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Thread started 12/27/07 1:10pm

CarrieMpls

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is there anything inherently wrong with becoming a reclusive, hermit-like shut-in?

I'm just wondering.
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Reply #1 posted 12/27/07 1:12pm

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CarrieMpls said:

I'm just wondering.

yes u go on killing rampages like old dude in virginia...i would be careful of wackos like this carrie
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Reply #2 posted 12/27/07 1:12pm

roodboi

maybe?

guess it depends on if it adversely affects anyone besides yourself...

is that your new years resolution???
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Reply #3 posted 12/27/07 1:12pm

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mirrorbestfriend said:

CarrieMpls said:

I'm just wondering.

yes u go on killing rampages like old dude in virginia...i would be careful of wackos like this carrie


lol
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Reply #4 posted 12/27/07 1:12pm

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In most cases, yes... Are you thinking of becoming one...?
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Reply #5 posted 12/27/07 1:14pm

CarrieMpls

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roodboi said:

maybe?

guess it depends on if it adversely affects anyone besides yourself...

is that your new years resolution???

I've already got a cat. And I'm thinking of getting another.

I don't leave the house anymore except for work and the occasional errand/shopping.

I'm on my way to becoming a crazy cat lady, and I'm pretty sure I'm enjoying it. lol
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Reply #6 posted 12/27/07 1:14pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

I don't know if there's anything wrong with it but I've been becoming one. I really need to get out of the house because it depresses me. Now on the other hand my best friend is always at home watching t.v. and she seems to be okay with it. At least that what it seems like.
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Reply #7 posted 12/27/07 1:15pm

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Yes there is. People need people. hug
In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular.
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Reply #8 posted 12/27/07 1:15pm

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CarrieMpls said:

roodboi said:

maybe?

guess it depends on if it adversely affects anyone besides yourself...

is that your new years resolution???

I've already got a cat. And I'm thinking of getting another.

I don't leave the house anymore except for work and the occasional errand/shopping.

I'm on my way to becoming a crazy cat lady, and I'm pretty sure I'm enjoying it. lol


hope it all works out for ya...I'll come to the Maury Show when they feature you!!! woot!
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Reply #9 posted 12/27/07 1:17pm

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CarrieMpls said:

roodboi said:

maybe?

guess it depends on if it adversely affects anyone besides yourself...

is that your new years resolution???

I've already got a cat. And I'm thinking of getting another.

I don't leave the house anymore except for work and the occasional errand/shopping.

I'm on my way to becoming a crazy cat lady, and I'm pretty sure I'm enjoying it. lol

as long as u dont go gun shopping u good!
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Reply #10 posted 12/27/07 1:17pm

CarrieMpls

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I don't know if there's anything wrong with it but I've been becoming one. I really need to get out of the house because it depresses me. Now on the other hand my best friend is always at home watching t.v. and she seems to be okay with it. At least that what it seems like.


I find these days I become incredibly relieved whenever I get home. Calm, relaxed and relieved. I often feel bothered if I have to leave again. lol
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Reply #11 posted 12/27/07 1:18pm

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Sweeny79 said:

Yes there is. People need people. hug


Surely they do, but only occasionally, right?
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Reply #12 posted 12/27/07 1:18pm

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roodboi said:

CarrieMpls said:


I've already got a cat. And I'm thinking of getting another.

I don't leave the house anymore except for work and the occasional errand/shopping.

I'm on my way to becoming a crazy cat lady, and I'm pretty sure I'm enjoying it. lol


hope it all works out for ya...I'll come to the Maury Show when they feature you!!! woot!


I'll send you a ticket!
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Reply #13 posted 12/27/07 1:18pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

CarrieMpls said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I don't know if there's anything wrong with it but I've been becoming one. I really need to get out of the house because it depresses me. Now on the other hand my best friend is always at home watching t.v. and she seems to be okay with it. At least that what it seems like.


I find these days I become incredibly relieved whenever I get home. Calm, relaxed and relieved. I often feel bothered if I have to leave again. lol




I think, in your case, that's pretty normal. Especially when it's cold out. Right now I can't wait to get home and get all cozy in front of the t.v. Heaven!
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Reply #14 posted 12/27/07 1:22pm

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Nothing inherently wrong, but it is a major sign of some serious depression.
Studies have shown the ass crack of the average Prince fan to be abnormally large. This explains the ease and frequency of their panties bunching up in it.
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Reply #15 posted 12/27/07 1:22pm

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Orgnote.
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Reply #16 posted 12/27/07 1:23pm

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CarrieMpls said:

Sweeny79 said:

Yes there is. People need people. hug


Surely they do, but only occasionally, right?



