People come here for a respite from daily problems.
They befriend certen people and get quite popular on the boards.
People talk to them and answer their posts on the threads
So why do those friends turn on them for no apparent reason?

Orgnotes -

Orgers are useing them to talk about other orgers.
They spread personal information that was ment to be private, and lie about them too.

Whole groups of orgers beleive those lies and treat the innocent orger badly,
They treat them like they are not even here,
Or call them Trolls because of what was said about them.

Many orgers have left because of problems like these.
The innocent feel like they have experienced the "Orgers death"

How can we prevent this from happening?

so basicly if they are rude and rotten on the threads they will be worse in their orgnotes to their "cliques"?

but what if they are friendly all the time on the boards, and that was your reason for talking to them in the first place?
[Edited 10/6/07 11:50am]

Seriously? It will and does happen here, as it does everywhere else in life...the only thing you can truly do is learn from each experience and use better judgement in who you befriend, and why you want to (we sometimes make friends with the wrong intentions in mind). As you grow older you'll find your own rhythm to how you connect with people, and will (hopefully) find your instincts to be correct the overwhelming majority of the time. On those times where it's not, you'll (again, hopefully) find that you're able to survive the occasional friend who lets you down in one way or another. And it's a reality of life that even the closest of friends will let you down, and you may find yourself letting them down without ever thinking you would...we're all human.

I think it is just plain silly to get all bent out of shape about who or what is said about you on a website. What is up with creating an account just so you can hide behind it and make a thread like this..now that's twisted.

emocheerleader said:

Sounds credible

I have received orgnotes about how evil another orger is.
I still talk to both.

Apparentlly I'm a racist at P&R. No one can quote me saying anything racist but I am nonetheless...to the same 3 or 4 orgers at least.

And she's not bitter or resentful but she keeps ignoring my posts ever since...


Sounds credible

before worrying about org. the starter of this thread needs to worry about their grammar. and spelling.of course so do I!
[Edited 10/6/07 11:59am]

meaning, why would you think people would behave any differently on the internet forums than they do in real life?

Look at what we concidered 'entertainment'.

Prince.org isn't unique in that respect, and like everyplace else in this world, virtual or 'real', there are always going to be people who, under the guise of "friendship", enjoy collecting personal information and then spreading it about; those kind of people live for the attention they receive by having 'secrets' to share. There is no way to prevent rumourmongering and gossip, and those prone to that behaviour are going to do it regardless, via orgnote and otherwise.

All one can do is be careful whom one befriends and what information one shares - especially initially - but without becoming jaded, or too suspicious to ever form new friendships.

You just can't prevent it from happening.

There are people who are so unhappy or bored with their own lives they feel the need concentrate on other people's lives. They've got nothing going on with themselves so in order to have something to talk about they just talk about others. And what gets attention better than dishing some dirt on someone else? I mean, we all love to hear that shit...to a certain degree, that is for most of us anyway.

Some of the shit may be true or it may not be...some people will say anything to get attention and that will never, ever change.
[Edited 10/6/07 12:09pm]

http://www.youtube.com/wa..._oclXxsLS0

emocheerleader said:

I am scared of your avatar.

yusing spel cheque is a gud start two having gud threadz and knot halfing peeple talk bad about yew.

WillyWonka said:

Well you don't share any at all so I guess you're in the clear.

BlackAdder7 said:

whaers a spell check at?

somebody orgnote me...I got some shit to tell...





did I say that out loud???

I understand what you all are saying but why do the people that are being told these lies treat the one being talked about like crap on the boards?

If you beleive what you were being told wouldn't you talk to the person about it?

At least tell them that you heard something about them?

JustErin said:

I agree with everything in this post

roodboi said:

:quicklytypesoutorgnotetoroodboi:

roodboi said:

i heard JustErin has a 9" cock

horatio said:

just looked average to me...

roodboi said:

truthfully I have never orgnoted with anyone to gossip crap about so and so, that is so junior high....I have orgnoted Jess though, to say "damn Smedley is gorgeous!!" now that's more like it!!

PaisleyPark5083 said:

That's not gossip though. That is fact

jess555ja said:

retina said:

Actually, I have shared rather personal information with a couple people, but I've apparantly chosen wisely with whom to disclose that information as what I've confided doesn't appear to have been spread around.

What I've found interesting is there were people who initially were very friendly to me when I first began posting and would message me and interact with me on the boards, and to whom I've attempted opening up in certain ways. These same ostensibly friendly people, however, evidently weren't ultimately interested in engaging me in substantive discussions or knowing anything further about me past trying to find out my real name or who I "really am" and, when I didn't immediately provide that information upon request, they began to essentially disregard me completely with little to no further communications.

It is experiences such as that which help me to discern who, in the bigger picture, is worth trusting and who is merely seeking some quick fodder for the grapevine.
[Edited 10/6/07 13:09pm]

ok but what if you never talked to anyone other than on the boards?
(such as sharing your thoughts about the subject)

Like one week everything is fine people are responding to what you say then the next no one will talk to you and ignore everything you say.




(And yes I know I can't spell and I have bad grammer I don't care If I did I would look up the proper ways.)

welcome back Dani!