Or are you more a shy wallflower?
[Edited 10/12/07 14:34pm]

Definitely shy, but not necessarily a wallflower.

Not totally comfortable, but definitely not a wallflower.

i have mad confidence

i am an arrogant mf'er

I would say I'm somewhere in the middle because I'm neither of those choices

jess555ja said:

I know, but I could list over a hundred different choices.

Confident at work, and confident while out (but too much attention can get tiring)... I am not entirely comfortable with overt attention, it still can surprise me at times. In my more natural state, I am quite independent and a loner in my free/personal time. It is rare when I am flatter by the attention I get at times and quite honestly... it can be overwhelming, because I do pay close attention to many people, trying to take notice in all who are present.

I try to be polite/understanding, but at times... I just want to be left alone.

Ps~ I have a strong personality, but I would rather be a wallflower, especially in my current life.

yeah I'm pretty confident...or I should say I just dont really give a damn...if I go over well with folks, thats great but I wont put on a show to impress nobody...

I'm kind of a different person at work than I am other places... Maybe it's the gemini in me, but I'm all alpha female, confidence bordering on arrogance and such at work. People have actually been afraid of me, I'm always right, I've been told I have a "strong personality", etc.

I'm not like that at all with my friends or in social settings. I tend towards the shyer, quiet side and I avoid conflict if at all possible.

actually, really confident

weird huh

Last night I was on FIYAH

I blend with the walls in a crowd, or even in small groups.
I love being quiet, or speaking low and soft.
I'm extremely shy.

It's hard being cute sometimes.

psychodelicide said:

Same here

It's weird. I have so many issues with self esteem and am so uncomfortable about my looks but it never makes me shy like it probably should.

JustErin said:

why "should" it? people think you are gorgeous and it's them that have to look at you

ZombieKitten said:

Well, thanks for that but what I mean is that typically self esteem issues tend to make people so uncomfortable that they withdraw from things and wanna hide, does it not?

Guh, maybe I have no idea what I am talking about.

That's probably it.

Meh..... I am generally zoned in on those I came with and have a good bit of tunnel vision....

JustErin said:

I guess in extreme cases like my sister who won't leave her house sometimes because of how unhappy she is with the way she looks

i never feel fully confident. i can't even imagine what that's like.

evenstar said:

nobody is

I'm confident but I'm also "REALLY" shy!
Figure it out!

KidaDynamite said:

A shy confidence. Don't men love that?

JustErin said:

I guess it's only the old "Bums" and "Hobo's" that likes it bcuz those are the only men I attract!

KidaDynamite said:

aaaawwww

back when I was about 20, the vietnam war vets always picked me to play the harmonica to on the train

ZombieKitten said:

I give a vibe of confidence yes, but from the inside it's hell of a mess

KidaDynamite said:

you're jealous aren't you

ZombieKitten said:

No!













Yeah!

KidaDynamite said:

you can have this one I don't need him any more