I laugh at the banter between icenine and neptunes most of the time, but some of these remarks are getting really ignorant.

I really dont follow all her threads, but I don't get calling someone a "fat bitch" and "ugly" among other things.

None of us are anything more than the words we type on here, except for the few who've met in person.

Very true.

I feel it is going too far when people start attacking others based on their appearance. And this goes BOTH ways - Nep2nes is NOT innocent of this crime.

Okay... I will give the poor girl a break... I am just very tired of her.

So... no more fat jokes on Neppy Peppy.

I am signing my part of a truce with her on this thread.

Tom said:

Thank u Tom.

IceNine said:

OK no more ugly jokes about ice9, altho' he did the majority.

Oops! I'm sorry. No more ugly jokes directed at ice9. Now go post on my Iraq thread, ice! I want 2 know ur opinion!

i think i'm going to be ill

Tom said:

True. And the words Nep2nes types are what get her a barrage of insults. She reaps what she sows.

AaronForever said:

The same could b said 4 u, aaron.

But in the spirit of this thread I take everything I've said about u back. Unless u give me reason 2 talk shit again. Until then I give u a clean slate, as far as I'm concerned. All things r wiped out of my mind.

Nep2nes said:

Stop using my avatar and we can begin again in peace. Until then, it keeps going on and on. Is that what you want?

AaronForever said:

I think both of you like the fight. You're both legends around here, and I think you each keep the other on his/her toes. I just hope you two CAN reach an agreement cuz I love you both.

This is interesting because Ive seen it happen other places. An offensive person will be so callous and insulting to others regardless of anybodys feelings but their own...they will continue to be so callous and rude and then finally an uprising will happen against the offending ingnorant person. Then the offending person will cry victim all the while refusing to admit or acknowledge their wrongdoing in any of the matters and passersby will start to feel sorry for the person because the offending persons ignorance is held at bay by actions (that are only in retaliation after many attempts to reasonably remedy problems) surpassing their own...as if they were oblivious to some of the infractions they had committed that caused the whole mess in the first place..Well after the uprising the original offender is made to look sorry for and the uprisers are seen to be "overly harsh"..as if there is no rememberance of the offending persons bad actions, postings etc...not saying that new truces cant be formed but this "oh thats so harsh" shit baffles me ...

Words, once uttered, can not be re-called. apologies can be made...but that's all.

tom,

we both tend to stay clear of the drama around here...but, trust me...until nep2nes starts evolving and growing as a person, she doesnt deserve respect...i've stayed quiet for a long time about her..but, you get to the point where her stupidity starts to overshadow the sheer enjoyment of this place...and dont fault those who are trying to shut her up...

i have a question for you neps..why is it you will only respond to peoples hate? why is it when an orger will question you on your ill-informed or innappropriate attitude, you ignore it? don't you realize that these people are trying to teach you how to be an adult? cant you see that its rather obvious that you lack any and all social skills? rather then flaming people..maybe you should take a seat, soke in the atmosphere and learn...learn to be a better person...for christ sakes!! please!!

many years ago, i was approached by this older guy who my friends and I would hang out with on occasion..he told me that i was the only likeable person out of our bunch..he said this because he felt i was polite, quiet and interested in people and my surroundings (versus wanting to force my personality on people)...now, im not saying im the a perfect person..i know im not...but during that stage of my life i felt like it was far more interesting to people watch...to learn how to conduct myself in a social setting...

take this time in life to learn..cause if you dont, your gonna end up an old lonely woman who lives with 50 cats...


i hate to say this but, rdhull's post is right on the mark...







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[This message was edited Wed Oct 9 21:03:09 PDT 2002 by SkletonKee]

(snip. flame removed. Ian)

SkletonKee said:

lol... I always thought that was gonna be me!

rdhull said:

Testify! Yes, indeed, this is ALL true. I know this personally. I'm no wittle flower, mind you, but I've seen people who go out of their way to belittle and taunt others, and then turn right back and complain about the lack of civility. I know it's corny, but it's also true that "Who lives by the sword dies by the sword".

So I say be careful how you interact with others if you don't want to be flamed to a crisp. Dish it? Take it. Or just calm down and treat people with a modicum of respect. Everything will be fine.

SkletonKee said:

Eh? Why do you hate to say it?

Aerogram said:

One of my main points (what baffles me) is the onlookers response of "oh my gosh--you are so harsh on so and so"..It makes you want to say "where the fuck have you been?..becasue obvioulsy you are missing what was said in the beginning of all this by the one you feel so bad for". I guess I'll call it The Nouveau Bitch Syndrome

rdhull said:

hehe... amp, boys. amp...

AaronForever said:

so are you going to stop using my avatar or do we keep going?

AaronForever said:

That's what I was going to say.

Tom is in love with Nep2nes!

rdhull said:

Yea, the mass "fuck Neptunes" attitude on the Org has happened before, and she said she'd wipe the slate clean with everyone, and WHO do you think was the first to start throwing insults again???

It's all SO tired. Even when you quell the impulse to smack her around & TRY to talk to her like a human being, she can only come back with venom (as she probably will to this post). Sad, really...

Saying this as "ian" and not as your local friendly moderator... I agree thoroughly with Aero and rdhull but if I were you guys, I just wouldn't bother. I've said it all before, and so have other people. All you get for your troubles is a barrage of abuse.

Talk to CalhounSq, she knows what she's talking about!

For the record though, I do believe everyone has a right to post without being insulted about their personal appearance etc. The fact that some of our most intelligent, reasonable posters have stooped to that level might serve as indication of how far they have been pushed, and how much their enjoyment of the site has been ruined by just one person.

ian said:

I am the original Nep2nes basher. Thank you.






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[This message was edited Thu Oct 10 3:21:11 PDT 2002 by CalhounSq]

ian said:

Believe me, this is me "not bothering". As bad as flaming can get, I think it does play a certain role in letting some individuals know they have crossed a line. Yeah, I know there's a moderator and everything, but it's not the same as finding out very few folks are willing to defend you. Sure, here on the Org, I could report a thread to the moderator, but you know some of these individuals have had scores of locked threads and still keep belittling and insulting, so it's not hard to understand why the insulted keep bashing. I'm afraid account deletion is the only option in some cases, outside of the vigilante justice of flaming.

Moonbeam said:

Hmm..I never thought about it that way.

We ARE legends, aren't we Aaron?

ian said:

R u SURE u want 2 give me that much credit, ian?

Don't b ridiculous and make me out 2 b the bad guy. There r more factors at work here than just me being an evil person.

[Snip. Flame removed. Ian]



[This message was edited Thu Oct 10 6:52:07 PDT 2002 by Nep2nes]

CalhounSq said:

It wasn't me because obviously some1 would have had 2 have said something 2 provoke me. I don't just go off 4 no reason.

And no offense, but ur not one 2 talk about bashing me, because u truly were the bitchiest person on the org at that time, second 2 kellyanne, I'd say. U spent an incredible amount of time defending Prince everytime he acted like a pompous ass. U have yet 2 admit 2 ur ass-kissing tendencies.