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tell us about your first born child... 1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise?
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? 3. did IT hurt? 4. how did it change you as a person? i'm asking thse questions because my 43 year old sister just had her son (first one) totally unplanned. she usually was selfish and kinda standoffish, but i swear now she is like this different person. just wanted to know if this was normal  | |
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The Pill is only 99.9 % effective - JT, my 1st was that .1% and I thank the stars every day for that blessing ... amazing incredible young man that he is
His Father was the 1st person I told - then we didnt tell anyone else for weeks Did What hurt ? Labor and delivery - mucho pain ( 36 hrs of unmedicated process ) but I would do that over 10 times to have him again I can not even begine to really explain the consistant change having and rasising a child puts a person through - some changes are large and some tiny congrats to you sis  | |
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Still working on that....ANY TAKERS!!
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DexMSR said: Still working on that....ANY TAKERS!!
That's icredible  - I was just thinking this morning if you wanted to have children
I was going to orgnote you and now I do not have to 
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Fury said: 1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise?
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? 3. did IT hurt? 4. how did it change you as a person? i'm asking thse questions because my 43 year old sister just had her son (first one) totally unplanned. she usually was selfish and kinda standoffish, but i swear now she is like this different person. just wanted to know if this was normal WOW 43. Congrats to them.
I do not have any children and will be 37 this June. So I have no experience in this area. I have seen them change ppl..for better and for worse. | |
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1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise?
Blessed by suprise...yeah, I just go with that.
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? I told my best friend. He had the reaction that I thought he would. He was awesome and he is my son's Godfather....which is pretty irrelevent now that he's 20 years old.
3. did IT hurt? Did what hurt? Childbirth?
4. how did it change you as a person? It tested my faith in God. | |
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shanti0608 said: Fury said: 1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise?
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? 3. did IT hurt? 4. how did it change you as a person? i'm asking thse questions because my 43 year old sister just had her son (first one) totally unplanned. she usually was selfish and kinda standoffish, but i swear now she is like this different person. just wanted to know if this was normal WOW 43. Congrats to them.
I do not have any children and will be 37 this June. So I have no experience in this area. I have seen them change ppl..for better and for worse. LOL...she had a one nite booty stand with a married guy....and whoomp-there it is...that being said....my nephew, no matter how he got here, is the cutest little fella since i was a baby  | |
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Fury said: shanti0608 said: WOW 43. Congrats to them.
I do not have any children and will be 37 this June. So I have no experience in this area. I have seen them change ppl..for better and for worse. LOL...she had a one nite booty stand with a married guy....and whoomp-there it is...that being said....my nephew, no matter how he got here, is the cutest little fella since i was a baby Oh my goodness.... wow.... well congrats to her and your nephew then. I guess you never know what the future holds.  | |
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Mach said: DexMSR said: Still working on that....ANY TAKERS!!
That's icredible - I was just thinking this morning if you wanted to have children
I was going to orgnote you and now I do not have to
Being careful and Lucky mixed in..... Whap Plus I vowed not to follow in the footsteps of so many men just making babies with no committment to taking care of them. The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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My first child was not planed an it was a surprise,there was alot of unhappy people when I tood them,the father wasn't happy at all. I think back now I am so happy I have her. | |
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Fury said: 1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise?
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? 3. did IT hurt? 4. how did it change you as a person? i'm asking thse questions because my 43 year old sister just had her son (first one) totally unplanned. she usually was selfish and kinda standoffish, but i swear now she is like this different person. just wanted to know if this was normal 1. Not planned, totally unexpected. 2. My mother. She was thrilled, I was mortified. 3. Like a motherfucker. 4. It changed me in every single way. I totally got my shit together immediately. | |
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1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? working at it for three years
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? my husband, yes he was happy 3. did IT hurt?  YES
4. how did it change you as a person? it brought out a love in me i thought i never had   | |
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1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? Working at it 
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? My mom...and yeah, she was excited and kept screaming and laughing and screaming some more lol
3. did IT hurt? Not me...heh 
4. how did it change you as a person? In ways too numerous to mention...all of them positive. | |
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1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? Big surprise
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? mom, we both cried 3. did IT hurt? not as bad as I thought, thats why Im scared of having another, I have a feeling the next one will be horrible since the first was a breeze 4. how did it change you as a person? I was way too young to be having a child, had to grow up real fast. Rhythm floods my heart♥The melody it feeds my soul | |
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Fury said: 1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? Yes, big surprise! In a happy way too... I was very young, 18 when I found out.
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? The father of the baby, then my mom... he told me to get "rid" of it, my mom was stunned.... 3. did IT hurt? Having the baby? not really, epidural 
Emotionally yes, I felt like I was the only happy person about my pregnancy...fuck em'
4. how did it change you as a person? It quickly made me stronger before he was born, and never regretted it since. i'm asking thse questions because my 43 year old sister just had her son (first one) totally unplanned. she usually was selfish and kinda standoffish, but i swear now she is like this different person. just wanted to know if this was normal Love makes you grow... it really changes you 
Me and my boo...Danzel . [Edited 2/21/08 9:51am] | |
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paintedlady said: Fury said: 1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? Yes, big surprise! In a happy way too... I was very young, 18 when I found out.
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? The father of the baby, then my mom... he told me to get "rid" of it, my mom was stunned.... 3. did IT hurt? Having the baby? not really, epidural
Emotionally yes, I felt like I was the only happy person about my pregnancy...fuck em'
4. how did it change you as a person? It quickly made me stronger before he was born, and never regretted it since. i'm asking thse questions because my 43 year old sister just had her son (first one) totally unplanned. she usually was selfish and kinda standoffish, but i swear now she is like this different person. just wanted to know if this was normal Love makes you grow... it really changes you
Me and my boo...Danzel . [Edited 2/21/08 9:51am] adorable!due to the content i suggest you like this... | |
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DexMSR said: Still working on that....ANY TAKERS!!
