CarrieMpls said:

It feels like she doesn't mean it, and feels insincere sometimes. Probably not even that actually. I just think it cheapens it sometimes, I don't know why. It's funny because I'm very affectionate with her and like her being affectionate with me (cuddles, kisses etc.) but for some reason I just don't want to hear those words too often. Sometimes it kinda bugs me. I think I just prefer actions to words and I'm not sure I really feel the sincerity in her words as much as her actions. I suppose she's not great in general at keeping her word so maybe that's why. She does show her love, but the words mean far less to me.

I hear you about telling people you love them when you don't see or hear from them often though. Also, Mon and I never go to sleep mad at each other, and never part upset with each other if one or the other is going out. I think that's important and we seem to be on the same wavelength where that's concerned. No matter what the beef is, you just don't part with your loved one, even for a seemingly routine trip to the shops or something, with all that anger forming the parting words and feelings. Then there'll be an 'I love you' and a hug and it's understood that whatever the problem is it's just a blip and we do still ultimately love each other deeply.

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shanti0608 said:

AndGodCreatedMe said:

I am the same..if I feel it I say it though I admit I do not feel it for just anyone.
Those who I truly love know it..there are ways to show it besides just words.

How are you? We were just wondering how you were doing the other day.

shanti0608 said:

I'm doing fine sweetheart

AndGodCreatedMe said:

Please give me a call lady..I would love to chat with you

We care about you very much

I save it for Laurel, and my male friends when I'm drunk.

benyamin said:

"I love you man"


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shanti0608 said:

Then I kiss them.

benyamin said:

of coarse

shanti0608 said:

benyamin said:

I guess he was not drunk at the time..he did not seem to be enjoying it..

shanti0608 said:

actually he was so much more drunk than me. After that photo was taken he went outside and lay down on some bin bags for a quick powernap.

benyamin said:

By "powernap" you mean "pass out" right?

mdiver said:

I thought it meant "rumpo"...

shanti0608 said:

No wonder i am so fucking tired all the time!

benyamin said:

By "powernap" you mean "pass out" right?

I say it to some people here, some that I never met but I do mean it as much as I love the personality they have shown here. Justin and Cloudy come immediately to mind. I think I make a few people here uncomfortable when I say it to them.

Those three words can be a huge source of comfort and when they are said for the first time from the heart, it is one of the most amazing feelings in the world.

Some people I find it easy to say to them, some that I really need to say it to, I can't.

I say it to some people here, some that I never met but I do mean it as much as I love the personality they have shown here. Justin and Cloudy come immediately to mind.

What do those three words mean to you?


Do you use those words freely or do you reserve those words for the "true loved ones" in your life?

I reserve the words "I love you" for the people that I truly feel love for and care for and even with those people, I don't say it much. Although, when I do say it, I definitely mean it