weepingwall said:

WHAAAATS love gotta do gotta do with it?

When I was younger my relationships failed partly because I had some serious issues I needed to work through myself and partly because I usually got involved with men that were bad for me in one way or another.

These days I am single because I'm just not looking for anything serious. I just don't have the interest or time to devote myself to someone. It'll change in time I'm sure.

toots said:

Me, too!

horatio said:

also honestly, people would probably think i'm kinda kooky..the only i do is go to school, write either poetry or stories, or use the internet.

EverSoulicious said:

Probably home. We were in Minni.

Lothan said:

damn it

JDInteractive said:

I enjoy my freedom. That's why I'm still single.

... I really don't know actually.


Except I think the best things take
some endurance and work and time to come around.


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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

HEY MAN, they loved it.

Because it was covered in dorito dust.

Well, it's only been 48 hours after 11 years. Still in a state of shock, it's hard to start looking at answers (in the stages of grief, I hit 'anger' 2 hours ago).

But as for why it'll be awhile before I'm in another relationship? I suck at small talk.

PeteZarustica said:

Sorry to hear that, sir. Wishing you, all the best. your way.

july said:

Hey, thanks much!

PeteZarustica said:

Anyone who dumps someone who's into Tom Waits, PJ Harvey and quotes 1965 in their sig, obviously is not worth being with anyway.

PeteZarustica said:

Hey, good luck with it.




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Because men are a pain in the ass!

Calligraphy said:

The men I've been interested in, didn't reciprocate my feelings. And I don't go out much, so I don't meet that many men. It's been over a year since I was last interested in a man, but he was straight!

scififilmnerd said:

bastards!!!!!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

IstenSzek said:

Can you please change my bedpan, nurse?

Ace said:

same here. i do miss being with someone (and i don´t mean sex lol) from time
to time.

but as soon as i´ve been on 2 dates with someone i get all ´oh man they´re
creeping me the fuck out´ lol.

i just can´t be bothered anymore to let anyone cramp my style

HamsterHuey said:

how´s about i whipe your bottom for you and get you some apple juice while i´m at it?

I just date guys that dump me after two dates, obviously.

HamsterHuey said:

well at least i stuck around to change your bedpan

IstenSzek said:

LoL

Anyways. I am dating. But I think I am not really finding the one I wanna commit to. Yet, that is.

And as with Carrie, it is not dating for the art of dating, I just happen to meet people I consider.

wlcm2thdwn said:

Needed time to heal from the last relationship and family stuff.


Now I'm looking.....any takers?

the monkey porn collection doesn't help

Hey rhondab! I'm free tonight bab-eh

LittleSmedley said:

A million-and-one reasons.


Teenage Years - shy, innocent, never thought about sex, was too busy living in my own little dreamworld, no-one touched me with a bargepole


Twenties - same as above, minus the innocent bit. And the bargepole. The twenties were very much my 'party' years - finding out what I liked, what I didn't like, enjoying myself. Exploring. If the right man had come along I would've settled down; but I didn't really know what I wanted and I knew - above all else - I had to be happy with myself first. I thought I wanted to settle down on many occasions; in retrospect, I realise I wasn't ready for it. At all. But just the fact that *anyone* was interested in me was mindblowing.


Thirties - same as above but I am far more content with who I am, compared to my teens/twenties. A long way to go, still, but I now realise that even if that guy comes along at a time I don't feel ready for it, well, that's the time that guy came along. I don't expect my life to be absolutely perfect, first, in the way I would like it to be.



Add to that: shyness, fear of rejection, low self-esteem, going for the wrong types, being attracted to people who weren't interested and vice versa... the same reasons as everyone else, really. But I am immensely happy being single - I hate to think I might die without ever experiencing a true love affair but I will never, ever 'settle'. I'd rather be on my own than with someone for the sake of it.