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Just wondering, i'm sure some men like a woman to be more vocal, where others prefer them to be quite in bed.

But for those who like women to be vocal - what do you like to hear?


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My bf said he likes to hear me say 'fuck me'

I like her to tear into a speed-metal rendition of "Wind Beneath My Wings".
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Illustrator said:

Illustrator said:

DanceWme.....I tend to say fuck me too. It just comes out.

I think any dude'll tell ya they just wanna hear what comes out naturally. Don't TRY so hard, to say what you THINK they wanna hear. Do what comes natural.

Illustrator said:

well, you have to try cause i think if i didn't try i'd never say anything and that's boring. I just don't want to say anything that's too "out there". I told one guy to call me his slut and he said why? your not a slut...what a fool. Sweet, but a fool.


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Are you still having problems with your boyfriend?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

wow you have a good memory, yea, he didn't work out. We worked it out for awhile, but he just isn't for me. We still chat, but just as friends. I'm seeing this other guy.

gabeez said:

the truth.

"oh my god you're so big"

"oomph"

"that was the most amazing climax"

purplerein said:

Santa, may i please have an Illu/Purple sandwich for christmas?!

purplerein said:

I do not wanna hear the word "climax" in bed. And I wouldn't say the word climax in bed either.

My husband DID like me to say, "I'm gonna cum on your cock" though.

gabeez said:

:goodgodIcan'tpostwhatIjusttyped:

I don't want anything too loud or dirty. No skanky talk.

luv4all7 said:

only if it was the truth..

purplerein said:

oh man, if i said oh my god you're so big he would be so confused...haha

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gabeez said:

point is, Gabeez...if you're not a vocal love maker...don't try to be what you're not. there should be honesty in bed. of course, you could say what you feel, but then if you're not comfortable with it, your partner should understand.
it's admirable that you want to try, but don't do it from insecurity..do it because your soul wants to.

purplerein said:

I agree.
Faking is stupid. Don't do it.

Normally I like to hear very a retrospective of the event. Kind of like next-morning quarterbacking...


"That was great Dan. I think you should have been a little easier on my ass though. I won't be able to sit down very easily now when I leave hear and drive back up to my home in Springhill. "

purplerein said:

well, perhaps my initial post came off wrong, like i want to be vocal for men,. I want to be vocal because it turns me on - dammit! But, I want to be considerate too or have ideas of what men might like to hear. I wouldn't do it if i wasn't getting a kick out of it, puh-lease, i ain't in my 20s no mo.


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gabeez said:

we're all different...start with what you feel like saying, and see how he responds to it. it doesn't matter what we feel..it matters what you and your partner are comfortable with.

gabeez said:

Here are some of my favourites that I've heard:

"I want you to shoot it all over my ass!!!"

"Spank me!!!"

"Pull my hair!!!"

"It fuckin' turns me on when you pinch my nipples!!!"

"Fuck me like a bitch!!!"

Then, of course, there are the good, ol' standbys:

"Fuck me!!!"

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"Oh, God!!!"

Anything coming from between clenched teeth is always a bonus.

And the award for most unexpected:

"Can I cum now, Daddy?!!!"

purplerein said:

ok doctor phil - that's boring tho...thanks anyway.


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Ace said:

wow...i think i'm just quasi voyeuristic. i always wonder what kinda stuff other women say. Not that i'm gonna say it unless me and my partner are comfortable with it (of course) -k, doc.

I love to call my guy daddy, it's sexy and sweet or papacito in spanish, he loves it (and is comfortable with it).


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Y'know what I hate to hear?

"Oh baby, this is great sack time with you!"

Then I tell her "Boy....
are you ever with wrong guy."

Fuck, fuck me or any other work-around that word is nice.

Generally any orgasm sound is hot.

But the whole experience does it for me, the kinkier the better.

gabeez said:

"you don't mind if my friend joins us"

"I bought you a new harley"

"you don't get in my ass enough"

Ace said:

I think I love you.

gabeez said:

I think you should practice with your guy with phone sex or call him up at work and tell him something dirty when he can;t respond.

I would never, ever post here what I say, I'm already an Org whore but I will say that moaning and even screaming makes some guys happy.