Men,

Do you find shallow women attractive / sexy? For example: Do you like it when they have little to talk about but the average "girl stuff". In other words: you don't talk to eachother much other than the daily boring chitchat) or do you like a woman better when she has knowledge and intelligence that stretches further, possibly challenging your own? A woman that can debate and change you in your opinions, or a woman that says yes and amen to everything you say, while she doesn't know what you are talking about, is bored and wants to watch her soap opera?

This is the ideal thread for spats to make his comeback. lol:

REDFEATHERS said:

What's the matter? Suffering from boredom?

I would guess my perception of shallow people would be different from the next persons and so on and so on.

What does "Shallow" mean to you ?

Mach said:

Yeah I agree. I think shallowness is left to the interpretation of the person.

Tremolina said:

I am waiting for my dinner.. I am hungry

onenitealone said:

Spats? Look, this is not a woman hating thread. I most surely don't hate women! I am just curious about men's opinions.

Mach said:

I kinda explained with an example above.

But in my experience MEN who have nothing interesting to talk about, or only talk about themselves and trhe conversation isnt divided equally with him being interested in what I have to say.. well I dont know anyone like that now cos I either hang up the phone or ditch them real quick

Life is too short to put up with bores..

REDFEATHERS said:

My stomach usually roars when I am hungry.

Tremolina said:

No - just suggesting he would have a field day with this topic.

REDFEATHERS said:

I am not sure if I completeley understand what you are saying there. You wouldnt want a shallow man?

Tremolina said:

"kinda"

onenitealone said:

Isn't he the guy that would trash women every chance he gets? He won't have a place on this thread thats for sure.

Tremolina said:

Both in small doses

Tremolina said:

yes.. I love me some shallow men..

Ace said:

I've read all the Harry Potter books, though.

CarrieMpls said:

who cares about shallow women- Carrie, I love your sig...that's all I have to say.

Shanti1 said:

awwww.. thanks. That song popped in my head the other day for no good reason and I remembered it's a good one.

Tremolina said:

Definitely the intelligent, opinionated one (they tend to be funny, too -- another plus). The shallow, daft ones -- though usually pretty -- lose their appeal very quickly.

Well.. JustErin is sexy. Just sayin'.

Nothing aggravates me more than a woman who agrees with everything I say..
....I think the perfect mix for me is 95% intelligence and challenge, with the remaining 5% being a little silliness mixed in for charm (and bedroom) purposes only....not a complete Ice Queen, but then not a complete boob either.....

purplehippieonthe1 said:

I am not gonna deny that I am shallow but I am definitely not "daft", a yes-woman nor am I lacking depth of character.

Mach said:

Well, I tried to keep it as much free for others to further fill and not be prejudiced and judgemental about it so that's why I limited myself to using an "example" but okay...


3. shallow - lacking depth of intellect or knowledge; concerned only with what is obvious; "shallow people"; "his arguments seemed shallow and tedious"
superficial - being or affecting or concerned with a surface; not deep or penetrating emotionally or intellectually; "superficial similarities"; "a superficial mind"; "his thinking was superficial and fuzzy"; "superficial knowledge"; "the superficial report didn't give the true picture"; "only superficial differences"
-from Thesaurus

In short: a person that is lacking emotional and/or intellectual depth.

Or if you want other, more "urban" definitions from "ordinary people" to work with, her are some from the urban dictionary, where you can also see how many people (dis)agree with the definition...

. shallow 275 up, 30 down

Judging a person based strictly on looks, not factoring in their personality whatsoever.

Jon likes Jan because Jan dresses flashy.



2. Shallow 179 up, 63 down

A person who cannot access the imaginative, creative, understanding, emotional part of their brain. Shallow people are brainwashed by the media, they can't think for themselves. They tend to like hilary duff, britney spears, and mainstream rap and the little mainstream rock that is played. They serve no purpose to this earth. Their future holds long lines of angry customers that want their hamburger, and the words "we love to see you smile".
see deep depth creativeprepmainstream music

They cannot see the little things, like nature, all they see is what the media tells them to see.

by my name Apr 6, 2004 email it
3. shallow 111 up, 25 down

A term that is massively overused. It usually means a man/woman who only judges by looks and not by personality.

Many ugly girls consider guys shallow just because they get turned down by them and vice versa. A lot of ugly guys think girls are shallow because they get turned down. But neither of these are true.

The true example of shallow is when a guy/girl base someone's personality on how they look. If you're confused read below.

I was hanging out with my friend the other day who is quite a bit better looking than me (I'm not ugly, he's just hot I guess). So he and I are hanging out with this girl from school and I decide to test something.

Early that day I tell her a joke and she kind of laughs. So about 6 hours later, I have my friend tell her the exact same joke, word for word and she cracks up like it's the funniest thing she's ever heard.

Apparently the same exact joke was funnier when told by him, just because he's better looking. Avoid girls/guys like that at all cost.

by LAJ No Jun 28, 2005 email it
4. shallow 90 up, 16 down

The act of judging people by their looks, monetary status, clothes or car, rather than looking deep inside at their heart, personality, etc.

see also Paris Hilton

by Louie Jan 4, 2005 email it
5. Shallow 69 up, 12 down

to care more about looks than personality

stop looking at her boobs you are soo shallow

by BlackDragonV1 Nov 16, 2003 email it
6. Shallow 46 up, 7 down

To base the format of a structure only on appearance.

You like someone because they're cute/hot/sexy, and yet they're a bitch to you.

by Angeline Feb 22, 2004 email it
7. shallow 45 up, 18 down

A person that feeds off of another persons misery, someone that judges books by their cover, someone that is needy, and spolied
The main cheerleader on the squad that dates the hot quarterback
a GOLDDIGGER

Guy 1: I wish I had like a crap load of money, and then maybe Janie would talk to me?

Guy 2: Why do you like her?, she is shallow, and if you did have all the money, she would spend it and leave you with nothing and move on to the next rich guy.

Guy 1: Nope, she is not that type of girl.

Guy 2: Oh yes she is, and anyway doens't Sally like you?

Guy 1: GROSS, are you serious, she is soo ugly

Guy 2: you know what, I think your right maybe you and Janie belong together, becuase you both are shallow

thedribbler said:

:hm2:
I think I know what you mean...
Still, would you care to elaborate?

REDFEATHERS said:

everyone I know has "shallow" traits then



we're all shallow



for shallow humans