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I need a hug, a punch, and a little love Well..today my Sweetie Andy, broke up with me. He had gone away to Texas this past weekend, and he came home a different man. At first I thought it was nothing...but it turns out it was a HUGE something.
My Sweetie (I can't help not call him that) is Vietnamese, and he is the only and oldest son of his family. Well pressure got to him, and he broke down and decided to do what his family wanted. He went to Texas to meet a Vietnamese girl his parents wanted him to meet. Well I guess he decided to date her, and today he finally told me. So my heart is breaking, because after 1 yr and 9 months I have to let go of the man I love with all my heart, because I am not Asian. Because I can't give him children, and I can't be the woman his parents would want me to be. I also knew in my heart this could happen, and I would tell him all the time that he needed to think about things like that. But he would always say.."Babe, you make me happy, and that is all that matters' The last time I saw my Sweetie was last Tuesday, I never thought that would be the last time I heard him say he loved me. So..if I could get a hug, and a punch or two for being so stupid, and a bit of love from my org friends because right now I feel like my life is ending. That would be great! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian  | |
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My heart breaks to hear that, Moni... Try and keep your head up... | |
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Here Moni    do not  women ! So I hope that the  's and Help !   PEACE.....It does not mean 2 be in a place where there is no noise,trouble,or hardwork.It means 2 be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart ! | |
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Everything happens for a reason, you couldn't meet the man of your dreams if you were involved with someone else so that must be what's happening. Music helps me in times like these. | |
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The fool...with your impressive boobage he should have held on to you.
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 I dont feel anything I can say right now will make u feel better.
Im sorry things didnt work out between the two of u. U, along with myself and everyone else who has ever come to know u, knows that ur a very beautiful and strong woman. U'll get through this. | |
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Wow! 
So do you think he's in love with this other woman, or was the pressure from his parents the only reason he hooked up with her? | |
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Wow Moni! I feel so sad, I am sorry hon! Feel free to lean on all of your Org Friends!  | |
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retina said: Wow!
So do you think he's in love with this other woman, or was the pressure from his parents the only reason he hooked up with her? It was the pressure from his parents..and his friend Tommy, who is very successfull. He doesn't love her, the man loves me. But he has to do what is best...for his family. But that doesn't make this hurt any less. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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Thank you everyone! I am very lucky to have my org friends. Because right now...I just want to go to bed, put the covers over my head and cry. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: Well..today my Sweetie Andy, broke up with me. He had gone away to Texas this past weekend, and he came home a different man. At first I thought it was nothing...but it turns out it was a HUGE something.
My Sweetie (I can't help not call him that) is Vietnamese, and he is the only and oldest son of his family. Well pressure got to him, and he broke down and decided to do what his family wanted. He went to Texas to meet a Vietnamese girl his parents wanted him to meet. Well I guess he decided to date her, and today he finally told me. So my heart is breaking, because after 1 yr and 9 months I have to let go of the man I love with all my heart, because I am not Asian. Because I can't give him children, and I can't be the woman his parents would want me to be. I also knew in my heart this could happen, and I would tell him all the time that he needed to think about things like that. But he would always say.."Babe, you make me happy, and that is all that matters' The last time I saw my Sweetie was last Tuesday, I never thought that would be the last time I heard him say he loved me. So..if I could get a hug, and a punch or two for being so stupid, and a bit of love from my org friends because right now I feel like my life is ending. That would be great! Sorry to hear this. It's a shame that some families will do anything in order for their kids to marry within their race. Love is love, no matter what your race or colour is. You seem like a caring, loving person so I hope you found someone who will love you in return. | |
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MoniGram said: Thank you everyone! I am very lucky to have my org friends. Because right now...I just want to go to bed, put the covers over my head and cry.
Feel free to do what you need to do, just remember you are hottest future baby Meemaw, I have ever seen! | |
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You are WAAAAAY to good for him!
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Oh sweetheart! Im so sorry
"Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
johnart says: "I'm THE shit" | |
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MoniGram said: retina said: Wow!
So do you think he's in love with this other woman, or was the pressure from his parents the only reason he hooked up with her? It was the pressure from his parents..and his friend Tommy, who is very successfull. He doesn't love her, the man loves me. But he has to do what is best...for his family. But that doesn't make this hurt any less. Well then it really sucks that both you and him have to suffer just because his parents happen to be racists. They should really mind their own damn business. | |
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liberation said: The fool...with your impressive boobage he should have held on to you.
