I had the conversation with my sister last night I tried planning it for a weekend but I couldn't get her alone and last night it just happened which made me feel better that it wasn't so scripted.

I didn't get to have the length of the conversation I wanted but I did cover the main points and let her know that I am there for her and that I am trying to help her. I think I'm going to cover the rest of my points in a letter. I'm good at letters

Oh, about 2 years ago she filed for HUD assistance and I wasn't sure if she ever heard back on it. She told me she did and that they told her the wait was SEVEN YEARS! It's so discouraging..... But I am trying
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Hi sweetie ~ it's so good that you've begun the conversation with your sister. Tell her to stay on that HUD list and any other list she can get on. Two years gone already and sometimes those lists can go very quickly if more funds are available, people move etc. Please call or write if you need to jsut talk ~ you know I love you! You are the greatest!!!!!

I found this for the state of CA. He wold be ordered to stay away for you, as well as your sister. But you probably can't file for it unless he has actually threated you.






Well the cops were at my house just 3 weeks ago so they know his history. He had my brother in a choke hold but my brother didn't press charges because of my sister's sake. Well he ended up in jail anyway for breaking probation. There was to be no contact with the police. I wish he would rot in there, it would make life so much easier. But he'll be out eventually and I already told him if he touched me I would press charges. I didn't leave my abusive boyfriend to be abused by some fuckin loser I am not even with....

luv4all7 said:

your sister is enabling her husband. you all should press charges despite what she wants, because what she wants, isn't necessarily what's best for her.