SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

it's on both.

and also, other girlfriend or not, Meow's not married to this guy, so...all the sex is a big no-no.

[Edited 7/27/07 17:20pm]

Lothan said:

Do you feel like undercover stalking a Minnie sex addict?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

What?

[Edited 7/27/07 17:20pm]

Lothan said:

David! He's too damn cute not to be a ho, Jesus or no Jesus

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Oh my god.

I love David but that girlfriend, if she is his girlfriend, scares the hell out of me.

Lothan said:

Why did you edit that?

JustErin said:

I thought it was a bit harsh and it all really doesn't matter anyway.

Lothan said:

Agreed.

People just seem to take it all personal...as usual.

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Well Karen, I'm not advocating a free for all care free sin spree. I am saying that people should stop preaching on this shit because some situations are not cut and dry and black and white and those who stand on the outside looking in with their fingers pointed might not know the whole story. The point still stands, she can't fuck this dude if he doesn't make himself available to do so. I for one will not point fingers at her.

so what do you think is stopping him?

what is he getting out of it?


btw are you around in three weeks time?

all the moralizing aside, it seems like an unhealthy situation for you meow... hope everything works out whatever you decide to do.

JDInteractive said:

I'll admit I do get a certain high off it for a short while, but then it goes away and I come crashing back down, realizing what a horrible thing I'm doing. Like a drug, I guess.


Funny thing is, the sex, good as it is, is extremely rare. Anything sexual is, really. I'm with him sometimes several times a week, but most of the time all anything amounts to is some very PG bed sharing -but with the obvious subtext, of course. I can't explain it, except to say it's genuinely not just about sex.

meow85 said:

He needs to buy one of these, if all he's after is cuddles

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/h...699516.stm

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

She solicited opions and as you gave yours ive given mine hence forth when solicited it is hardly preaching. I do feel we are personally acountable for what we do. and just because i am foot loose and fancy free I do not believe that I have that right to take my blonde ass anywere i want because i can and or because outcome is not my problem.

I respect your opinion and you know i live and let live... this does not mean I dont have an opinion of my own.

meow85 said:

He needs to buy one of thse, if all he's after is cuddles

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/h...699516.stm

As a woman this is probably blasphemous to say but...

The fact that you're even thinking about all this signals to me that you'll likely grow tired of the whole situation very soon. You're in it for the sex, not the drama. I say fuck him 'til he bores you, which could be any day now or months from now. It's not a countdown to morality, sometimes we just wanna roll w/ shit until it doesn't satisfy anymore

This is one situation, one circumstance - none of us do "the right thing" ALL the time, I'd consider it a "moment" & keep moving. You know the situation, you know where you stand, you're not trying to take the mf from her & it's not up to you to make this mf faithful. B/c he'll likely cheat on that woman with whoever else for whatever reason - that's her journey to sort out, her decision (once she finds out) to stay or go. Yes she will be hurt, but HE is hurting her directly - you're a willing participant in the scenario BUT you don't hold that woman's heart in your hands (I love how everyone is trying to pin this all on you, btw - wtf??)...

::::reads your last comment::::

Okay, so you're NOT in it for the sex. Which blows my whole theory So I no longer understand the situation And I'm bored

As a woman this is probably blasphemous to say but...

The fact that you're even thinking about all this signals to me that you'll likely grow tired of the whole situation very soon. You're in it for the sex, not the drama. I say fuck him 'til he bores you, which could be any day now or months from now. It's not a countdown to morality, sometimes we just wanna roll w/ shit until it doesn't satisfy anymore

This is one situation, one circumstance - none of us do "the right thing" ALL the time, I'd consider it a "moment" & keep moving. You know the situation, you know where you stand, you're not trying to take the mf from her & it's not up to you to make this mf faithful. B/c he'll likely cheat on that woman with whoever else for whatever reason - that's her journey to sort out, her decision (once she finds out) to stay or go. Yes she will be hurt, but HE is hurting her directly - you're a willing participant in the scenario BUT you don't hold that woman's heart in your hands (I love how everyone is trying to pin this all on you, btw - wtf??)...

::::reads your last comment::::

Okay, so you're NOT in it for the sex. Which blows my whole theory So I no longer understand the situation And I'm bored

As a woman this is probably blasphemous to say but...

The fact that you're even thinking about all this signals to me that you'll likely grow tired of the whole situation very soon. You're in it for the sex, not the drama. I say fuck him 'til he bores you, which could be any day now or months from now. It's not a countdown to morality, sometimes we just wanna roll w/ shit until it doesn't satisfy anymore

This is one situation, one circumstance - none of us do "the right thing" ALL the time, I'd consider it a "moment" & keep moving. You know the situation, you know where you stand, you're not trying to take the mf from her & it's not up to you to make this mf faithful. B/c he'll likely cheat on that woman with whoever else for whatever r

eason - that's her journey to sort out, her decision (once she finds out) to stay or go. Yes she will be hurt, but HE is hurting her directly - you're a willing participant in the scenario BUT you don't hold that woman's heart in your hands (I love how everyone is trying to pin this all on you, btw - wtf??)...

::::reads your last comment::::

Okay, so you're NOT in it for the sex. Which blows my whole theory So I no longer understand the situation And I'm bored

As a woman this is probably blasphemous to say but...

The fact that you're even thinking about all this signals to me that you'll likely grow tired of the whole situation very soon. You're in it for the sex, not the drama. I say fuck him 'til he bores you, which could be any day now or months from now. It's not a countdown to morality, sometimes we just wanna roll w/ shit until it doesn't satisfy anymore

This is one situation, one circumstance - none of us do "the right thing" ALL the time, I'd consider it a "moment" & keep moving. You know the situation, you know where you stand, you're not trying to take the mf from her & it's not up to you to make this mf faithful. B/c he'll likely cheat on that woman with whoever else for whatever reason - that's her journey to sort out, her decision (once she finds out) to stay or go. Yes she will be hurt, but HE is hurting her directly - you're a willing participant in the scenario BUT you don't hold that woman's heart in your hands (I love how everyone is trying to pin this all on you, btw - wtf??)...

::::reads your last comment::::

Okay, so you're NOT in it for the sex. Which blows my whole theory So I no longer understand the situation And I'm bored

It's not a countdown to morality, sometimes we just wanna roll w/ shit until it doesn't satisfy anymore

IstenSzek said:

Damn, I would have sympathised with you, had you fallen in love with him or something, but as it's just a sex thing, I can't believe you even started this thread and asked the question, as IstenSzek said, you have your answer.

MissMe said:

Agreed.

You don't 'really' like him, no? Move on and move out so you don't have to question yourself anymore...

....or, is it that you really like the cuddles and the sharing conversations, maybe? Maybe you're developing feelings...oh hell, I'm the last person to interject into this, I'm the biggest flirt on the face of earth but will turn around and cut a man for so much as looking at another woman ....just kidding
[Edited 7/31/07 14:34pm]