Did I understand this wrong?

I was talking 2 a guy who has been a friend 4 a very long time and we was having a conversation about someone he knew. I said it was nice 2 know about a guy who would go out with a girl who was bigger than him, and this is what he came out with:

"i'm very small framed - and its not a matter of choice.. its pain that comes from my bones that punishes me if I make a mistake. just someone taller or 2x my size i thought i was going to die..."

I have liked this guy 4 some time and I could never figure out why nothing would happen between us. I think I understand now, it is because I am 2 big 4 him. I am not thin enough.

Did I over act on this? Or do U think I was correct thinking on this one?

Let me have U'r thoughts.

who wants to fuck a midget anyway?

you're better off.

The only way to know for sure is to say:

"Hey, wanna do me?"

He's so small he is going to experience pain by doing a girl bigger than him? Is he Prince?

Mars23 said:

whoever he is, he sounds insecure as hell.

ask him what he meant? that's the best way to go

Yeah, his thing is probably so little all it can do is tickle you to death

seriously though, he may just not be that into you and it has nothing to do with your size per se.

Sometimes the chemistry just isn't there and there's nothing that can be done about it. I wouldn't waste time trying to figure out why, especially when there are so many men in the world. Easier said than done, believe me, I know, but you'll thank yourself for it later.

He sounds really closed and hung up on his size

JasmineFire said:

JasmineFire said:

I think for those of us who ARE bigger, or heck, just insecure about any part of our looks it's a nice convenient thing to hang thigns on. He doesn't like me? It must because of my weight, my hook nose, my stringy hair, whatever. I'd much rather think someone isn't attracted to me cause of that than think they just don't like me for who I am. And sometimes that IS the case, but sometimes it's not.

But yeah, you can't force anything and if it's not there, it's not there.

We use 2 have lots of chemistry. I just do not understand what has happened. Well it has been 5 days now, and we have not spoken 2 each other, no telephone calls, no emails, no nothing. It must B the end.