FunkMistress said:

Congratulations!

Ace said:

i've seen people put their cigs out by the ENTRANCE of my gym before they walk in! that takes balls!

Anx said:

Some buddies of mine and I used to go inline skating alot around base (there were some neat semi-abaondoned parts of base that you coudl do tricks in, etc.).

Half the time, we'd come up with the idea to go skating once we were good and drunk
Not pretty.

Ace said:

I do like you, though. You're an arrogant fuck, but you're honest about it and you're still a good person in spite of it.

luv4all7 said:

AsianBomb777 said:

Anx said:

my major problem I have with smokers is it appears they feel they have the right to litter. Oh and smoking at the entrance of buildings.



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FunkMistress said:

Right back atcha.

I never smoke, drank coffee, hardly ever drink alcohol, or gambled. But I have other addictions obviously - caffiene (cola), meat, refined sugars, pr0n, Prince.

Anx said:

There was this woman I worked with a long time ago with HUGE hair, fake and bake tan, fingernails like talons and skinny skinny skinny. She smoked like a chimney and hardly ate and addictively used her StairMaster at home. I really don't think she saw the irony of it all. I loved that woman.

SpisaRibb said:

Can you find anything on YouTube about it?

Anx said:

Makes complete sense.

This is an awesome thread ALT...thanks for starting it!

I am an ex "badboy" serial dater.

JustErin said:

Are you able to have some compassion about it when you see others struggling with it? Do you think your own story of how you changed gives you incentive to judge others?

applekisses said:

http://www.youtube.com/wa...zXo8J1hTJs

CinisterCee said:

I never was into the coffee either, was a very moderate drinker and gambling held zero interest for me. I focused most of my energy on chain smoking and trying to filet skinny chicks.

These days, I'm what I guess the kids would call "straight-edge". I will not be buying any Minor Threat records in the near future, however.

applekisses said:

Hey, thanks!

I was on my way back to the clinic after a home visit with a pregnant 19 yr old this morning, and for whatever reason, I was thinking about how easy it is to expect others to "get over", or do, what we've managed to do ourselves. And I was thinking how easy it is to forget the time B.C. (Before Change, heh) and how easy it is to think that everyone can and SHOULD change, since we did, and in the same amount of time, in the same way, etc.

Then I came home for lunch and saw some threads and posts from people who'd been through some transformation, yet had a hard time accepting where people are at in their own process.

All in all, it's a complex issue. Just thought I'd throw my driving thoughts out there and hope to get even more food for thought from you all.

I think I have an addictive personality.

JustErin said:

You should read Ann Magnuson's piece about overcoming her bad boy addiction. Was published in Details before that magazine started sucking it.

Ace said:

Knowing is half the battle.

luv4all7 said:

Well, you just need to get over that and stop it, young lady!

I also think people have an addiction when they collect things like Comics, Action Figures, Records

CinisterCee said:

Unacceptable!

CinisterCee said:

Yes, I have compassion for others that are where I used to be, expecially if they are young. I definitely understand the appeal of the ba boy.

Ace said:

Thanks. I'll look for it.

JustErin said:

But still a badboy addict?

retina said:

No, I don't think so.

FunkMistress said:

I almost spit out my drink

FunkMistress said:

you been giving it up to them fundie heffas, haven't you?