Apparently his name is "Adam" (imagine me saying that in a condescending way lol)...he's tall, something like 6' 2"....blond, curly hair...no peach fuzz yet (thank god lol)...plays football...sheesh. Going to the homecoming game together this weekend...she's wearing his jersey number.

I've been replaced!! ....

Actually, to be honest...I'm happy that she's experiencing this aspect of Life, that her heart is being effected, even if just a little ...Of course I hope they don't actually get serious anytime soon (her mother will keep an eye on that, again thank God lol)...but the reality of her having those types of experiences--like holding someone's hand and feeling that thrill as she does--kinda makes me smile inside ...Bless her heart.

Anyway...anyone know where I can buy a cheap shotgun?

Oh, ok so now I know where to attribute that "POP!" I'm gonna hear this weekend?

No matter who she dates or eventually who she marries, you will always be her father

Just make it clear to the young man that you're keeping a watchful eye, you know putting the fear into him so he will be on best behaviour/honour.

MuthaFunka said:

luv4u said:

Well, she lives in Ohio now ...so I can't really keep a watchful eye from here. ...However, I trust her mother completely, and my daughter DOES have two VERY protective uncles and a equally protective grandfather living right nearby lol ...

Byron said:

I feel for ya hun ....
Isn't it adorable though seeing them start to experience their first love
oh and u can borrow my shot gun

Byron said:

haha bad for you.but good for her kinda thing i guess.

btw did you ever get her those jeans she wanted a while back?

Ocean said:

If only I could actually see it...

And I'll need shells, too lol

Christopher said:

Yeah, I did lol...but they were cheaper than the $175 price. I've bought her several more pairs after that as well ...And btw, where she lives now they don't even sell those types of jeans lol ...(they do look really good on her, though ... )

Byron said:

You will in a couple of months

Ocean said:

You mean a couple of weeks, hun lol (feels like a couple of months at times, tho...)

Byron said:

you can use one of mine I need it this weekend as well for Jessica's homecomming and YUP Jess has her 1st boyfriiend now too

hang in there Daddy

ALREADY!!!!!






so are the uncles gonna recreate that scene from Bad Boys 2? tell them to do it!! it will scare the bejesus out of that kid..oh except for the part with the gun, his parents probably won't like that

Hang in there dad this is just the beginning, but like Mach said NO ONE can take the place of daddy..NO ONE.

oh man...wow...

my lil' girl is only 4, the other day I found myself just watching her play and thinking about how quickly she's growing up and realizing that one day she's gonna like a boy and expect me to be fine with it...

I kinda feel your pain, Byron...

simple words on introduction will demand immediate respect from the young man (preferably without your daughter around)

"Son, let me show you my weapons collection...oh and I've recently started a small antique torture device collection I've been oiling up...you know I love my daughter more than life itself, right?"
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...Thanks for the comments and support, guys...

Did you have the talk about the birds and the bees with her yet?

Byron said:

Look at it this way....how many people do you know who stay with the first person they ever date for the rest of their lives?? Its like never having tasted a sandwich before then deciding that the first sandwich you taste is your absolute favourite. How are you going to know unless you've tasted others? Least, that's how I see relationships. That's not to say that there aren't those that don't stay with their first boyfriend/girlfriend...seems to be less likely though.

If that makes sense...!

Byron....I want to be supportive but if I had a teenage daughter I would be a complete mess.

She does sound like she has a good head on her shoulders though. Try not to worry. They grow up so fast.

All my little cousins that I used to terrorize are now teens and it's sooo scary to me.

awww I feel for you Byron


Just know that 'Adam' will not be her last boyfriend

ArielB said:

Yeah, she's pretty knowledgeable on that ...she's mature for her age, definitely.

DaveT said:

LoL..yeah, I understand what you're saying and I agree with you ...I'm not worried about her getting stuck with the guy for the rest of her life or anything lol...It's just the realization that she's entered into that phase of Life...really makes you (well me) think.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Too many times she looks like a woman...this kid obviously thinks so, too!

I love protection feelings towards family.

You know you've gotta let it happen, but you just don't want anyone near your precious loved one.

How old is your daughter? Just trying to relate my experience with my parents to yours.

AndGodCreatedMe said:

Yeah...lol He better be good to her...

Spookymuffin said:

She's 14...will be 15 in 4 months. I think the kid she's "interested" in is 15 already...they'll probably look cute together, too lol ...

Byron said:

Ok, can't relate!

I was 17 and my parents were like "FINALLY!" and didn't give a flying fuck about what I did.

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I feel for you Byron..... I really do....

My daughter is only 9 and so I have at least a few years until I get to go through this stuff

I have a feeling though that you were a great father to her as a little girl and so if it makes you feel any better, she will likely compare any guy to her daddy...and if he doesn't measure up...

So they live in Ohio now you say? Where abouts? I just moved from there myself.... so glad to be in Minnesota now!

Good luck B!

Spookymuffin said:

You sound like me at that age ....