eraclito said:

I know very well what does it for me and it involves another person.

FunkMistress said:

me too, but i have no choice in the matter, as no one else will love me.. lol

Teacher said:

i guess so, everyone is different and have different wants and needs.

as long as you are happy, its all good...
[Edited 5/10/07 9:16am]

eraclito said:

actual intercourse it was double digits.
if your definition expands a bit then 6 yrs.



and teach... i totally get what you are saying
but!! a little vibrating assistance is ever so lovely
try it. honest.

emm said:

eraclito said:

I like 2 b funny, I just wish I was jokin'

Seriously, b4 marriage sex was a simple, yet thrilling short cut 2 the land of ecstasy. After a very stressful pregnancy, and a 15min birth we had an awesome baby. still No sex.

I have been with the same guy for 5 years and back when we first met, we took eachothers virginity. I have wondered if the reason I don't like sex is because I don't like it with HIM. That poses a problem because I love him and there is a good chance he is going to ask me to marry him soon.... I have had other partners to know what else is out there and I can tell you he has great skills in the sack but for some reason.....I'm not in to it! I think my sex lacks animal passion....ya passion. We have love but not 'do me now' type of attitude. I don't know what to do!

I went two years, and I began to think I wouldn't have sex again before I died.

From 1997-2000, so it was almost 3 years.

pasquerto said:

You're pretty young aren't you? Are you ready for marriage? Also, do you think he is?

You might love each other, but lacking passion is a pretty big sign that maybe you guys aren't ready to settle down.

FunkMistress said:

co-

CarrieMpls said:

Ya im young but our relationship is much different than the typical young person realtionship. TOgether 5 years, lived together, traveled the world together and were best friends....I guess I'm just not ravenously into sex which I wish I was. I have a ton of body confidence issues that hold me back as well

NDRU said:

That's a long time out of your life, and you're still young. It sucks, but you both are probably restless and interested in different relationships/experiences.

The fact that you say you wish you were more into sex tells me you really are, just not in this relationship. If you really weren't into it, it probably wouldn't bother you that it wasn't so hot with this guy.

The body issue stuff says to me that maybe he's not making you feel beautiful?

Anyway, I'm not telling you what to do, just my impressions. You could just be in a cold phase.

pasquerto said:

When I been without sex for awhile,
the longest I'll go is about 7'1/2 to 8 inches.

Seriuosly.

And ladies....
I'm 90% tar free & filtered.
So your chances of throat cancer are greatly diminished.

Org-note me.
[Edited 5/10/07 12:39pm]

Illustrator said:

eraclito said:

you didn't answer the question.....

for me, four and a half years and counting....

SexOnWheels said:

kinda ironic considering my name, huh?

SexOnWheels said:

Time for a tire rotation and balance?

JediTodd said:

i think i need a lube job.

When my husband had his appendix removed years ago, I was so afraid to go near him, I did not want to hurt his scar. He on the other hand was like
Men!!!

SexOnWheels said:

We need an emoticon that's covering it's ears and saying "Lalalalalalala...".

JustErin said:

FunkMistress said:

7 months.

Teacher said:

You're not rare. A lot of women don't enjoy masturbating.


I ain't one of 'em (), but I know there are a lot of women who feel the same way.