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PrintableOttensen said: MoniGram said: Okay Hokie no more pills..and no more wine. I promise. I know this seems so stupid..and silly in some ways. It just hurts so badly! I just feel all this wouldn't hurt so bad if I had done something to deserve this break up. Uh oh....Okay, since I live too far from you (like say, 7,000 + miles away),you can't come over sooo... ...it's time for some film prescription Rx to get you through the hours when you're not whacked out on the pills and wine: it helps the time pass when you can't sleep or start honing in too much on 'him'. Please rent, or get to your nearest dvd store to buy, order from Amazon the following movies as SOON as possible to keep you distracted and possibly emit a chuckle or bolster you into Girl Power mode. Keep in mind that if you buy you can memorize all the dialog to pretend you're saying to whats-his-name when you're frustrated  and if you can get them from Amazon you can get them at drastically reduced prices or some of them even come as double feature combos (like Sliding Doors/1st Wives for $14 new/$ used).
1. FIRST WIVES CLUB 2. WAITING TO EXHALE 3. DIARY OF A MAD BLACK WOMAN 4. SLIDING DOORS 5. ADDICTED TO LOVE 6. INTERSECTION 7. THE STARTER WIFE 8. MOTIVES 9. WHITE (from the Three Colors trilogy) 10.UNDER THE TUSCAN SUN Whatever you do, make sure you see choices #1 and #10. Not only are they funny for what ails you, but you get nice messages about closure at the end of each. Short of that, when you start thinking too much during those solitary moments...um... what do you feel about taking a cardio kickboxing class at the local gym? There's something soooo theraputic about envisioning an ex's face as the kick-punch bag in front of you while you're whittling your waist down to nothing from all that cardio.   
 I will look into all these thank you Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian  | |
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rushing07 said: So sorry to hear about your pain Moni.
Love is sometimes really fucked up. It hurts now, but you will get over. You will because you are a strong, wise, beautiful, sexxxy and extremely loving woman And that's something NO ONE can take that away from you. If you don't want to take my word for it listen to her: http://www.youtube.com/wa...DOUxuzC9CQ Oh Rushing, thank you for your kind words...and this song! You have know idea how much this helped me! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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Well everyone, for the first time in the last 24 awful hours I am smiling and I feel good! I got an email from Andy...not saying he wanted to get back together. But letting me know that the last year and 9 months weren't for nothing.
He said he felt guilty for handling the situation this way. He said he still has feelings for me, and that he is hurting too. And he said..he wishes life was simple so he could do what he wanted, but that we both know his parents would never approve.  Because he is the only son.
But just reading that he wishes life was simple so he could do what he wanted..made me feel better. Like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. And now I dont' feel it was me, and I don't feel like the last time we were together was a lie, that every touch meant something, and when he said he loved me it was real. Now dont' get me wrong my heart still aches because I am going to miss him so much. But I understand...if only! So..I am going to look at our time together as something positive. When we had our good times we had good times. He made me feel beautiful, wanted, and sexy! I became a woman I wanted to be, I finally saw I could do anything I wanted because Andy said I could..he believed in me. Just because we can't be together because of culture I shouldnt' forget that. So...I will miss my Andy! But I am going to do my best to smile again! And hold on to what we had, put it in a special place and move on. I may have deleted all emails..and texts..but that was a good thing. Because there is no reason to look at the past...what is done is done. The sun is shining again...the clouds are gone...Andy always said my mood affected the weather...I guess he was right. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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ThreadCula said: Perfect song hun! Thank you! