Fury said:

No prob. He'd just be the bottom.

veronikka said:

Yes, I agree it is important. To the extent of marrying someone. I suppose I stepped away from the real question there, and said if he had some kind of disabiltity freom war injury or whatever, if I truly loved him and he was the one I was going to marry, then the sex issue would not step in the way.

hard as though it seems, it is a very difficult question to answer unless we were faced with it in reality. I am just giving my reply through what I believe and through my heart. Not instantaneously, as how one would automatically do, as alot of people here have suggested.

Imago said:

Ocean said:

I think he's hitting on me

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I would not doubt it ...I'll say one thing for him...he has taste!!!

Ocean said:

Ya'll some cold bitches if you say no. But i can understand it. Still, sex ain't everything. And of course, being impotent is something no man deserves.

thesexofit said:

well would you date/marry a girl who would never sleep with you?

yes, I could... it's not that hard to do besides isn't all about the person

hey, I went with a guy with no ass, that's a handicap in my book

evenstar3 said:

? You can have fun without someone putting a dick up ur cunt. Seriously. Their are certain things a woman or a gay guy could do, to help. Foreplay always rocks in my book, and some subsitute like a dildo could help aswell.

To answer your question, do you mean a women who physically cant sleep with me?

thesexofit said:

BLASPHEMY!!!!

thesexofit said:

true. it's one thing if it comes up when you're already in love with someone, but i dunno if i could knowing it beforehand.

yup.

As long as his tongue still worked....

No seriously..this is a tough topic and hard to answer unless you were in that situation.For me intimacy means so much more than intercourse- though all relationships are different with different ppl.
I was in a marriage where we went over 9 months without having sex. Not because of impotence reasons.
So I guess it depends.

evenstar3 said:

I see. I understand that. I guess if you fall in love with someone, and you didn't realize he was impotent beforehand, could be heartbreaking.

thesexofit said:

yeah, depending on how important sex is to you.

what's your av of?

evenstar3 said:

Sex is not everything to me personally. As long as both parties try, then Iam happy. I dont think "oh great, let me do all the work", if maybe she needs a little learning or whatever. I dont like girls telling me off about not lasting long enough either. I can last for ages, but iam not gonna be too bothered if i do cum too early.


As for my av, its "yohei"

There's hope yet!

evenstar3 said:

I still do not think I could do it.

EvilAlthom said:

I'll let imago know ur keen

JustErin said:

Another scenario is that if you wanted a family with this man, then again, it would be heartbreaking.

I guess ideally i would like every woman to say yes to the question, but alas, its a complicated issue. To me, its just an errect penis though. We have discussed other ways that could make sex work to an extent, but then again, i have had girls tell me stuff like "when i first had you inside of me, i knew you were the one". Thats some corny shit, but maybe some women do feel a deep, almost spiritual connection through penetration. I gotta say, as a male, i dont really.

Ocean said:

thesexofit said:

As a woman, I gotta say I don't either.

JustErin said:

Hmm, maybe our views ain't so different after all. My very basic view on sex is that I love doing it, dont get stressed (any more) if i do underperform in anyway, can go without it without crying like a bitch about it, and iam not afraid to have fun during it. Examples being i find some parts of sex quite funny. One direct example being one time when a girl of mine was about to cum, she made the funniest face i'd ever seen. I couldn't stop laughing. She got mega pissed off. I like to relax and see the fun side too.

thesexofit said:

I was with you right up to you saying sex can be funny. Although I can understand what you mean, it's all business to me.

Wait, that makes it sound like I am a hooker.

JustErin said:

Iam just not afraid to laugh at something during sex. I dont make knock knock jokes or anything, but i just dont take it so seriously. But then, i laugh all the time. I dont take anything seriously enough really. Maybe i should work on that LOL

thesexofit said:

i would've laughed in her face if i was you, or at least wanted to desperately.

evenstar3 said:

? Iam very corny really, but yeah, that was kinda odd. I remember when we were doing it, and she was on top of me and she noticed a spider on my ceiling. She flipped, got off me, and got pissed off at me for having spiders on my bedroon ceiling. Iam like "lady, i ain't got anything against spiders, WTF is wrong with you?". Ahhh, she had her moments.

Imago said:

thesexofit said: