the video...

paisleypark4 said:

i think we are seeing the same guy, paisley.

We do alot of talking about hot guys we see around and about etc. But there is a thin line with him of how far that goes before feelings get hurt and the talk of actually doing it in reality is a no -no . I learned once.

Stymie said:

This is a foreign concept.

People cheat in straight *and* gay relationships. But in gay relationships it seems people are more willing to compromise/sacrifice what they want from a relationship because we honestly have a lot less choice than straight counterparts. It's like, "Well, he cheated on me, but I'm willing to be open to 'keep' him."
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My ex went straight past conceiving and talking. He straight up fucked other guys while we were together..
"Oh, you didn't think it was cool? But we BOTH agreed he was cute..."

newpower99 said:

Man I always wondered if I would ever be jealous of another man...I can't really say after not taking relationships seriously anymore