In all seriousness, maybe you are just tired. Working all the time and having to deal with the public ( you still work at Starbucks right? ) can make you feel like that.

When I worked retail in college, I never wanted to go out at all.
In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular.
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Reply #17 posted 12/27/07 1:25pm

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Mars23 said:

Nothing inherently wrong, but it is a major sign of some serious depression.


Nah. I know when I'm seriously depressed. That's when I can't leave the house. This is more of a choice. lol
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Reply #18 posted 12/27/07 1:27pm

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We use to have a hermit type lady on our block, she had like 4 cats and she had the aweful habit of feeding the pigeons! We would have a pigeon invasion every few hours when she would come out of her house to feed the pigeons. I think you are fine Carrie, just don't feed the pigeons. eek
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Reply #19 posted 12/27/07 1:29pm

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Sweeny79 said:

CarrieMpls said:



Surely they do, but only occasionally, right?



In all seriousness, maybe you are just tired. Working all the time and having to deal with the public ( you still work at Starbucks right? ) can make you feel like that.

When I worked retail in college, I never wanted to go out at all.


Not Starbucks, but a little indie coffee shop, yes. I think adjusting to my new schedule is a big part of it, that's true. But it's been over a month now.

hmmm
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Reply #20 posted 12/27/07 1:29pm

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PaisleyPark5083 said:

We use to have a hermit type lady on our block, she had like 4 cats and she had the aweful habit of feeding the pigeons! We would have a pigeon invasion every few hours when she would come out of her house to feed the pigeons. I think you are fine Carrie, just don't feed the pigeons. eek


I'm not fond of pigeons, so no worries about that one. lol
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Reply #21 posted 12/27/07 1:34pm

Imago

It's time for Miami Invasion Pt 2! woot!
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Reply #22 posted 12/27/07 2:18pm

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Imago said:

It's time for Miami Invasion Pt 2! woot!


lol
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Reply #23 posted 12/27/07 2:30pm

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CarrieMpls said:

roodboi said:

maybe?

guess it depends on if it adversely affects anyone besides yourself...

is that your new years resolution???

I've already got a cat. And I'm thinking of getting another.

I don't leave the house anymore except for work and the occasional errand/shopping.

I'm on my way to becoming a crazy cat lady, and I'm pretty sure I'm enjoying it. lol



You sound like me! I ask myself this question all the time. I don't mind being hermit-like but then I start to think about what other people think and I question whether I'm okay or not.
Shake it til ya make it dancing jig
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Reply #24 posted 12/27/07 2:33pm

horatio

sounds great, the less likely you will be to catch peoples seasonal colds and flus biggrin
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Reply #25 posted 12/27/07 2:36pm

statuesqque

yes, it's one thing to spend more time with self getting to know you... your wants, needs, desires and things like that to gain a clearer view of the directions you want to go in. but to become a reclusive/hermit like shut in is not a good thing.
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Reply #26 posted 12/27/07 3:09pm

Ace

I think the more pertinent question here is, "Is there anything inherently wrong with going out?". I mean, why would anybody want to do that? confused
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Reply #27 posted 12/27/07 4:28pm

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CarrieMpls said:

I'm just wondering.

Sometimes I wonder if I could live like this, because I need solitude at times. Maybe it's because I've always lived with others.....never alone. So now I'm curious to just know what it's like.
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Reply #28 posted 12/27/07 4:30pm

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Could be the time of the year too, you know. This month is extremely stressful to some, and I know whenever I feel stressed, I withdraw.
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Reply #29 posted 12/27/07 4:38pm

gemini13

CarrieMpls said:

roodboi said:

maybe?

guess it depends on if it adversely affects anyone besides yourself...

is that your new years resolution???

I've already got a cat. And I'm thinking of getting another.

I don't leave the house anymore except for work and the occasional errand/shopping.

I'm on my way to becoming a crazy cat lady, and I'm pretty sure I'm enjoying it. lol


mad I have four cats, but that's only because I like animals better than I like most people. lol
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