JDInteractive said:

To be honest, I think that's a pretty shallow explanation, but OK.

Shallow or Deep.

People are People.

Anyone who judges, is unhappy with themselves.

They shouldn't push that on other people.

SureThing said:

I am not sure what you trying to say surething?
Are you saying that saying: "anyone that judges, is unhappy with themselves" is not judging?
Or are you saying that people who judge themselves to be physically "ugly" are unhappy with themselves??

Tremolina said:

I understand what's she's sayin', and it rings true!

Insightful.

Most people r unhappy with themselves and i'm surely 1 of them, at least most of the time.

I wonder who many r happy with themselves

thedribbler said:

Most people are unhappy with themselves. I know I am and I try really hard not to judge other people because I'm in no place to be judging anyone else.
I'm more comfortable around people who aren't happy with themselves. People who like themselves too much are creepy.

SureThing said:

Hey SureThing, you're anything but shallow. Sorry you're gone.

Tremolina said:

shallow girls... I would have less scruples of using a shallow girl. (if I was feeling evil)
But people shouldn't demand too much from any 1 person, whether they are shallow or deep.

purplehippieonthe1 said:

I have met some hot guys that are total jerks and their hotness rubs off big time! I have met guys that are not really cute or thin but are the best to hang out with!

Am I terribly wrong in saying that generally speaking, women r a tad more hierarchy concious than men?.
Maybe it's a feminine trait, maybe I'm about 2 get torn apart by Fauxie (that lovable don Quixote, of modern times)

This is a suspicion I sometimes have, I'd hate to find it 2 b true. but stranger things r said 2 happen at sea

thedribbler said:

I lost interest in your post after about the 5th word...but who's that in your avatar?

JustErin said:

Who do u think?

thedribbler said:

I dunno. Is it you? If so, you look like you are under a hot lamp being interrogated...and I wonder what kind of crime you would be most likely to commit.

JustErin said:

me, taken with an old web cam.

As 4 the crime, well I'm obviously beyond good and evil.

What your favourite crime?

thedribbler said:

Petty theft done by kleptomaniacs.

So, what about my original question, what do u think?

Don't get me wrong I like most/some/most women.

thedribbler said:

In general, women are more concerned about men being a good provider, and men are more concerned with having a hot looking wife.

JustErin said:

and in that case they deserve each other!

I wanted a hot looking husband

though I have heard him say to a friend who said I was hot "that's why I married her"

ZombieKitten said:

did u get what u wanted?

I've sometimes come to the conclusion that .....ah 4get it, but hey, I do try!

thedribbler said:

I don't know if anyone else thinks he's hot, but I do so yes to that, and he got a smart wife which is what he wanted

Some days I wish I was a shallow woman - they seems to have more fun and get lots of attention.

I guess I am stuck being my deep self

Shanti1 said:

How deep?

That' what I want 2 know.

If it's just fun, and meant to be just fun, I'll take a "shallow" woman. But if I want it to be more than just fun, but still fun, I'd take someone with a good sense of humor, curiosity and the ability to learn and use logic.

IAmNotSpats said:

Logic is just the beginning. Live long and prosper!
But thanks 4 your comment anyway, spats.

thedribbler said:

Too deep for a shallow man...

Shallow to me is people who talk about superficial things that don't matter. I mean, that's all they talk about, fashion, gossip, etc.

While men and women can be this way, I think woman's minds operate in a need to talk things out and men talk for a little bit until they come up with a solution and then we're done.

I've grown to appreciate the differences between men and women. If I was in a relationship with another guy I would be more apt to end a relationship if we were both the same in the way we communicate with each other.
[Edited 4/17/07 7:36am]

Lotta Shallow Fucks Around. Eye Should Make A List of Shallow Fucks from the Prince Community Someday Soon. If Your Name is on the Shallow Fuck List, Then Eye Am Being Honest For What Eye Think Of U.

thedribbler said:

I'm saying nothing.

Exorcist said:

wow.

is this thread gonna be posted in GD or music & more?

evenstar3 said:

Please let it be here.

JustErin said:

it'll be really fun before it gets deleted.