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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The sun'll come out Tomorrow Bet your bottom dollar That tomorrow There'll be sun! Just thinkin' about Tomorrow Clears away the cobwebs, And the sorrow 'Til there's none! When I'm stuck a day That's gray, And lonely, I just stick out my chin And Grin, And Say, Oh! The sun'll come out Tomorrow So ya gotta hang on 'Til tomorrow Come what may Tomorrow! Tomorrow! I love ya Tomorrow! You're always A day A way! Moni I thought of this song when I finished reading all of the posts. You embody this to me. I see you as loving and cheerful and with a wonderful out look on life and people. Don't let the mistreatment of others change who you are. You know yourself and yes right now it hurts, but you are grieveing and that in itself is a process that in order to fully heal you must go through. So heal ok, but in your healing remember who you are. Be angry but by being angry if you don't want to hate him then don't. If it doesn't feel right to your soul then don't try and force it. The stages of grief are: Denial (this isn't happening to me!) Anger (why is this happening to me?) Bargaining (I promise I'll be a better person if...) Depression (I don't care anymore) Acceptance (I'm ready for whatever comes) So go with it and also to work with expression of the feelings when they threaten to overwhelm. There is an exercise called "empty chair" that is effective. You stand and talk to a chair, pull it in the middle of the floor if you need to, and then talk to the chair as if he is sitting there. Yel,l scream, cry, do what ever you need to do, to the chair. I also encourage people to write-- get it out! (journal writing is a mainstay for me,) plus what ever you write here or a blog, get it out of you. set your own parameters for this ok? your rules! the only rule is that you write, or draw even if it's just a big sad face that entry, do it. Promise me that if you feel suicidal again you will call someone,1-800-522-9054, come here, or best of all go to the emergency room. That is nothing to play with AT ALL. NO MORE PILLS AND ALCOHOL MIXING!!! don't do that again EVER.(I know no one wanted to say that, but that is what it is.) Moni we love you. We love you because you have shown that you are a person worthy of love and I know you feel that isn't true but believe me, believe all of us, it is. Please stay safe and keep communicating. If you feel really down read this thread again and again and again. ok. Don't let the mistreatment and misdeeds of one person change your definition of self. Don't give him that power. Remember who you are. 
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butterfli25 said:
The sun'll come out Tomorrow Bet your bottom dollar That tomorrow There'll be sun! Just thinkin' about Tomorrow Clears away the cobwebs, And the sorrow 'Til there's none! When I'm stuck a day That's gray, And lonely, I just stick out my chin And Grin, And Say, Oh! The sun'll come out Tomorrow So ya gotta hang on 'Til tomorrow Come what may Tomorrow! Tomorrow! I love ya Tomorrow! You're always A day A way! Moni I thought of this song when I finished reading all of the posts. You embody this to me. I see you as loving and cheerful and with a wonderful out look on life and people. Don't let the mistreatment of others change who you are. You know yourself and yes right now it hurts, but you are grieveing and that in itself is a process that in order to fully heal you must go through. So heal ok, but in your healing remember who you are. Be angry but by being angry if you don't want to hate him then don't. If it doesn't feel right to your soul then don't try and force it. The stages of grief are: Denial (this isn't happening to me!) Anger (why is this happening to me?) Bargaining (I promise I'll be a better person if...) Depression (I don't care anymore) Acceptance (I'm ready for whatever comes) So go with it and also to work with expression of the feelings when they threaten to overwhelm. There is an exercise called "empty chair" that is effective. You stand and talk to a chair, pull it in the middle of the floor if you need to, and then talk to the chair as if he is sitting there. Yel,l scream, cry, do what ever you need to do, to the chair. I also encourage people to write-- get it out! (journal writing is a mainstay for me,) plus what ever you write here or a blog, get it out of you. set your own parameters for this ok? your rules! the only rule is that you write, or draw even if it's just a big sad face that entry, do it. Promise me that if you feel suicidal again you will call someone,1-800-522-9054, come here, or best of all go to the emergency room. That is nothing to play with AT ALL. NO MORE PILLS AND ALCOHOL MIXING!!! don't do that again EVER.(I know no one wanted to say that, but that is what it is.) Moni we love you. We love you because you have shown that you are a person worthy of love and I know you feel that isn't true but believe me, believe all of us, it is. Please stay safe and keep communicating. If you feel really down read this thread again and again and again. ok. Don't let the mistreatment and misdeeds of one person change your definition of self. Don't give him that power. Remember who you are.  definitely Co-sign this!! Moni, he will get caught up in the universal truth of "what goes around, comes around" and the one he left for is gonna be 10 times worse than the worst he can imagine...he's a train-wreck because I agree with the post that pointed out "What grown man still listens to his parents?"...or words to that effect...
