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got the i-touch ipod today This thing is thin!!! It looks like its too much work for me.
This was originally my son's, but he got in trouble at school so guess what?? ITS MINE....sad part is he worked to pay for it. He barely started high school and has already been suspended for being BAD. He was fairly warned!!!! OH WELL..... early xmas gift to me 
 Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here |
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uhm, that's really bad IMO to take something someone puchased with thier own money as punishment.
Especially a child. Now if you had bought it it would be a different story. Give it back, he worked for it. | |
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horatio said: uhm, that's really bad IMO to take something someone puchased with thier own money as punishment.
Especially a child. Now if you had bought it it would be a different story. Give it back, he worked for it. NOPE!!!! j/k If you only knew what this teen has been upto.... Im gonna keep it till xmas, then give it back. This is way too much technology for me..... I'll stick to the simple things. Its all about lessons.....he doesnt think im serious about anything Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here |
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well, you must have a good reason for keeping it, maybe you will grow to LOVE it?....lol I was debating on wheather to get the touch or an ipod classic for x-mas? i still have NO idea~~ 
can you go on-line with the touch? can you download movies & stuff? | |
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horatio said: uhm, that's really bad IMO to take something someone puchased with thier own money as punishment.
Especially a child. Now if you had bought it it would be a different story. Give it back, he worked for it. I agree.  | |
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xplnyrslf said: horatio said: uhm, that's really bad IMO to take something someone puchased with thier own money as punishment.
Especially a child. Now if you had bought it it would be a different story. Give it back, he worked for it. I agree. Ever since this kid was born, he has had everything he has ever wanted. He started acting up in Jr high and has contined to get worse are the years go by. He is attending weekly counseling, and tough love has still hasnt taken affect on him. So I figure take what he bought, from his hard earned moneyfrom him, and maybe he will understand..... He thinks that since he has been spolied, he can do whatever he wants. If I take things it will be a short term thing, no sweat..... But NO, I will not be keeping it, he will get it back at xmas time. Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here |
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amorbella said: xplnyrslf said: I agree. Ever since this kid was born, he has had everything he has ever wanted. He started acting up in Jr high and has contined to get worse are the years go by. He is attending weekly counseling, and tough love has still hasnt taken affect on him. So I figure take what he bought, from his hard earned moneyfrom him, and maybe he will understand..... He thinks that since he has been spolied, he can do whatever he wants. If I take things it will be a short term thing, no sweat..... But NO, I will not be keeping it, he will get it back at xmas time. have you used the belt? That always worked  "We may deify or demonize them but not ignore them. And we call them genius, because they are the people who change the world." |
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xplnyrslf said: horatio said: uhm, that's really bad IMO to take something someone puchased with thier own money as punishment.
Especially a child. Now if you had bought it it would be a different story. Give it back, he worked for it. I agree. I agree too. Punishment should fit the crime. But, that's easy to say from my vantage point.  oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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I still say a whuppin is fine at any time.
my mom or my friends would come to our school and embarrass us. Thank God I never got in trouble.....but my brothers did "We may deify or demonize them but not ignore them. And we call them genius, because they are the people who change the world." |
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amorbella said: xplnyrslf said: I agree. Ever since this kid was born, he has had everything he has ever wanted. He started acting up in Jr high and has contined to get worse are the years go by. He is attending weekly counseling, and tough love has still hasnt taken affect on him. So I figure take what he bought, from his hard earned moneyfrom him, and maybe he will understand..... He thinks that since he has been spolied, he can do whatever he wants. If I take things it will be a short term thing, no sweat..... But NO, I will not be keeping it, he will get it back at xmas time. Not being judgemental !!! Somebody spoiled him ... Taking that one thing he worked for is not the right message. Taking everything from him and giving back piece by piece as rewards is a better approach IMO. Do you attend counseling with him ? I think you should if you're not already doing so. Change will only happen if all parties involved are open to change.  | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: xplnyrslf said: I agree. I agree too. Punishment should fit the crime. But, that's easy to say from my vantage point. its about you dont take money or items bought by money earned | |
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horatio said: HereToRockYourWorld said: I agree too. Punishment should fit the crime. But, that's easy to say from my vantage point. its about you dont take money or items bought by money earned yea takes out belt but this is always helpful "We may deify or demonize them but not ignore them. And we call them genius, because they are the people who change the world." |
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bboy87 said: horatio said: its about you dont take money or items bought by money earned yea takes out belt but this is always helpful  | |
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how much did it cost?  To Sir, with Love | |
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You could always give it to me. That way, everyone wins. | |
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PEJ said: how much did it cost?
