MoniGram said:

Awwww Moni First of all, you are not stupid. Only stupid people never give it a go or try for love. You will never know how things can be unless you try and you did try honey. Nothing wrong with that. Most of us have tried and ended up in the same situation. You are spectacular and should not make this thing about you. You are dealing with racial attitudes that go very deep. Deep enough for your boyfriend to betray you and turn his life upside down to please his family.

My Mexican Grandmother resented my mother greatly because she was not a Mexican girl. She was prejudiced againgst my mom and treated her horribly. Eventually my dad left us to marry a nice Mexican girl. Exactly what my grandmother wanted. And that woman ruined his life. My grandmother eventually came to terms with the fact that she was prejudiced against my mother and years later tearfully apologized and admitted she was wrong.

These cultural things are really hard for people to get over and or deal with. You can't change his parents attitude towards their culture so again, don't make this about you. This is about them and their ignorance. You are a wonderful and vibrant woman and this period is going to suck MASSIVELY. But I think you already know that. Just know there are tons of friends here you can turn to who care about your wellbeing. If you need to vent or talk, you know where to find me

paintedlady said:

See Moni! you just need beer!

MoniGram said:

And you don't even have to carry the baggage of a weak man into her life Be strong Moni But cry if you need to! Don't even try and not cry Tears are the release of poison. Get it out!

MoniGram said:

No punches Moni....only and lots of 'em...

This makes my blood run cold. I don't even...."MY GOD!!!!" I was seriously hoping that it might be something less stressful like you're dog possibly having rabies or your fish died. But, it was cupid, ruthlessly detaching his arrow with slow precision of a thrust from your heart. I want to cry with you. I want us to lie a head on each other's shoulder. This makes me feel transgression of a numb emotion that hides, curdling under my murky subconscious. I want to give you the blessing of better love. Of a heart, shining and new. I wish I could rejuvenate you. Why does the sky's blue steer clear when there's rain? Just so God can trade turquoise traps of giant, pappy cream cheese puddles to hazel strips of Maine? From gray to the grain. Whole wheat on the ryes. Heartfelt chlorine giggles and tactless goodbyes. He still died for the tears in your eyes. But, I'm just surprised. Why do some have to have a palpable center? Can't we all share a weakness with Moni only for the Winter. Peace will coincide. Your love will subside. It's never too late to fight for what help and held your golden deep pride. Please live for me, now. Moni. Please hold onto a spirit that won't let go. Hold onto your heart, and you never know.....

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I have cried so much today, I think my eyes my swell up. Not a good day to photowhore.

MoniGram said:

OMG . . . . what an asshole



Moni, you are a beautiful, wonderful woman. I know that there is someone better for you out there. I know it's gonna hurt for a while, but you keep your head up. You don't need him

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I have cried so much today, I think my eyes my swell up. Not a good day to photowhore.

I have cried so much today, I think my eyes my swell up. Not a good day to photowhore.

ugh, fucking families. fuck him, moni, you're much better off now.

Moni, you beautiful woman. You deserve so much better.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I have cried so much today, I think my eyes my swell up. Not a good day to photowhore.

evenstar said:

I agree..I called him this afternoon, trying to get some answers...and all I got was a mean man, he acted like he had no heart! Told me things like...I told you we never had a future...you were there, I was there..we were helping each other. I was never going to support you. Now I feel like a fool!

Imago said:

Thank you Dan Now to figure out..how does one move on?

evenstar said:

I agree..I called him this afternoon, trying to get some answers...and all I got was a mean man, he acted like he had no heart! Told me things like...I told you we never had a future...you were there, I was there..we were helping each other. I was never going to support you. Now I feel like a fool!

MoniGram said:

The only way you'll be a fool is if you take his ass back were he to change his mind and come slinking back!

evenstar said:

I agree..I called him this afternoon, trying to get some answers...and all I got was a mean man, he acted like he had no heart! Told me things like...I told you we never had a future...you were there, I was there..we were helping each other. I was never going to support you. Now I feel like a fool!

MoniGram said:

moni your not a fool this is about him not standing up what is right and he's mad at himself so he's trying to flip it on you. don't fall for it. I know it hurts believe me I do. you just have to ride it out with time. You are worthy of so much more.

Dear Miss MoniGram,

To your torn, aching heart
let those around you attend -
the smallest rips will they stitch
and every tear will they mend.
Though the pain feels intense and the damage immense
I promise it won't take king's horses, nor even king's men
to put Moni's sweet heart together again -
just time, and thread spun
from the love of your family, and friends.

So Moni....you're getting lots of Org love, howja feel now?

Dear Miss MoniGram,

To your torn, aching heart
let those around you attend -
the smallest rips will they stitch
and every tear will they mend.
Though the pain feels intense and the damage immense
I promise it won't take king's horses, nor even king's men
to put Moni's sweet heart together again -
just time, and thread spun
from the love of your family, and friends.

liberation said:

I am feeling pretty good! I knew I had friends on the org, but I never realized how many! I am very lucky to have been a "prince" fan...because of that...I have the support I need to get thru this. It's funny it's 8 pm...the time he would normally call me because he is getting off of work, and I am crying. I didn't think I had any more tears.

I know it's easy to say this is his loss...but how come I am the one crying..and he is the one with the new gf?