Please take care of yourself.... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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butterfli25 said:
The sun'll come out Tomorrow Bet your bottom dollar That tomorrow There'll be sun! Just thinkin' about Tomorrow Clears away the cobwebs, And the sorrow 'Til there's none! When I'm stuck a day That's gray, And lonely, I just stick out my chin And Grin, And Say, Oh! The sun'll come out Tomorrow So ya gotta hang on 'Til tomorrow Come what may Tomorrow! Tomorrow! I love ya Tomorrow! You're always A day A way! Moni I thought of this song when I finished reading all of the posts. You embody this to me. I see you as loving and cheerful and with a wonderful out look on life and people. Don't let the mistreatment of others change who you are. You know yourself and yes right now it hurts, but you are grieveing and that in itself is a process that in order to fully heal you must go through. So heal ok, but in your healing remember who you are. Be angry but by being angry if you don't want to hate him then don't. If it doesn't feel right to your soul then don't try and force it. The stages of grief are: Denial (this isn't happening to me!) Anger (why is this happening to me?) Bargaining (I promise I'll be a better person if...) Depression (I don't care anymore) Acceptance (I'm ready for whatever comes) So go with it and also to work with expression of the feelings when they threaten to overwhelm. There is an exercise called "empty chair" that is effective. You stand and talk to a chair, pull it in the middle of the floor if you need to, and then talk to the chair as if he is sitting there. Yel,l scream, cry, do what ever you need to do, to the chair. I also encourage people to write-- get it out! (journal writing is a mainstay for me,) plus what ever you write here or a blog, get it out of you. set your own parameters for this ok? your rules! the only rule is that you write, or draw even if it's just a big sad face that entry, do it. Promise me that if you feel suicidal again you will call someone,1-800-522-9054, come here, or best of all go to the emergency room. That is nothing to play with AT ALL. NO MORE PILLS AND ALCOHOL MIXING!!! don't do that again EVER.(I know no one wanted to say that, but that is what it is.) Moni we love you. We love you because you have shown that you are a person worthy of love and I know you feel that isn't true but believe me, believe all of us, it is. Please stay safe and keep communicating. If you feel really down read this thread again and again and again. ok. Don't let the mistreatment and misdeeds of one person change your definition of self. Don't give him that power. Remember who you are. Okay..no more pills and booze. Promise! I know that was stupid. I am truly sorry for worrying anyone last night. And if I feel like that again, I will reach out, to my friends here, or my family. Thank you for your kind words. I can't explain the feelings I have for everyone here on the org. Everyone has cared, supported, and sent me their love! And each of you will never truly understand how much that all means to me! I am blessed, I have great kids, my sweet granddaughter and all of you! So thank you butterfli, for thinking of me, and taking time out to care! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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reneGade20 said: butterfli25 said:
The sun'll come out Tomorrow Bet your bottom dollar That tomorrow There'll be sun! Just thinkin' about Tomorrow Clears away the cobwebs, And the sorrow 'Til there's none! When I'm stuck a day That's gray, And lonely, I just stick out my chin And Grin, And Say, Oh! The sun'll come out Tomorrow So ya gotta hang on 'Til tomorrow Come what may Tomorrow! Tomorrow! I love ya Tomorrow! You're always A day A way! Moni I thought of this song when I finished reading all of the posts. You embody this to me. I see you as loving and cheerful and with a wonderful out look on life and people. Don't let the mistreatment of others change who you are. You know yourself and yes right now it hurts, but you are grieveing and that in itself is a process that in order to fully heal you must go through. So heal ok, but in your healing remember who you are. Be angry but by being angry if you don't want to hate him then don't. If it doesn't feel right to your soul then don't try and force it. The stages of grief are: Denial (this isn't happening to me!) Anger (why is this happening to me?) Bargaining (I promise I'll be a better person if...) Depression (I don't care anymore) Acceptance (I'm ready for