312.00 Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here |
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RodeoSchro said: You could always give it to me. That way, everyone wins.
nope, he has it, and he likes it Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here |
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bboy87 said: amorbella said: Ever since this kid was born, he has had everything he has ever wanted. He started acting up in Jr high and has contined to get worse are the years go by. He is attending weekly counseling, and tough love has still hasnt taken affect on him. So I figure take what he bought, from his hard earned moneyfrom him, and maybe he will understand..... He thinks that since he has been spolied, he can do whatever he wants. If I take things it will be a short term thing, no sweat..... But NO, I will not be keeping it, he will get it back at xmas time. have you used the belt? That always worked that isnt going to work, it doesnt "hurt" him Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here |
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I like the idea of taking a child's bedroom door instead. My Legacy
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One4All4Ever said: amorbella said: Ever since this kid was born, he has had everything he has ever wanted. He started acting up in Jr high and has contined to get worse are the years go by. He is attending weekly counseling, and tough love has still hasnt taken affect on him. So I figure take what he bought, from his hard earned moneyfrom him, and maybe he will understand..... He thinks that since he has been spolied, he can do whatever he wants. If I take things it will be a short term thing, no sweat..... But NO, I will not be keeping it, he will get it back at xmas time. Not being judgemental !!! Somebody spoiled him ... yes, me Taking that one thing he worked for is not the right message. trying something new Taking everything from him and giving back piece by piece as rewards is a better approach IMO. tried this a few times Do you attend counseling with him ? I think you should if you're not already doing so. Change will only happen if all parties involved are open to change. he goes to counseling 2 days a week....not working
teenagers are hard to figure out.... Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here |
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NDRU said: I like the idea of taking a child's bedroom door instead.
done that, he doesnt care Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here |
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NDRU said: I like the idea of taking a child's bedroom door instead.
I had this friend who had a door in his bedroom that opened into the garage, and he could come and go as he pleased. Weel, one day while in high school, he pushed his Dad too far. Dude comes home, opens the door to the garage, and finds it completely bricked up. He's so pissed that he hits the wall, breaking his hand in the process. I'd laugh real hard right now except he currently lives in Rancho Santa Fe, so I hope h and his family are safe. | |
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amorbella said: PEJ said: how much did it cost?
312.00 perfect x mas gift and he gets his moneys worth as long as he's good! To Sir, with Love | |
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Jeannie babes i think you did the right thing. I was thinking about this in bed last night (i didn't wanna react in an instant like i do  ) and i think you were dead right to do what you did.
We have spoken alot about what is going on with your son and this is a lesson that needs to be learned. All these people saying "he paid for it you can't take it" ...well there is a precedent within society and therefore a lesson in what you did. If i park in the wrong place i pay a fine from MY money If i speed i pay a fine from MY money If i dont pay my taxes i pay a fine from MY money If i dont pay my fines i get my car,my house or other goods removed that I paid for. Life is full of lessons and if, for your son, the kid lessons are no longer teaching him that action has consequence then he needs to learn the adult lessons sooner rater than later. Be strong sweetie 
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mdiver said: Jeannie babes i think you did the right thing. I was thinking about this in bed last night (i didn't wanna react in an instant like i do
) and i think you were dead right to do what you did.
We have spoken alot about what is going on with your son and this is a lesson that needs to be learned. All these people saying "he paid for it you can't take it" ...well there is a precedent within society and therefore a lesson in what you did. If i park in the wrong place i pay a fine from MY money If i speed i pay a fine from MY money If i dont pay my taxes i pay a fine from MY money If i dont pay my fines i get my car,my house or other goods removed that I paid for. Life is full of lessons and if, for your son, the kid lessons are no longer teaching him that action has consequence then he needs to learn the adult lessons sooner rater than later. Be strong sweetie
Kids have got too much these days anyway. I'd belt him too though, just for good measure! | |
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amorbella said: bboy87 said: have you used the belt? That always worked that isnt going to work,it doesnt "hurt" him Edit [Edited 10/24/07 6:43am] surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
I ain't felt this way in years... | |
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Okay he doesn't care that you took his door
He doesn't care that you took everything of his away at one point He goes to counseling Acting up in school And the belt doesn't hurt him 
Damn!!! Who helped u make this kid NASA?!?!?!?!? 
Your kid is indestructible!!! surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
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KidaDynamite said: Okay he doesn't care that you took his door
He doesn't care that you took everything of his away at one point He goes to counseling Acting up in school And the belt doesn't hurt him
Damn!!! Who helped u make this kid NASA?!?!?!?!?
Your kid is indestructible!!! Make him watch Graffiti Bridge, and write a literary critique on it. He'll be straight before dinner. | |
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Imago said: KidaDynamite said: Okay he doesn't care that you took his door
He doesn't care that you took everything of his away at one point He goes to counseling Acting up in school And the belt doesn't hurt him
Damn!!! Who helped u make this kid NASA?!?!?!?!?
Your kid is indestructible!!! Make him watch Graffiti Bridge, and write a literary critique on it. He'll be straight before dinner. That didn't happen to you then mate  | |
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Imago said: KidaDynamite said: Okay he doesn't care that you took his door
He doesn't care that you took everything of his away at one point He goes to counseling Acting up in school And the belt doesn't hurt him
Damn!!! Who helped u make this kid NASA?!?!?!?!?
Your kid is indestructible!!! Make him watch Graffiti Bridge, and write a literary critique on it. He'll be straight before dinner.  | |
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