...is not a gay man, but a GIRL! I met her on a fansite for...um...another artist, and I totally thought she was a gay dude. First of all, she picked a man's name for a screen name. She also seems to have inside knowledge about the gay community, and more specifically, the male gay community. Also, we got along swimingly, which is usually a sign of gay-manity. I totally had this picture of this person in my mind, and it turns out to be 100% wrong. Oh well, she's still cool, and still my friend, but geez! Not only is my gaydar broken, but my genderdar seems to be a bit rusty too!

Is she gay?

'genderdar'.

You guys are all totally cracking me up today.

Hah. It was probably me. People are always flabbergasted to find out that No, I actually am not a gay man.

Fag hag.

I know a good genderdar repair shop, they are pretty pricy but they get the job done.

FruitToAttractBears said:

Well, considering your screenname...

Lesbian girls pretending to be gay men to prowl on unsuspecting fag hags... the internet sure is a strange place.

CarrieMpls said:

Dirty minds When I made this screenname I meant it to be completely literal...not even thinking about the apparently more obvious interpretation

retina said:

What is this 'inside knowledge of the gay community' ?

Ok, so maybe this was a ridiculous post, but it was nearly 2 in the morning and I was too tired to think rationally! I create my absolute WORST threads when I'm exhausted.

No, it's not Fruit. It's someone from a different website. I can't pinpoint exactly why I thought she was a gay man. It was something about the way she interacted with people. I can't explain it. She always spoke up during conversations about sexuality, and seemed to really know what she was talking about. A lot of people who post on the website are very young, so she took it upon herself to clarify terms for people who didn't understand them. She also didn't put her gender in her profile, and her screen name is Jack.

Now, I've been mistaken for a man before by people on this website, but those folks didn't know me very well and hadn't checked my profile. But this girl and I have been sending messages back and forth for a couple weeks, and have gotten to know eachother a little. In fact, she was the first friend I had made on the website. I was just taken aback when I saw a picture of my new friend, and she had long brown hair and a skirt on!

Still, she's way cool, and I can NEVER tell her that I thought she was a man. But then again, maybe she wouldn't mind. I don't know. Wait a minute, why am I telling you guys this?

I talk to a bunch of gay guys thru msn,
Always get at least 1 that starts talking to me thinking Im a guy,
gets a bit embarrasing sometimes,
Its really a tramatic thing for the girl to go thru



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