Ok. So have you ever had sex with someone that was staright to begin with? What was your experience and how did you do it?

I spent about a year talking to this guy from Venezuela. Just friendly talk at work. On the last day of his shift I told the security guard I liked him. The bitch go behind my back and tell him. He asked for my number and we went out the next day. After dinner he all of a sudden held my hand and kissed me...and I will never ever forget how happy I was.

After a while though he started to become scared to hang with me and became distant. Now I don't know where he is. Last time I spoke to him was on New Years.

Turning straight guys out can be trouble.


lets DISCUSS.

Loooong time ago. Going back from summer camp. I was probably 16.
On our way back home the whole group had to stop in one of Vienna hotels for a night. It turned out that because of some mistake in booking many people had to share beds, cuz the hotel was out of doubles.

So this is how I ended up in bed with this seemingly straight guy that I made friends with during the camp. I did not expect any action AT ALL.

But then late at night I woke up and felt his leg moving near me. He was pretending to be asleep and touch me accidentally, you know, due to "sleepwalking." At first was like "WTF" but then I though "Hey. Two can play that game" and did the exact same thing. It was actually kinda pathetic but very hot at the same time. A couple of minutes later it was no use pretending we were asleep. It went very much like in "Brokeback Mountain." After it was all over, we feel asleep not saying a word more than "goodnight"

The next morning we woke up and acted as if nothing had happened. We never spoke about it, we lost contact immediately after the camp ended. I've met him a couple of years later one summer in a popular resort in Poland. He was with his girlfriend. I could tell from his face that he was petrified at meeting me. We chatted for like five seconds. He still looked good. He's girlfriend was bleh

That's it I guess.
I don't know if he was gay, straight, bi, whatever.
I did not plan to "convert" him. I did not "L" him.
We just had sex.

paisleypark4 said:

I guess I have.

I thought at some point in her life she identified as bi, but when I had sex with her, she was calling herself straight.

We went shopping for sex toys, and went home, and she wanted to try 'em out. I was more than happy to assist.

We fucked all night, and the next day, she tried to say it wasn't really sex. I'm like. . .if there's no dick it's not sex? Really?

I thought maybe I had once. After we had did our thing for a few months he ends it telling me he's not gay after-all and I don't hear from him for awhile then I hear he's going to have a baby. Now that he has a child he's living with his current boyfriend. UGH

A couple of times. In retrospect, I can look back on those experiences and think they're really hot, but twice it was a really painful emotional experience to go through. The first time, I was in college and wasn't out. I became really good friends with this gorgeous guy and started falling hard. After months of just being friends, we went to a concert in Minneapolis and got a room at a hotel and it happened. I still think he was/is straight and it was just an experience for him. Sex is hard to explain logically sometimes. But the end result was that our friendship ended right after that. I haven't seen him in years and years. Now I look back on the whole thing fondly and chalk it up to youthful experience and the awkward coming-out process, but at the time, I was heartbroken. A similar experience happened again several years later, after I was out of the closet and everyone knew about me. Being out and open about your sexuality can sometimes lead to "odd" behavior from straight guys.

I've known people who have said they focus solely on straight guys for sex.

PP4, you are exactly right when you say turning straight guys out can be trouble.

In my 20's I was in so many straight/straight straight/gay gay-bi-straight type of scenarios I don't even know where to start.


I find that a lot of guys between the age 19 and 25 seem to develope these very odd crushes on each other. Mostly plutonic, sometimes vaguely sexual, and sometimes very sexual--but almost always coming to pass.

I've been told my experiences are unusual, but I can't imagine that they were--I mean, I had these and was witness to these when I was in the damned military.

Imago said:

Let's leave bestiality out of this.

2the9s said:

ok, but will you promise to spoon me?

july said:

I'm too straight for this thread.

LOVE the stories. Readers Digest 4 me right now.

U guys are all correct..it seems like aound ages 8-12 there is high curiosity with same sex fantasies...then comes back around 19-25..until they have kids then they are straight all over again.

I believe every1 is born bi to begin with.

2the9s said:

I recognize that position!

Cinnie said:

oh lawd please get back to the story

i've never messed with straight people booty because that kind of ambiguity gets on my nerves, and then if you DO figure out all their passive-agressive crazy-ass signals and whatnot and end up having a roll in the hay with them, you have to deal with their sexually conflicted bullshit afterwards. really, life is too short and there are too many hot homos who are gayer than paul lynde sitting on a unicorn playing tambourine, so why do i need a side order of neurotic? forget about it.

I was "straight" when I met my boyfriend of 9 months. Does that count?

VoicesCarry said:

So, no more Janet booty?

Anxiety said:

preach it! it's a fantasy that isn't always reality.

paisleypark4 said:

oh, don't get me wrong - as fantasy fodder, it's a cornucopia, a porn utopia. but reality doesn't have to be all that bad either.

Anxiety said:

Anxiety said:

But usually...it's best to not be friends with them after or before

paisleypark4 said:

stone cold playa

Cinnie said:

gotta be a player b4 u get played

Straight guys are like gay guys with an open relationship;

I'm sorry I'm not gay.

JDInteractive said:

I understand you're sorry.

JDInteractive said:

I'm sorry that every other fucker on here is!!!

Only joshing. u can all be gay if you want to. Just not near my arse please!

HamsterHuey said:

Are you sorry too?

Let's call the guy Marty. The most beautiful guy of the entire staff. Everybody swooned over him. His straightness never questioned, esp not by me.

He's got blonde hair, grey eyes and the most dazzling smile you can imagine. A bit like Robert Redford. Always cheerful to everyone.

Then there is the saturday shift. It is a crazy day; real busy, customers buzzing into the store, lines at the tills. I work in the warehouse and he is taking the new stuff into the store, so we work together as a team. We have alot of fun.

Then I go to the toilet. It's on another floor, only to be reached through the backdoor that leads to the catacombs behind the mall. When I get back I just decided I did not want to work anymore. I had a real off-day that day, so I sat down on a box in front of the door leading back to the store. I sat there for five minutes when the door opens; it's him. I cannot even muster a smile,just pout. He sits down next to me and puts his arm around me and just gives me a kind of friendly pat onthe back.

But then he does not retrieve his arm... it just there and the pet turns into a sort of general stroke. A sort of intimate, general stroke. I kinda lean into his embrace, then look up. We just kiss. I do not dare look, I keep my eyes closed until his other hand touches my face.

Then he pulls away and says 'Now I gotta do what I came here for'. And goes to the toilet. I return tot he warehouse where he joins me tenminutes later. He looks at me quizzingly and says 'Next time, just tag along, will ya? I waited for like ten minutes'.

Half an hour he says he's going to the toilet. I wait like two minutes to trail him. When I enter the toilet there's no one there. Then a door opens.




Hehehe, this 'working' relationship lasted about two weeks. We went to a bar together ONCE and bumped into another colleague, that looked at us weird. Then Marty stopped showing up at work and I did not see him for half a year, after which a girlfriend from another city tells me she's dating this really hot student, describing him and his study and I just knew it was him.

I still see him in the city every now and then he is always with the most beautiful girls. Oh well. Fun while it lasted.

JDInteractive said:

I understand you're sorry you're not gay. Most gay people get alot of sex.