Well.. JustErin is sexy. Just sayin'.

Men,

Do you find shallow women attractive / sexy? For example: Do you like it when they have little to talk about but the average "girl stuff". In other words: you don't talk to eachother much other than the daily boring chitchat) or do you like a woman better when she has knowledge and intelligence that stretches further, possibly challenging your own? A woman that can debate and change you in your opinions, or a woman that says yes and amen to everything you say, while she doesn't know what you are talking about, is bored and wants to watch her soap opera?

Well.. JustErin is sexy. Just sayin'.

I am not gonna deny that I am shallow but I am definitely not "daft", a yes-woman nor am I lacking depth of character.

I am not gonna deny that I am shallow but I am definitely not "daft", a yes-woman nor am I lacking depth of character.

In what ways are you shallow then?

In what ways are you shallow then?

I definitely think that looks matter...a lot.

Nothing aggravates me more than a woman who agrees with everything I say..
....I think the perfect mix for me is 95% intelligence and challenge, with the remaining 5% being a little silliness mixed in for charm (and bedroom) purposes only....not a complete Ice Queen, but then not a complete boob either.....

I guess I'm shallow in that way too. Only problem for me is that it works both ways.

But still you would like yourself a 95% ice queen?

I definitely think that looks matter...a lot.

You mean that you are attracted to some emotional and intellectual depth as well?

Well yes, I am attracted to those features as well, but I was really referring to my ugliness preventing me from hooking up with shallow women.

It's funny that an ordinary dictionary doesn't give that as an example to define what shallow is but the urban one gives as the first one. In my opinion that is the case when you care about looks more than other qualities of a person. That's when you don't look any further than the surface, so that's by defintion shallow.

So, you would want to hook up with shallow women even tho' you feel your looks prevent that?

Well the problem is I'm shallow, meaning I really prefer good-looking women, but most good-looking women are, from my experience, shallow TOO.

So what's the problem if you are shallow yourself too? Or is it that you don't like to be shallow yourself, and that you would prefer a good looking woman that is not shallow? In other words: you want it all!

Yep, that's exactly it. Especially the second part.
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But you consider a good looking woman, that wants a good looking guy, to be shallow?

Well... sort of, yes. If I'm interested in a good-looking woman and she likes me but doesn't want to date me because I'm not a good-looking guy, then yes, she is shallow.

Just to clarify, in all seriousness my standards (looks-wise, that is) have lowered considerably over the years. I just want someone who is clearly female (both in the way she acts and looks) and doesn't look too "boyish" or butch. And also she can't be overweight. A few extra pounds are not a problem for me, but she has to be in reasonable shape to be able to handle me.

This is so typical of many men.

They only want the hot chicks, but they expect those hot chicks to not care about what the guy looks like.