jess555ja said:

oh absolutely, that goes without saying!

CHIC0 said:

whoa whoa whoa, when did she record that!

Cinnie said:

Unfortunately, it isn't reality


I really hope he calms down because I have been his friend for almost 10 years and I feel he is throwing it all away. I know he is hurting, but he is making things much worse.

jess555ja said:

Just about everyone goes through this, especially at your age.

Hopefully, he can see it's not worth throwing away a 10-year friendship, but I doubt he will realize this before the weekend is finished

jess555ja said:

there ya go!!

Also, I would say he is allowed to hurt and act up right now... a major expectation of his just fell through

it's not your "fault" though - but you'll have to forgive his behavior

I'm sorry you have to be in this position. I have been where you are and, well it just sucks. I absolutely think you did the right thing by being honest with him. Honesty is always best even though it hurts sometimes. When guys get hurt or embarrassed they do stupid things that make the situation even worse. I think if he has been a friend for 10 years then you should just kind of let him get his frustrations out of his system and give it some more time. I'm not saying what he's doing is right, but people do dumb things sometimes. Just ride it out. If he's still treating you unfairly next month then maybe you need to set his azz straight! You'll make it, but I know it's hard.

You know, I could turn this into a boob thread if you want me to.

Cinnie said:

it's on this :



i know you'd love it!!!

Cinnie said:

I know that it will take longer than a weekend, but he has been saying some hurtful things. I can forgive him for it, but I definitely won't forget.

jess555ja said:

He is hurting, and he is saying whatever he can to re-direct the pain. I'm not saying it's right, but

hokie1 said:

He is lucky that I am such a loyal friend to him because I really wouldn't put up with this kind of thing from other people and girl, if he is still acting like this a month from now, I'm going to have to give him one of these:

PS - If you want to make this a boob thread, I won't stop you . . .

jess555ja said:

No boobs today. I just don't feel like it. I was just trying to make you laugh and use my new favorite "sort of a" word---AZZ.

hokie1 said:

I like AZZ

I’ve been in that situation sort of because I actually did feel the same way as the person but in shock, excitement, and disbelief that he actually felt the same way I handled it VERY badly and it went to hell from there. But, anyway he’s hurt, embarrassed and feeling rejected it’s not easy for a man to tell a women he has feelings for them or how he feels to begin with and then to be rejected on top of that. I mean let’s be honest rejection is rejection no matter who it comes from or whatever the reason especially if it’s from someone that they love or in love with. Let him know that you’re going to give him some space or time or not but give it to him anyway and be aware that this could very well end your friendship because feelings for you maybe that strong to where he can’t just be your friend.

The same thing happened to me but with one difference - my friend went on to tell me NEVER to bring it up again cos he only had the guts to tell me cos he was drunk. We'd been VERY good friends before that but I'd been clueless, after that our friendship never really recovered.

There isn't much you can do really, if you don't feel the same way what can you say? I hope it'll be ok.

i've been in this situation too! with my supposed best friend who'd been lying to me the entire time i'd known him about how he felt, and then when i wouldn't break up with my boyfriend to be with him he made my life a living hell. that was fun.

I really think girls should not be allowed to have friends.


It would prevent a trail of tears.

do drunk dials ever turn out well?

JerseyKRS said:

yes.


I've used some of your voicemails as inspiration for my own messages.

Imago said:

thank god those days are in my past!!

Imago said:

boys shouldn't lie!

Imago said:

Not even female friends?!

evenstar3 said:

yeah, exactly

Don't be upset if YOU SAY HE' JUST A FRIEND

Jess, I want you to know that, because of this thread's title, I have had "Last Heart" stuck in my head all f****n' day!

live4lust said:

Is that a good thing or a bad thing 'cause I like that song


Baby, if U break my heart one more time
It'll be the last heart U ever break
I've taken all I can take
Baby, this heart wasn't made 2 break

jess555ja said:

No, I love the song but not on repeat for a whole day.

live4lust said:

Sorry


For some reason, I had Pheromone stuck in my head all day

jess555ja said:

You probably read one of my posts and it got stuck in your head.