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SexOnWheels said: INSATIABLE said: Mm. Maybe for material things, status, intelligence and the like. Doesn't apply to love, though. You can pine away for life, oblivious to any opportunity to cure the "nothing". Why pretend with anyone else, when they don't come close in comparison to the one you'll never have? i agree 1000%   Well, then, maybe you can fill me in?  |
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Ace said: SexOnWheels said: i agree 1000% Well, then, maybe you can fill me in? i agree with that statement she made, that pretending to be happy with someone who doesn't compare is futile. it's not fair to yourself or the other person. in the case of love, you'd be constantly comparing him/her to the one you can't have. imo, it'd be better to be alone rather than seeing them constantly fall short of that "one". and there's no way i'll settle for anything less. so pretending will only lead to even more unhappiness later. all just my opinion. it may work different for others.  | |
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SexOnWheels said: Ace said: Well, then, maybe you can fill me in? i agree with that statement she made, that pretending to be happy with someone who doesn't compare is futile. it's not fair to yourself or the other person. in the case of love, you'd be constantly comparing him/her to the one you can't have. imo, it'd be better to be alone rather than seeing them constantly fall short of that "one". and there's no way i'll settle for anything less. so pretending will only lead to even more unhappiness later. all just my opinion. it may work different for others. Okay, I think I understand what you guys mean here now. In that case, do you think it's healthy to idealize someone (especially someone "you'll never have")? And should you waste your life pining away for somebody who doesn't feel the same way about you? |
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Ace said: SexOnWheels said: i agree with that statement she made, that pretending to be happy with someone who doesn't compare is futile. it's not fair to yourself or the other person. in the case of love, you'd be constantly comparing him/her to the one you can't have. imo, it'd be better to be alone rather than seeing them constantly fall short of that "one". and there's no way i'll settle for anything less. so pretending will only lead to even more unhappiness later. all just my opinion. it may work different for others. Okay, I think I understand what you guys mean here now. In that case, do you think it's healthy to idealize someone (especially someone "you'll never have")? And should you waste your life pining away for somebody who doesn't feel the same way about you? probably not healthy, but if there is something else keeping you apart, if the other person does return your feelings but for one reason or another you just can't be together, it can be hard to move on. | |
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SexOnWheels said: probably not healthy, but if there is something else keeping you apart, if the other person does return your feelings but for one reason or another you just can't be together, it can be hard to move on.
So, you spend your whole life obsessing about this person? |
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Ace said: SexOnWheels said: probably not healthy, but if there is something else keeping you apart, if the other person does return your feelings but for one reason or another you just can't be together, it can be hard to move on.
So, you spend your whole life obsessing about this person? yes Ace, i'm obsessing over you!  why won't you return my love!?!?! | |
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SexOnWheels said: Ace said: So, you spend your whole life obsessing about this person? yes Ace, i'm obsessing over you! why won't you return my love!?!?! |
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Ace said: SexOnWheels said: yes Ace, i'm obsessing over you! why won't you return my love!?!?!some lyrics for the lyric man 
It's been seven hours and fifteen days Since u took your love away I go out every night and sleep all day Since u took your love away Since u been gone I can do whatever I want I can see whomever I choose I can eat my dinner in a fancy restaurant But nothing I said nothing can take away these blues `Cause nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u It's been so lonely without u here Like a bird without a song Nothing can stop these lonely tears from falling Tell me baby where did I go wrong I could put my arms around every boy I see But they'd only remind me of you I went to the doctor n'guess what he told me Guess what he told me He said girl u better have fun No matter what u do But he's a fool `Cause nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u All the flowers that u planted, mama In the back yard All died when u went away I know that living with u baby was sometimes hard But I'm willing to give it another try Nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u Nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u Nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u | |
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FunkMistress said: I'm very happy.
Anyone who believes "I'll be happy when..." won't be happy "when..." The secret to happiness is learning to be happy no matter what your circumstances are, be they environmental, financial, romantic, or what have you. Like she said!  | |
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SexOnWheels said: It's been seven hours and fifteen days Since u took your love away I go out every night and sleep all day Since u took your love away Since u been gone I can do whatever I want I can see whomever I choose I can eat my dinner in a fancy restaurant But nothing I said nothing can take away these blues `Cause nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u It's been so lonely without u here Like a bird without a song Nothing can stop these lonely tears from falling Tell me baby where did I go wrong I could put my arms around every boy I see But they'd only remind me of you I went to the doctor n'guess what he told me Guess what he told me He said girl u better have fun No matter what u do But he's a fool `Cause nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u All the flowers that u planted, mama In the back yard All died when u went away I know that living with u baby was sometimes hard But I'm willing to give it another try Nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u Nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u Nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u Coincidentally, I've written an answer song: Get over it. |
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Ace said: SexOnWheels said: It's been seven hours and fifteen days Since u took your love away I go out every night and sleep all day Since u took your love away Since u been gone I can do whatever I want I can see whomever I choose I can eat my dinner in a fancy restaurant But nothing I said nothing can take away these blues `Cause nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u It's been so lonely without u here Like a bird without a song Nothing can stop these lonely tears from falling Tell me baby where did I go wrong I could put my arms around every boy I see But they'd only remind me of you I went to the doctor n'guess what he told me Guess what he told me He said girl u better have fun No matter what u do But he's a fool `Cause nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u All the flowers that u planted, mama In the back yard All died when u went away I know that living with u baby was sometimes hard But I'm willing to give it another try Nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u Nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u Nothing compares Nothing compares 2 u Coincidentally, I've written an answer song: Get over it.  love me, damnit!! | |
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SexOnWheels said: Ace said: love me, damnit!! |
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Wow, there are still people here who think I'm a guy?
Awesome.  Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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INSATIABLE said: Wow, there are still people here who think I'm a guy?
Awesome.  i called you "she" | |
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SexOnWheels said: Ace said: Well, then, maybe you can fill me in? i agree with that statement she made, that pretending to be happy with someone who doesn't compare is futile. it's not fair to yourself or the other person. in the case of love, you'd be constantly comparing him/her to the one you can't have. imo, it'd be better to be alone rather than seeing them constantly fall short of that "one". and there's no way i'll settle for anything less. so pretending will only lead to even more unhappiness later. all just my opinion. it may work different for others. that's my opinion also, i agree a million percent with you. | |
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