violator said:

I do not have any biological children, but I two beautiful step-daughters that I claim as my own...they have been part of my life since they were 2 and 5....now they are 27 and 30!

Fury said:[quote]1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise?... "SURPRISE"

2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for?... THE DADDY - WRAPPED UP THE STICK AND GAVE IT 2 HIM 4 CHRISTMAS

3. did IT hurt?... OMG ALL I CAN SAY IS EPIDURAL MY FRIEND - EPIDUURRALLL!

4. how did it change you as a person?... 100% I CAN'T IMAGINE HOW I COPED WITHOUT HER!

Hence, she is my 1 and only!!

1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? A wonderful surprise, and I was kinda working at it too.

2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? The first person I told was her birthfather, then my best friend. Yes, the reaction was what I thought, happy, and scared.

3. did IT hurt? Yes it did! I was in labor for 28 hrs! And I did it without drugs!

4. how did it change you as a person?
My baby girl changed my life, she gave me a reason to live. She made me a better person. I truly believe with out her, I wouldn't be here. She was truly a blessing and I love her more and more everyday. And now, she is making me a Memaw!

veronikka said:

Young yes, but what an awesome job you have done!

Tell us about your first born child....

1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? Honestly, we were at a bit of a crossroads...we'd recently gotten back together after a short hiatus (prior to marriage) and weren't sure if that was a good idea....then she told me she was expecting....lots of wary looks along with the excitement of being first time parents and her insecurity about our lack of marital status...

2. who was the first person you told? We told our parents....did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? Both sets of parents thought it was the apocolypse....mine cried trap, hers thought she was pregnant for the anti-christ....

3. did IT hurt? She about broke my hand during one of her contractions...and I've never in my life been called THAT many bastards and MoFo-s...so I'll go out on a limb and say HELL YEAH!!!!

4. how did it change you as a person? My son was born on the 4th of July, 1991...and watching him being born (yeah, I was in there, nose to the grindstone so to speak) was easily one of the most profound moments of my life...it just took me a while to realize it....

It's in my nuts somewhere.

MoniGram said:

We do what we can, right!

TY, Moni

reneGade20 said:

http://www.prince.org/msg/100/134937

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Such a great uncle!

1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? total surprise

2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? the first person I told was the dad. His reaction was not what I hoped for or expected.

3. did IT hurt? It did.

4. how did it change you as a person? I can't describe how I've changed. But I changed a lot. The current me is nothing like who I was before I had a child.

My first is now 13 . when he was born He didn't cry at all. All he did was look around and when he saw me his eyes stayed on me. He was all dark and chocolatey with this big mass of curly hair to this day he's been a really quiet kid.

1. Shock would be the word.

2. My mother and I found out when she took me to the doctor. We thought I had the flu. She and my grandmother took it in stride and helped me and my hubby a lot.

3. He popped out in 5 hours without excruciating pain. Unlike his younger brother who took nearly 24 hrs and kicked my butt!

4. I was so young, (18) it's kind of like we raised each other. I'm very proud of the extraordinary man he has become and can't imagine life without him. He's without a doubt one of the best things that's ever happened in my life.

This is my boy...

http://profile.myspace.co...ea21e47fb2

heybaby said:

Beautiful pic!

probably a bit too much of a blast from the past, but the first thing i thought of when i saw this thread title was:


"HRH Gregory Alive. Dreamfirstborn, jew"

heybaby said:

He has very soulful eyes!

1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? tried for 9 months

2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? well actually, I was the last to know EVERYONE said I must be pregnant I was behaving oddly and crying at stuff and being anti-social and sleeping all the time. I was convinced I could not have kids for some reason and was in denial. I was 11 weeks when I had a pregnancy test

3. did IT hurt? is the sky blue?

4. how did it change you as a person? it suddenly put things into perspective and made me convinced there is a higher power.

I forgot to answer the questions and Thanks Moni, whether he wants to be or not he's still my baby

1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise? He was a surprise

2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? I told my sister and mother. Yes. they were both happy for me.

3. did IT hurt? Of course. hurt like hell!

4. how did it change you as a person? I'm not as selfish as I used to be. After I had my first child I no longer believed in abortion.

heybaby said:

Welcome hun

tell us about your first born child...

1. were you working at it, or did it just kinda bless you by surprise?
Complete surprise.

2. who was the first person you told? did they have the reaction you expected and/or hoped for? His father, and his reaction was less than I hoped.

3. did IT hurt? When you squeeze something the size of a watermelon out of something the size of a lemon, that hurts.

4. how did it change you as a person? Rearranged my priorities for the better.