rushing07 said:

awwwww, that's SENSATIONAL!

But alas, it's true...Lukasz does have an americanized penis yall. Except for the scale... It's very greek (NSFW) http://www.danonderdonk.c...ushing.gif (NSFW)

rushing07 said:

No problem- both don't have to be uncut to have a little fun .

Well, now that we've gotten docking out of the way , let's move on to painting.

CarrieMpls said:

lol, i saw an older couple the other day ...they both had jean jackets and pants...I thought it was so cute.

newpower99 said:

Nor should they be all offended when I don't have an extra toothbrush in the morning.

eleven said:

Choo choo

Imago said:

Now you're just reaching

rushing07 said:

Imago said:

Like Face Painting? Isn't that for kids?

superspaceboy said:

help me out here Bob: http://prince.org/msg/7/265523?pg=1

I think I'm about to get flamed.

superspaceboy said:

never done the 3way thing, but I always thought thats the best way to make a relationship fufilling when 2 partners can agree to have fun with another instead of cheating.

Imago said:

DAMN, what kind of gay relationships are you all talking about?

then again, i thought "going to third base" meant that i could flash some ankle at my sweetie without being called a filthy whore.

paisleypark4 said:

that's why there is open relationships.

superspaceboy said:

For myself, I'm strictly monogamous. I feel if we need to open that area up, too much is missing in the relationship for it to be worth sustaining. I know guys in open relationships, and they spend more time fucking others than they do enjoying their supposed partner. That's not for me.

VoicesCarry said:

but that doesn't apply to every open relationship though. the cool thing about them is you negoate what works.

one of my mentors is a gay couple that have been together for 25 years and been open for 20 of those years. and i don't know two people more in love.
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ehuffnsd said:

That's exactly what I meant. Those are just the guys I have had contact with (no, not that kind of contact). Just like it's wrong to say all open relationships are like that, it's also spurious to suggest no gay man is capable of a happy monogamous relationship. "Because we'd wind up cheating, anyway" is, to me, not a reason to open up the relationship; it's a reason to end it. But that's just me.

I don't think open relationships are the norm in the gay world, anyway. I think you have stated you share that view in the past.
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VoicesCarry said:

I can only do the open thing If I'm not in love with that person, aka fuck buddies. But if my feelings are involved, I haven't been able to accept someone else being with my partner. I can have sex for the sake of having it but when my heart is involved, sex is something much more for me.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Me, too. Ultimately you find the person that complements you best. Everyone, gay and straight, has different standards for their relationships, but I just have to laugh when I'm told I'm "conforming to the straight agenda" or some shit like that simply because I don't fuck around.

VoicesCarry said:

i think most gay relationships start out monogamous. i know i would, but i also think that it's probably 50/50 after a certain point.

VoicesCarry said:

God gave me naturally green eyes for a reason

VoicesCarry said:

you are only conforming if you look down on those who have open relationships.

i will say most people i know are in some form of open relationship but i think that has more to do with the section of gay world i'm in.

ehuffnsd said:

Same in the straight world. I think we're just more likely to make it open and maintain the relationship. Whether or not it's worth maintaining is another matter. I think when both of you are on gay.com trolling for dick 24/7, there's something truly sad and wrong, though. It's pretty common.
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ehuffnsd said:

I don't look down on them if they don't look down on me. It's mutual. But I've gotten that line a LOT, I'm sorry to say. Also, if I want to get married, I'm now "a slave of the straight institution of marriage" or some shit like that.

ehuffnsd said:

See, I don't want to have to be expected to be open to open relationships either. I don't judge those for having them if it works for them but lots of guys have the expectation that it has to be that way and for stupid romantic lovebugs like me, dating really can suck because of this. I'm possessive but not controlling, if that makes sense. I can't even say that I couldn't function within an open relationship but all my relationships have intended to be monogomous and none of them worked out that way. I think I'd rather know up front this is the deal than be cheated on. I'd rather be alone than to love someone and they cheat on me.

ehuffnsd said:

i think more and more, though, gay couples are following more monogamous/heteronormative models because it satisfies a pressure to be seen as a valid family unit by mainstream society. not that i agree or disagree with that decision - but i do think it's a strong reality.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

see i feel the same way about people who say monogomy or no. in the begining yes but you never know what the future brings.

ehuffnsd said:

Some people know what they want. I won't accept anything else from a partner. There are guys who want nothing but an open relationship, or don't even want a relationship at all. They know this, it's acceptable and they're up front about it.

Anxiety said:

i dunno. like i said because of my involvement in a certain part of the community, btw what are you doing memorial day weekend, i don't see alot of heternomoative beheaviour. even the straight people i know don't follow that model.

ehuffnsd said:

Well the older I've gotten the more I know I want monogomy but I'm not going to chain a person down either. Probably why I don't have a partner and struggle in my dating life. I would have to be so outerspace confident in my partners love for me that him being with someone else for a get off wouldn't matter. I'm not sure that it would never matter to me no matter how old I am. Not sure.