Is your significant other your best friend? Are they what you envisioned them to be when you were younger thinking of the kind of person you wanted to spend your time/life with. Share..is there something you wish you could have differently in them, but without giving them up to have?

I don't have a significant other.

ArielB said:

We are each other's best friend, but over the years our similar interests seem to have gotten less and less. I guess that's what I would change.

ArielB said:

JediTodd said:

I understand..but being best friends is important, and you have that..and us!!

hisfan4ever said:

He is 100000% my best friend...not in a needy way but in a support way. We both have our own social lives. I don't think I really ever had an expectation about who I wanted to be with but all I wanted was love and someone who treated me well. He does all of this for me in addition to being my voice of reason, my cheerleader, confidant and adventure guide. Do I know we have flaws? Yes but that only gives us something to work on!

ArielB said:

Me neither.

I don't think I have a significant other....well I 'm not sure yet

Never been a person to declare a "best friend". I would say no.
She's not what I envisioned when I was younger.
Yes, I wish some things were different.

That being said
I've known people for 30 years of my life that I would consider better friends, but don't have a family and sleep with them.
When I was younger, I was the co dependent sort that would pick needy girls.
My one isn't
That's normal, I don't know anyone that doesn't. I'm sure she wished I didn't like beer. Other that I'm perfect

furygirl said:

Hi furygirl!

What do you mean?

That he is

in the last 3 weeks I have come to love him even more as a friend

jess555ja said:

Hey jess555ja that needs an orgnote u know

hisfan4ever said:

Mach said:

In other words you have cut him off.

Sowhat said:

that is something in 22+ yrs I have never done nor even thought of


funny though










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Mach said:

jess555ja said:

Me neither!

hisfan4ever said:

I would have to say I am my own best friend to myself first, always have been. Then everyone else falls into place. Honestly I never really thought about it when I was younger. I was not one to sit around and think about when I was going to get married and what my wedding would be like, etc. There is always something people would like to change about someone else, however you can not change anyone, they have to do it themselves and sometimes they just can't or won't so you have to like with it and except it as part of who they are, provided it is not something harmful or hurtful, etc, etc and as long as the insanity does not drive you frickin crazy.
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hisfan4ever said:

SisterGirl said:

aww I'm sorry to hear that ( about your best friend)

If by significant other,
you mean am I getting a "consistant piece of ass",
then yes.
And I was going to follow up my answer with the phrase, " & yes, she's my best friend", but I figured the word "consistant" pretty much covers that.

ah, newlyweds

ArielB said:

You will meet someone one day

luv4u said:

How do you know?

ArielB said:

Be positive

significant other

I'm not on lock down right now (thankfully) but in the past most of my bfs have been a very close friend.

They were still jerks, though.

Yes.