whatever comes) So go with it and also to work with expression of the feelings when they threaten to overwhelm. There is an exercise called "empty chair" that is effective. You stand and talk to a chair, pull it in the middle of the floor if you need to, and then talk to the chair as if he is sitting there. Yel,l scream, cry, do what ever you need to do, to the chair. I also encourage people to write-- get it out! (journal writing is a mainstay for me,) plus what ever you write here or a blog, get it out of you. set your own parameters for this ok? your rules! the only rule is that you write, or draw even if it's just a big sad face that entry, do it. Promise me that if you feel suicidal again you will call someone,1-800-522-9054, come here, or best of all go to the emergency room. That is nothing to play with AT ALL. NO MORE PILLS AND ALCOHOL MIXING!!! don't do that again EVER.(I know no one wanted to say that, but that is what it is.) Moni we love you. We love you because you have shown that you are a person worthy of love and I know you feel that isn't true but believe me, believe all of us, it is. Please stay safe and keep communicating. If you feel really down read this thread again and again and again. ok. Don't let the mistreatment and misdeeds of one person change your definition of self. Don't give him that power. Remember who you are. definitely Co-sign this!! Moni, he will get caught up in the universal truth of "what goes around, comes around" and the one he left for is gonna be 10 times worse than the worst he can imagine...he's a train-wreck because I agree with the post that pointed out "What grown man still listens to his parents?"...or words to that effect...
Please take care of yourself.... Yes he will regret losing me someday! He will miss me! I was good to him, took care of him while his parents were in Vietnam this last month. I fed him, loved him, and laughed with him. He will miss my smile, and my silly ways. He already feels guilt for hurting me. I know he shouldn't listen to his family, he should follow his heart, but he is doing what he has to, to keep the peace in his family. I might feel it's wrong, and I am the one who had to suffer on this...but I understand. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: Yes he will regret losing me someday! He will miss me! I was good to him, took care of him while his parents were in Vietnam this last month. I fed him, loved him, and laughed with him. He will miss my smile, and my silly ways. He already feels guilt for hurting me. I know he shouldn't listen to his family, he should follow his heart, but he is doing what he has to, to keep the peace in his family. I might feel it's wrong, and I am the one who had to suffer on this...but I understand. I understand exactly what you're saying....my family and my in-laws weren't too down for me and my wife getting together...but had I listened to them or let her parents piss me off to the point of walking away, I wouldn't have what I have with her, nor would my kids be in my life...strain between family members fades after time (hell, even my in-laws think I'm pretty decent now...  ), so he should've been stronger in his loyalty to you and made his case to his family.....nevertheless, I'm glad that you're ok and I hope that you have the best holiday season with your family and friends....
much  He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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MoniGram said: I was good to him, treated him with love and respect. Showed him he could be that better man. It just pisses me off to all ends that some other woman is going to get those rewards.
Is she really though? Think about it. If you loved him and he treated you that way, how do you think he is going to treat this woman who is nothing but a pawn? He will likely lie his ass off to her and probably cheat on her as well. He's doing something out of obligation, not out of love or authenticity. He will receive a visit from Lady Karma. They always do. And you cannot feel bad or regret being Moni for you too would be a fraud if you didn't love the way your heart tells you to. This is just another lesson and another hurdle in life. You will learn from it and you will scale it and you will continue running your race and you will do it in style cuz that's the kind of gal you are  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: MoniGram said: I was good to him, treated him with love and respect. Showed him he could be that better man. It just pisses me off to all ends that some other woman is going to get those rewards.
