jess555ja said:

You probably read one of my posts and it got stuck in your head.

In life, the only thing you're responsible for is what you say, and what you do.
How someone takes it, is all on them.
stop feeling so guilty..you didn't do anything wrong, accept be yourself, and be honest

BlackAdder7 said:

You are so right . . . I'm feeling better now and I'm glad I made this thread because everyone helped me see that I did nothing wrong. He didn't like what I said, but he should have known that there was a possibility that I wouldn't feel the same way. I don't feel guilty for what I said. I just feel bad that this friendship may be over.

live4lust said:

Sorry


For some reason, I had FarrahMoan stuck in my head all day

i've been in this situation too! with my supposed best friend who'd been lying to me the entire time i'd known him about how he felt, and then when i wouldn't break up with my boyfriend to be with him he made my life a living hell. that was fun.

i just had my heart broken too, the girl i love had me arrested for stalking. i dont know how she can do that
jess555ja, if you need some company, jus let me know ur cellphone number

Nice profile pic by the way (boobies).

CarrieMpls said:

mdiver said:

If I ever hear Carrie use the term "boo" I am going to jump off the nearest bridge

Last night, I was talking to my friend and he was a bit drunk, ok, very drunk and he revealed a lot of things that I wasn't expecting.

He kept telling me that I was beautiful when we first met when we were teenagers, but he didn't see it, but he sees it now. He told me that I'm an angel and he said that any man that talked to me should be sad that they are not with me.He revealed to me that he had been in love with me for several years, but never did anything about it because he thought I would freak out. I really did not know how to respond to this information, so I just said thank you and I told him I was very flattered


He is quite mad at me now and is ignoring my phone calls and emails. I feel like such a bitch, but I didn't know how else to react. I just don't feel the way that I guess he wants me to feel. I feel horrible right now . . .



usedthewrongword edit!
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jess555ja said:

You loved the attention though and aren't really bothered though eh?

JDInteractive said:

Interesting reply. Why would you say that?

hokie1 said:

Because over half of that post is about how he flattered her and what he said.
[Edited 8/7/07 13:55pm]

JDInteractive said:

Well, I've never met Jess in person, but she seems to me to be a nice and kind woman. I don't think this is a lighthearted matter. She was friends with this guy for ten years and I think she was genuinely upset that she hurt him. Then he started treating her like crap. Oh well, you are entitled to your opinion I guess.

hokie1 said:

Who am I to say that she isn't? She seems nice and kind like you say. My opinion I guess is that it isn't so much of an issue as it's being made out to be.

i just had my heart broken too, the girl i love had me arrested for stalking. i dont know how she can do that
jess555ja, if you need some company, jus let me know ur cellphone number

You loved the attention though and aren't really bothered though eh?

JDInteractive said:

Ok, I said in my first post that I told him I was flattered and that was the truth. Who doesn't like to hear things like that? What he initially said is not what is bothering me. What is bothering me is what was said after I reacted to this information and his actions in the following days. He has tried to make me feel guilty for not feeling the same way and he has ignored most of my emails and all of my phone calls. I'm not even going to try to communicate with him anymore as he has told me in an email that he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore.He doesn't want to talk to me or see me again. So, yes, I am bothered and I feel like shit.

jess555ja said:

I got your back girl. Check a few posts up.

hokie1 said:

Thanks


I was just giving JD some more information because this is not a joke to me. This was very serious.. I don't know what will happen in the future, but right now, the friendship is done with. I don't think that it needs to be, but that is how the other person involved wants it to be.

jess555ja said:

he's not worth your time. fuck him. and don't let JD's bitchy mood make you feel bad.

evenstar3 said:

WELL!!! There you go! Glad you said it b/c I was thinking it. I don't really know JD that well, so after I learned my lesson with you I shy away from attacking people I don't know.

hokie1 said:

i'm not attacking anyone! or i don't mean to.

JDInteractive said:

Ok, I said in my first post that I told him I was flattered and that was the truth. Who doesn't like to hear things like that? What he initially said is not what is bothering me. What is bothering me is what was said after I reacted to this information and his actions in the following days. He has tried to make me feel guilty for not feeling the same way and he has ignored most of my emails and all of my phone calls. I'm not even going to try to communicate with him anymore as he has told me in an email that he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore.He doesn't want to talk to me or see me again. So, yes, I am bothered and I feel like shit.