Yes and her heart is even bigger
he is a dummy for sure love ya Moni Dear.... | |
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OMG!!!!!
I am so very sorry to hear this Moni 
You have always been there for me to encourage me and lift my spirits when I needed it. I wish I could give you a great big hug right now. I know that nothing I say will make your pain go away... I am truly so very sorry beautiful lady.
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Empress said: MoniGram said: Well..today my Sweetie Andy, broke up with me. He had gone away to Texas this past weekend, and he came home a different man. At first I thought it was nothing...but it turns out it was a HUGE something.
My Sweetie (I can't help not call him that) is Vietnamese, and he is the only and oldest son of his family. Well pressure got to him, and he broke down and decided to do what his family wanted. He went to Texas to meet a Vietnamese girl his parents wanted him to meet. Well I guess he decided to date her, and today he finally told me. So my heart is breaking, because after 1 yr and 9 months I have to let go of the man I love with all my heart, because I am not Asian. Because I can't give him children, and I can't be the woman his parents would want me to be. I also knew in my heart this could happen, and I would tell him all the time that he needed to think about things like that. But he would always say.."Babe, you make me happy, and that is all that matters' The last time I saw my Sweetie was last Tuesday, I never thought that would be the last time I heard him say he loved me. So..if I could get a hug, and a punch or two for being so stupid, and a bit of love from my org friends because right now I feel like my life is ending. That would be great! Sorry to hear this. It's a shame that some families will do anything in order for their kids to marry within their race. Love is love, no matter what your race or colour is. You seem like a caring, loving person so I hope you found someone who will love you in return. That is what he use to say. But..it got to be to much for him. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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he's the one who needs the punch | |
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PaisleyPark5083 said: MoniGram said: Thank you everyone! I am very lucky to have my org friends. Because right now...I just want to go to bed, put the covers over my head and cry.
Feel free to do what you need to do, just remember you are hottest future baby Meemaw, I have ever seen! Thank you hun! I told myself..it's time to focus all my energy into that baby. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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shanti0608 said: OMG!!!!!
I am so very sorry to hear this Moni
You have always been there for me to encourage me and lift my spirits when I needed it. I wish I could give you a great big hug right now. I know that nothing I say will make your pain go away... I am truly so very sorry beautiful lady.
Thank you Val! Even with an ocean between us..I feel those hugs! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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babooshleeky said: liberation said: The fool...with your impressive boobage he should have held on to you.
Yes and her heart is even bigger
he is a dummy for sure love ya Moni Dear....I don't know what I would have done without you Chrissy..thank you for being there for me, when I got all this news this morning. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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heybaby said: he's the one who needs the punch
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liberation said: The fool...with your impressive boobage he should have held on to you.
Thanks for the smile! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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oh Moni I'm so sorry but please don't call yourself stupid becuase we can not control what are hearts feel. You will get through this and you definitely have your org friends, hang in there my friend (lots of them ) Rhythm floods my heart♥The melody it feeds my soul | |
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MoniGram said: shanti0608 said: OMG!!!!!
I am so very sorry to hear this Moni
You have always been there for me to encourage me and lift my spirits when I needed it. I wish I could give you a great big hug right now. I know that nothing I say will make your pain go away... I am truly so very sorry beautiful lady.
Thank you Val! Even with an ocean between us..I feel those hugs! I am truly sorry...Damn it and I am pissed too! I truly do not get ppl some times and why they cannot mind their own business and let ppl be happy. 
It is his loss and their loss too. | |
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MoniGram said: babooshleeky said: Yes and her heart is even bigger
he is a dummy for sure love ya Moni Dear....I don't know what I would have done without you Chrissy..thank you for being there for me, when I got all this news this morning. ANYTIME | |
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shanti0608 said: MoniGram said: Thank you Val! Even with an ocean between us..I feel those hugs! I am truly sorry...Damn it and I am pissed too! I truly do not get ppl some times and why they cannot mind their own business and let ppl be happy.
It is his loss and their loss too. So true!!! Rhythm floods my heart♥The melody it feeds my soul | |
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