Is she really though? Think about it. If you loved him and he treated you that way, how do you think he is going to treat this woman who is nothing but a pawn? He will likely lie his ass off to her and probably cheat on her as well. He's doing something out of obligation, not out of love or authenticity. He will receive a visit from Lady Karma. They always do. And you cannot feel bad or regret being Moni for you too would be a fraud if you didn't love the way your heart tells you to. This is just another lesson and another hurdle in life. You will learn from it and you will scale it and you will continue running your race and you will do it in style cuz that's the kind of gal you are And there it is  Supa is telling some real truth here.
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: MoniGram said: I was good to him, treated him with love and respect. Showed him he could be that better man. It just pisses me off to all ends that some other woman is going to get those rewards.
Is she really though? Think about it. If you loved him and he treated you that way, how do you think he is going to treat this woman who is nothing but a pawn? He will likely lie his ass off to her and probably cheat on her as well. He's doing something out of obligation, not out of love or authenticity. He will receive a visit from Lady Karma. They always do. And you cannot feel bad or regret being Moni for you too would be a fraud if you didn't love the way your heart tells you to. This is just another lesson and another hurdle in life. You will learn from it and you will scale it and you will continue running your race and you will do it in style cuz that's the kind of gal you are  | |
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Wow  ...I just now read this thread (or at least the first post)...I'm so sorry, Moni ...I can't EVEN imagine going thru something as emotional as that. | |
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reneGade20 said: MoniGram said: Yes he will regret losing me someday! He will miss me! I was good to him, took care of him while his parents were in Vietnam this last month. I fed him, loved him, and laughed with him. He will miss my smile, and my silly ways. He already feels guilt for hurting me. I know he shouldn't listen to his family, he should follow his heart, but he is doing what he has to, to keep the peace in his family. I might feel it's wrong, and I am the one who had to suffer on this...but I understand. I understand exactly what you're saying....my family and my in-laws weren't too down for me and my wife getting together...but had I listened to them or let her parents piss me off to the point of walking away, I wouldn't have what I have with her, nor would my kids be in my life...strain between family members fades after time (hell, even my in-laws think I'm pretty decent now... ), so he should've been stronger in his loyalty to you and made his case to his family.....nevertheless, I'm glad that you're ok and I hope that you have the best holiday season with your family and friends....
much Yes he should have stood up to his parents. But they are so old school Asian. They would have cowed if they found out he was with someone who had 3 kids and a grandbaby on the way. And maybe Andy should have thought of that before he fell in love with me. But like he always said...one can't control what the heart feels. I just wish I would have been more level headed..and not let myself get so wrapped up in him. I guess I always thought that just maybe, we would have found a way to be together always! A girl can dream right? Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: MoniGram said: I was good to him, treated him with love and respect. Showed him he could be that better man. It just pisses me off to all ends that some other woman is going to get those rewards.
