Not going to name names or call anybody out, I'm just saying.

Name names! Call people out!

Byron said:

No, I can't do that (because I'm too nice).

I constantly feel like this,

I've come to the realisation that it's actually me who expects far too much from people. I set my standard too high and then wait for people to fail, then I tend to go, "There you go, I knew they were crap."

I'm not suggesting that this is you, just me

psychodelicide said:

It's dan, isn't it...

sj1600 said:

See for me, it's not even setting my standards too high. It's more like people don't do what I think they should do.

Byron said:

No, it's not Dan.

Is it me?

psychodelicide said:

for ya

nancy

psychodelicide said:

Can you speak to them?



Best way, rather than bottling it all up and seething with anger (yes me again).

I feel the same way...

This reminded me of this old joke. Just trying to ease things.

Jesus: One of you will betray me tonight
Peter: Will it be me, my Lord?
Jesus: No, it won't be you
John: Will it be me then?
Jesus: No John. It won't be you.
Judas: Will it be me?
Jesus: Will it be meeee? Will it be meeee?

I feel ya girl...

The past few months have really shown me who the ppl are that are genuine and who the ppl are that are just out for themselves.
I think it is a good thing though..in the end.
It has caused me to stand up for myself more and push back a bit.

to you !
Hope it gets better soon

Rhondab said:

Aww jeez, can I join the club? . This weekend I have really been going THROUGH it, ladies...I'm just hoping that a heavy work/travel load this week is going to be a useful way to redirect all these disappointment feelings I have right now... I'm caught between feeling like this:




and this:











It's jacked up because I have to face the disappointment feelings, ask myself really tough questions, with no chance to blame it on PMS

Life sucks. Or it it that people suck? I dunno, anyway I going to try to channel my disappointment now into lusting over runway outfits for the next 3 days Sublimation, sublimation, sublimation....

Do you know OJ?

What the hell? you can't be everybody's friend, move on.

psychodelicide said:

Maybe that's the whole problem. You can't expect people to be who you want them to be...you have to accept them for who they are. If who they are is not cool with you, then you have to just move on.

Who wants disappointment in their life? Stay with friends like that and you'll always be disappointed - which sucks, or let them go and find friends that are more suitable to your needs.

One word: Anticipointment!

JustErin said:

Thank you - I needed this reminder in my life at this time as well

Aww, sorry to hear that sweetie.

Try not to dwell on it, though. And know that you're not alone.

Sorry Nancy I gave up on people a few years ago.