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sweet said: DexMSR said: Still working on that....ANY TAKERS!!
Whap!!! U just want to "Practice" making babies..... The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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sweet said: adorable![/quote]
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DexMSR said: sweet said: Whap!!! U just want to "Practice" making babies..... practice makes perfect eh? due to the content i suggest you like this... | |
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Fury said: 1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise?
I'm still surprised!! 2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? The first person WHO TOLD ME I was pregnant was my mother and she had the complete opposite reaction than expected. 3. did IT hurt? Yes 4. how did it change you as a person? I'm very blessed. Syd is a GREAT kid. I'm glad I've been given stewardship over such a great spirit. I had Syd at 22. I really can't say how I've changed at this point. You fall so in love with this new life and you do everything you can to love it and protect it. I was scared but I had a "village" of family and friends that helped me then AND still help me now. My girlfriends are all getting ready for Syd to graduate next year and its so cool to have that support and love. i'm asking thse questions because my 43 year old sister just had her son (first one) totally unplanned. she usually was selfish and kinda standoffish, but i swear now she is like this different person. just wanted to know if this was normal | |
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Mach said: The Pill is only 99.9 % effective - JT, my 1st was that .1% and I thank the stars every day for that blessing ... amazing incredible young man that he is
Wow!
I was a .1 percenter too. Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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veronikka said: 1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? Big surprise
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? mom, we both cried 3. did IT hurt? not as bad as I thought, thats why Im scared of having another, I have a feeling the next one will be horrible since the first was a breeze 4. how did it change you as a person? I was way too young to be having a child, had to grow up real fast. JustErin said: 1. Not planned, totally unexpected.
2. My mother. She was thrilled, I was mortified. 3. Like a motherfucker. 4. It changed me in every single way. I totally got my shit together immediately. I admire you both so much it's embarassing ...  | |
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One4All4Ever said: veronikka said: 1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? Big surprise
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? mom, we both cried 3. did IT hurt? not as bad as I thought, thats why Im scared of having another, I have a feeling the next one will be horrible since the first was a breeze 4. how did it change you as a person? I was way too young to be having a child, had to grow up real fast. JustErin said: 1. Not planned, totally unexpected.
2. My mother. She was thrilled, I was mortified. 3. Like a motherfucker. 4. It changed me in every single way. I totally got my shit together immediately. I admire you both so much it's embarassing ... Awwww.... | |
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Fury said: 1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise?
We were working on it ... hard ... hearing that it were twins was a HUGE SURPRISE
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? My parents ... They were scared for us because
3. did IT hurt? not at all
4. how did it change you as a person? Where 2 start ... I am another me since then i'm asking thse questions because my 43 year old sister just had her son (first one) totally unplanned. she usually was selfish and kinda standoffish, but i swear now she is like this different person. just wanted to know if this was normal | |
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Fury said: 1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? I was 17 and in complete and total shock and fear!
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? the baby's Dad,now my husband, we married 3 months before our son was born. 3. did IT hurt? It hurt like hell, but I have since had 3 more kids, all girls, they hurt even worse!! 4. how did it change you as a person? in more ways then I will ever know! One day I was a dumb 17 year old stumbling through life, next thing I know I am a Mother and wife!! i'm asking thse questions because my 43 year old sister just had her son (first one) totally unplanned. she usually was selfish and kinda standoffish, but i swear now she is like this different person. just wanted to know if this was normal My blessings to your sister, I was 17 when I had my first, and 37 when I gave birth to my last!! I gave birth to my beautiful baby boy when I was only 17, he changed my life forever, I was scared as hell in the beginning but seeing that gorgeous little boy for the first time, made me a better person. All the odds were against us, I was 17, my new husband was 21 and we were dirt poor and renting a room from an old couple!! Some how we made it, and went on to have 3 girls later on in life. Now that gorgeous little boy is a man, 24 and a sucessful writer/reporter for our local paper.  We did good!!
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PaisleyPark5083 said: Fury said: 1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? I was 17 and in complete and total shock and fear!
2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? the baby's Dad,now my husband, we married 3 months before our son was born. 3. did IT hurt? It hurt like hell, but I have since had 3 more kids, all girls, they hurt even worse!! 4. how did it change you as a person? in more ways then I will ever know! One day I was a dumb 17 year old stumbling through life, next thing I know I am a Mother and wife!! i'm asking thse questions because my 43 year old sister just had her son (first one) totally unplanned. she usually was selfish and kinda standoffish, but i swear now she is like this different person. just wanted to know if this was normal My blessings to your sister, I was 17 when I had my first, and 37 when I gave birth to my last!! I gave birth to my beautiful baby boy when I was only 17, he changed my life forever, I was scared as hell in the beginning but seeing that gorgeous little boy for the first time, made me a better person. All the odds were against us, I was 17, my new husband was 21 and we were dirt poor and renting a room from an old couple!! Some how we made it, and went on to have 3 girls later on in life. Now that gorgeous little boy is a man, 24 and a sucessful writer/reporter for our local paper. We did good!!
My son, Angel How proud you must be Rhythm floods my heart♥The melody it feeds my soul | |
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We are!! he is the best! | |
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Fury said: 1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? Totally by surprise, but completely loved and wanted 2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? My mother... I knew she'd be over the moon 3. did IT hurt? Nah. But it did get a little gamey... 4. how did it change you as a person? I don't have the words... i'm asking thse questions because my 43 year old sister just had her son (first one) totally unplanned. she usually was selfish and kinda standoffish, but i swear now she is like this different person. just wanted to know if this was normal | |
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