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Thread started 01/19/07 2:00am

ReturnofDOOK

I'm depressed - I'm officially single....

As far as I know, I'm completely done with my relationship of almost a year and a half. Lisa is an amazing person and I love her for that. I hate that sometimes people who seem so perfect together can have conflicting needs and desires... Right now, I feel that she hates me - our conversations have been less than cordial and I know she's upset with me - you guys have no idea how much this hurts me. I know I always seem like the fun-loving guy, but right now I'm hurting... Lisa is one of the most beautiful people that I've met in the world and she deserves so much.....I thank all of you for your friendship and your love....

Paul


PS - for those of you who know and love Lisa, please don't let this impact your relationship with her.
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Reply #1 posted 01/19/07 2:03am

Natisse

I'm sorry Paul sad ...hope you're alright hug
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Reply #2 posted 01/19/07 2:07am

evenstar3

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sad

i know it doesn't mean much, but hug
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Reply #3 posted 01/19/07 2:59am

CarrieMpls

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sad

I'm so sorry. That's awful.

hug
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Reply #4 posted 01/19/07 3:42am

jerseykrs

well fuck a duck. sigh

I remember a few months ago you thought the same thing, maybe it's just a hiccup?

If not, look for the positives and DO NOT fall into a BAD depression Paul.
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Reply #5 posted 01/19/07 3:49am

REDFEATHERS

omg that is so so so sad news.. I am sorry.. hug
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Reply #6 posted 01/19/07 3:53am

retina

This wouldn't have anything to do with that Vegas / porn convention trip, would it? razz

Seriously, I'm really sorry to hear about this. Heartache is one of the worst kinds of ache a human being can experience. I hope you have friends around you that can offer emotional support. comfort
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Reply #7 posted 01/19/07 3:56am

hisfan4ever

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jerseykrs said:

well fuck a duck. sigh

I remember a few months ago you thought the same thing, maybe it's just a hiccup?

If not, look for the positives and DO NOT fall into a BAD depression Paul.

dang jersey..I don't think he wants to go there..lol...j/k..
Did she actually say it was over ? Cause if I read it right, it just sounded to me like there could be other things possibly on her mind, maybe none of it has anything to directly do with your relationship ! Now to me, ( and this is just an opinion) ~u know what they say about those ~but if she is the sweety that you say she is ( and I am not doubting that) then I don't think she would just up and blow off this relationship that you two share, a yr and 1/2 is quite a while to spend with someone, maybe she's just in a funk and needs some time to sort some things out..either way..hope for the best and here's a hug
Because of God..we 2 r 1~~Darren & Suzyn forever
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Reply #8 posted 01/19/07 4:33am

Mach

rose
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Reply #9 posted 01/19/07 4:36am

IAintTheOne

whem i met her in vegas, ya'll looked so perfect together, and she looked so happy to be around you. im sorry man sad
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Reply #10 posted 01/19/07 5:51am

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That suxs Paul rose sad
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Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture!
REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince
"I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben
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Reply #11 posted 01/19/07 6:06am

Stax

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Sorry to hear that Paul.
a psychotic is someone who just figured out what's going on
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Reply #12 posted 01/19/07 6:50am

SureThing

I know it hurts.

But I'd give my left tit to be single!

Have fun!!!!


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Reply #13 posted 01/19/07 6:58am

REDFEATHERS

SureThing said:

I know it hurts.

But I'd give my left tit to be single!

Have fun!!!!


hug



..go on then.. razz
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Reply #14 posted 01/19/07 7:08am

CarrieLee

It'll hurt for a little bit but you'll bounce back. When my relationship ended I was so worried I wouldn't know how to be single again. I went out the next night and tore shit up. It's been wonderful being single!!

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Reply #15 posted 01/19/07 7:35am

SnakePeel

ReturnofDOOK said:

I hate that sometimes people who seem so perfect together can have conflicting needs and desires...



I'm in the process of ending an on/off relationship I've been in for 5 years and I TOTALLY feel that. What are you supposed to do when you're so damned compatible with someone...but you don't feel like you know you should in your heart?

It's the shittiest thing in the world...when the hearts just aren't compatable.

Hang in there, dude. I'm right there with you.
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Reply #16 posted 01/19/07 8:06am

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ReturnofDOOK said:

I hate that sometimes people who seem so perfect together can have conflicting needs and desires...



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It's the fucking worst. Just having to accept that is one of the harder things in life, I think.

Take care. rose
oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1!
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Reply #17 posted 01/19/07 8:32am

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Hey, P, I'm sorry. You're both fantastic people and whatever's right will indeed happen. I'm sorry you're feeling pain. hug
Oh shit, my hat done fell off
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Reply #18 posted 01/19/07 8:35am

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sorry to hear it, Paul.
let me come over it's a beautiful day to play with you in the dark
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Reply #19 posted 01/19/07 9:52am

UCantHavaDaMan
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I'm so sorry you have to go through this. sad
Wanna hear me sing? biggrin www.ChampagneHoneybee.com
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Reply #20 posted 01/19/07 10:31am

SupaFunkyOrgan
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sad sad sad sad sad NO! cry

Both of you are amazing people and you both deserve the best in life. I would love to believe that the best is each other but that is really for you to discover. Whatever is happening, just know I hope you both find peace and happiness. If it can't be together, well you wouldn't be the first to go that road. There are billions who have gone before you lol I will love Lisa, just like I love you, no matter if you are involved or not hug
2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740
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Reply #21 posted 01/19/07 10:33am

SupaFunkyOrgan
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SnakePeel said:

ReturnofDOOK said:

I hate that sometimes people who seem so perfect together can have conflicting needs and desires...



I'm in the process of ending an on/off relationship I've been in for 5 years and I TOTALLY feel that. What are you supposed to do when you're so damned compatible with someone...but you don't feel like you know you should in your heart?

It's the shittiest thing in the world...when the hearts just aren't compatable.

Hang in there, dude. I'm right there with you.


I left a 5 year relationship in June. It was one of the hardest things I ever did.....
2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740
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Reply #22 posted 01/19/07 10:37am

abierman

this sucks, I thought you 2 together were great!


heads up, dude!!! comfort
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Reply #23 posted 01/19/07 10:49am

emm

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paul you had better not give up unless you have talked all this shit out!!
do not assume anything. communicate!


but i love you either way and know you will do what's right for you in the end.

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doveShe couldn't stop crying 'cause she knew he was gone to stay dove
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Reply #24 posted 01/19/07 10:59am

TMPletz

Sorry to hear this, Paul. sad hug
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Reply #25 posted 01/19/07 11:02am

novabrkr

Oh wow. This explains why I've been depressed for the last twenty-seven years of my life.
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Reply #26 posted 01/19/07 11:05am

fantasyislande
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sad hug
There is no perfect place
Yes I know this is true
I'm just learning how to smile
Thats not easy to do
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Reply #27 posted 01/19/07 11:22am

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C'mere hug
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Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect, it means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections... unknown
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Reply #28 posted 01/19/07 11:23am

CarrieLee

PS: I have some hot friends for a rebound.

Just sayin'....
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Reply #29 posted 01/19/07 11:24am

SupaFunkyOrgan
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I don't know if Lisa lurks or not, and if not ROSE PASS THE MESSAGE!!!!

Lisa, you are totally part of our family. If things change between you and Paul, they don't have to change with the rest of us. We want you in our lives hug
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