MissMe said:

my mom had her last when she was 38

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

TY

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

and my sister in law at 42

shanti0608 said:

And you could always do it the modern way and harvest some eggs and ebryonize them for another woman to carry

CortestheKiller said:

Yesterday, when I went to visit my ex and her yoga-instructor friend started flirting with me.

But then I went home and rubbed one out and it passed.

Hi, Cortes! How's that whole "marriage" thing workin' out?

Ace said:

It would be horrible if she already had complaints this early in

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

well I am certainly not going to ruin my perfect body by birthing a baby out of it..please...

never.

shanti0608 said:

Y-ouch!

God give you a perfect body as a GIFT.
He will also give you a baby as a GIFT.
For one to assume a baby will ruin a perfect body by birthing.
Please re-read what you have said.
You are LUCKY, yet you shun you gift, for purely aesthetic reasons.

MissMe said:

Just teasing.. my bod is far from perfect.
I was trying the sarcasm thing back - hence the
[Edited 6/27/07 17:43pm]

MissMe said:

what if you don't want god's 'gift'?

evenstar3 said:

Well you take certain precautions. It isn't that hard.

evenstar3 said:

Or you can go kill the living baby inside you, cos you decide "not to have it"
purely for aesthetic reasons or just because it doesn't suit your lifestyle at that particular moment in time.

evenstar3 said:

That's what surrogate mothers are for! you get both gifts, a perfect body and a baby Oh wait. That's what adoption is for. don't want these women with perfect bodies actin all selfish

MissMe said:

i'm not gonna get p&r on this.

evenstar3 said:

It is not P&R, it is as the thread says: NATURE.

MissMe said:

discussing abortion is.

MissMe said:

I love this option!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

MissMe said:

Actually I fully support a woman's right to choose And I don't think that women are always like evil selfish creatures for choosing this. I think understanding why women want to do this and not shaming them goes a long way in possibly changing the conditions that lead to that choice.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

But your say in "I love this option"


Whatever the woman decides to choose, is not an " I love this option" moment.
Either decision is hard. Either outcome is hard. And it IS a womans choice, at the end of the day, be it fortunately (in some circumstances) or very unfortunatley (in other circumstances).

MissMe said:

I love that women have the choice. how about that?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

That is better

If I decide to be a mom I will have it myself or I will adopt.

MissMe said:

I know, women are having children older and older, I dont know that I want to wait too much longer but only time will tell.

Ok now step aside, I have had 4 kids in a time span of 20 fricken years!!!
My son was born when I was 17, I was young and stupid, thank god he turned out to be a great young man who is now a College Graduate thank you very much.
I waited 10 years, to get over the fact that I had a child at 17, I was 27 when my daughter Andrea was born, I felt wiser and more calm. I had Michelle when I was 32, I was down right mellow, and she is beyond sweet. I had my last child, and I do mean LAST, when I was 37, she is now 4...and is by far the best behaved of the bunch. I was calmer, not as nutty, and I dedicate my life to her.
Yes, they have all been with the same man, thank god....he is the one that keeps me sane.

CortestheKiller said:

just before i went out and got a labrador

MissMe said:

Who says it can't be an "I love this option" moment? I might be poor as fuck but manage to have $400 come available, my baby's daddy might beat the shit out of me and ehm, I may be a stripper. I'd say at that moment, I'd fucking LOVE the option.

I think you were reaching and getting awfully nitpicky on this one.

CortestheKiller said:

See, that's what I'm saying! I love this option!