CarrieMpls said:

Doesn't hurt to look at the bills or the income tht'spaying

Some women have trust and confidence in their spouses. Naive,and never question anything. Hubbies get used to that, and assume certain liberties.
It all comes out in the wash.....Obviously...
Sure, take it out on the florist. ha! If it weren't for those darn flowers, everything would be A-OK with the wifey.....and why the hell was polygamy banned??? Who's responsible for that?

Calligraphy said:

I think KIIS FM still does Ryan's Roses where they promise someone free dozen roses and the person can send it to anyone, of course the people usually end up sending them to the person they are cheating with, not knowing that their partners are on the line listening

CHIC0 said:

Here is what I get from this story....

The man fell in love with another while still married although he and his "current" wife are already now going through an amicable divorce. Of course it's not going to amicable anymore. Perhaps his wife felt something was up regardless before the divorce proceedings even started, you know the whole Women's intuition thing? That was why she jumped up and checked into it with a quickness as any smart woman would do! She now has proof of him breaking their marriage vows for the courts.

Now while it is true that the company should not have given her any information at all due to their privacy policy, his dirt not only came out in the wash but it got scrubbed clean! 1-800-flowers was just the laundry detergent, or "middle man" as we say. Besides how do we know that his wife didn't "pretend" to be the other woman to get the information in the first place?

His soon to be ex-wife may just get her extra $300,000 and well, good for him. He got caught out and is now embarrassed and angry that his game has crumbled. Now he has decided to file a law suit against 1-800-flowers to get as much money as possible to be able to afford to pay his soon to be ex-wife that extra $300,000 per month plus child support! This way he can also continue to afford his new lady love as well.

He is laying all of the blame on 1-800-flowers, when it is he who chose to use them to buy flowers for his significant other other on the downlow. No body told him to whip out his credit card, go online smiling, placing the order and clicking on "submitt". When he did that he submitted himself to having a can of "whoop ready to finally get caught" butt. He did it to himself.

I mean he should have just picked some wild flowers from a field, packed them the way he is supposed to and just shipped them out himself complete with the note written on line paper. Men....What a HOT mess this is!
[Edited 8/11/07 3:05am]

That's what the bastard gets for cheating....maybe I'm too harsh...yeah asking for a million is crazy.

Lesson here: don't give traceable gifts to your mistress.

I say fuck people who think they get money cause someone cheated on them.


Get a life!

That idea is sooo old and archaic, it should be ditched like homophobia.



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[Edited 8/11/07 6:31am]

dude is DUMB, I don't feel bad for him

emm said:

Thanks, Emm. I found it.

Everytime Rich has ordered me flowers from them they have sent a Thank you card.
He's a dumbass for using his home address when making the order, he should have used his work address. And he probably used a charge card that was a joint account with the wife, he deserved to get caught. It's not 1 800 Flowers fault at all!

lilgish said:

exactly, and be prepared to take responsibility WHEN YOUR MISTRESS IS DISCOVERED. not "If", WHEN. 1-800-flowers didn't make him cheat on his wife.

lilgish said:

CalhounSq said:

I don't either. I hope he doesn't get a quarter.

unlucky7 said:

No, you're not being harsh at all.

The judge should throw the case out, and reprimand him for being a dick.

like I said.

No one values thier own privacy,



so why would they value someone elses.

horatio said:

You know, if this was medical information, I could see your point. But dude bought flowers and she obtained information as his WIFE.

Cinnie said:

So once a person becomes married they no longer have a right to privacy? They no longer have ANYTHING that can be considered there own including their privacy, is that it.

statuesqque said:

Generally speaking, legally no, there isn't a lot of privacy.

CarrieMpls said:

yeah not legally... certainly not a million dollars legally

Cinnie said:

Well, the legal view would be a big problem for me because I don't buy into that way of thinking. Just because I make someone my husband or become someone’s wife doesn't automatically give me the right to invade their privacy, we got married...we didn't get joined at the hip. And you're right it's not worth a million dollars but it is definitely worth a lot.

statuesqque said:

but when you get married you also vow to forsake all others.

there are many facts that are missing from this situation, such as was it a joint credit card? because if it was then it was NOT an invasion of privacy to tell the wife want was charged to it. Since, you know, if it's a joint credit card, it's in BOTH of their names and belongs to the BOTH of them.

The other thing that bothers me is when you're actively breaking a vow of marriage but trying to get off scott free in the divorce, you're just an ass. He legally owes his wife more money because his stupid, skanky ass was CHEATING!!

Man up... ya got what ya brought to the table.... cracks me up how we think what we do in the dark wont see the light in time.

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

ain't that the truth.

JasmineFire said:

I guess I just have a more realistic view of life, people and how things are... people cheat. It's a hurting and painful thing yes, but right or wrong, it does happen. And true if the cards are in both their names than yes, he was stuipd for not paying cash.
[Edited 8/11/07 19:09pm]

statuesqque said:

so maybe instead of asking why the dude is chasing after 1-800-flowers for money, we should ask why the wife is asking for more money?

Cinnie said:

Actually, it doesn't say she's asking for "more". That may have been her initial request. It's just that it happened after she found out.

There's a lot you can't tell from the article.

Cinnie said:

that's simple...because she can.

statuesqque said:

we were speaking in "shoulds" this whole page of the thread though

statuesqque said:

it also may have been written in their prenuptial agreement that if one party cheats they must pay more alimony or whatnot when they divorce. Many people have "cheating clauses" written into their prenuptial agreements because, as you said, people cheat.

Cinnie said:

true we were but it's a given...it's going to cost him especially if he's the one who wanted the divorce in the first place.

Dayum they pulled homepiece's Card out like that?.... coldblooded shit man,,,