Is she really though? Think about it. If you loved him and he treated you that way, how do you think he is going to treat this woman who is nothing but a pawn? He will likely lie his ass off to her and probably cheat on her as well. He's doing something out of obligation, not out of love or authenticity. He will receive a visit from Lady Karma. They always do. And you cannot feel bad or regret being Moni for you too would be a fraud if you didn't love the way your heart tells you to. This is just another lesson and another hurdle in life. You will learn from it and you will scale it and you will continue running your race and you will do it in style cuz that's the kind of gal you are You are right Supa! I kinda feel sorry for him. Being with someone he doesn't really want to be with, but at the same time I wish I could hit him along side the head and say HELLO! you have a beautiful woman in front of you that loves you like you have never been loved before. Stand up to your folks..tell them this is the woman you fell in love with, let your guard down and let her in. The woman that made you want to be a better man!! But all that won't help me now. So...I am trying to hold my head high..and I try not to cry. But everything seems to make me. Even me saying HELLO did it. Because I use to say that to him all the time. God I am such a dork!  Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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Byron said: Wow
...I just now read this thread (or at least the first post)...I'm so sorry, Moni ...I can't EVEN imagine going thru something as emotional as that. Thank you Byron! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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Honey, give me a little time to get this together but I'm going to send you a mix I made titled "Time to Give the Bullshit Wings and Let it Fly"
 It's my girlpower CD 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Moni...I'm so sorry. Your broken heart will heal in time, though. Remember that | |
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Glad to see you in a better state then lastnight Moni, just remember we love you!! we really do. This might seem like an idiotic place to an outsider, but it is truely a community of loving/caring people. Remember when I was all bummed out about my teenage daughter, being a real pain in the ass. I remember how all of you helped me understand that, that is exactly how teeage girls act. It wasn't my fault, and that all I needed was to show her love, comfort and support and things would be alright...well, things aren't perfect but they certainly are getting brighter. That is the beauty of a new day, a chance for things to go better then the day before. Hang in there Moni!!!!! | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Honey, give me a little time to get this together but I'm going to send you a mix I made titled "Time to Give the Bullshit Wings and Let it Fly"
It's my girlpower CD Sounds good to me hun!  Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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applekisses said: Moni...I'm so sorry.
Your broken heart will heal in time, though. Remember that Thank you apple!Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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PaisleyPark5083 said: Glad to see you in a better state then lastnight Moni, just remember we love you!! we really do. This might seem like an idiotic place to an outsider, but it is truely a community of loving/caring people. Remember when I was all bummed out about my teenage daughter, being a real pain in the ass. I remember how all of you helped me understand that, that is exactly how teeage girls act. It wasn't my fault, and that all I needed was to show her love, comfort and support and things would be alright...well, things aren't perfect but they certainly are getting brighter. That is the beauty of a new day, a chance for things to go better then the day before. Hang in there Moni!!!!!
Thank you! And I am seeing that I have made some great friends here. I am very lucky and blessed. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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Moni - a not to you from Lothan/Ivy
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Mach said: Moni - a not to you from Lothan/Ivy
"" please give MoniGram a hug on her thread from me. I am brokenhearted for her. "" Awwww thank you! Big HUGS right back! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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reneGade20 said: MoniGram said: Yes he will regret losing me someday! He will miss me! I was good to him, took care of him while his parents were in Vietnam this last month. I fed him, loved him, and laughed with him. He will miss my smile, and my silly ways. He already feels guilt for hurting me. I know he shouldn't listen to his family, he should follow his heart, but he is doing what he has to, to keep the peace in his family. I might feel it's wrong, and I am the one who had to suffer on this...but I understand. I understand exactly what you're saying....my family and my in-laws weren't too down for me and my wife getting together...but had I listened to them or let her parents piss me off to the point of walking away, I wouldn't have what I have with her, nor would my kids be in my life...strain between family members fades after time (hell, even my in-laws think I'm pretty decent now... ), so he should've been stronger in his loyalty to you and made his case to his family.....nevertheless, I'm glad that you're ok and I hope that you have the best holiday season with your family and friends....
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heybaby said: he's the one who needs the punch
 And a swift kick in the balls for letting Moni go.
Moni. I can't believe how stupid some men are.  RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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psychodelicide said: heybaby said: he's the one who needs the punch
And a swift kick in the balls for letting Moni go.
Moni. I can't believe how stupid some men are. He needs many kicks in the balls. He will regret it someday. I loved him with all my heart and soul. But I wasn't good enough.Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: psychodelicide said: And a swift kick in the balls for letting Moni go.
Moni. I can't believe how stupid some men are. He needs many kicks in the balls. He will regret it someday. I loved him with all my heart and soul. But I wasn't good enough.I know you loved him very much. As others have said, it's his loss for letting you go to date some other woman that his parents wanted him to date. The fact that he can't stand up to his parents and do what he wants to do with his life tells me that he's not man enough for you (he's a wuss). In time, you'll find someone better. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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