yep, it's kind of obnoxious when hags treat you like some sort of gay clown, like you're expected to come up with all kinds of snappy remarks, and prance around like a fruit to entertain them, give them fashion and makeup advice, and redecorate their living rooms.

MikeMatronik said:

i'm a lesbian trapped in a gay man's body.

cborgman said:

i'm a gay man trapped in the early '80s.

Anx said:

IrresistibleB1tch said:

i've already come and gone out of style twice!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

i've already come and gone out of style twice!

cborgman said:

i'm a gay man trapped in the '90s.

I'm sure you all heard the term "fag hag" which means a straight woman who has lots of gay male friends. It's so funny wherever I go gay guys just start talking to me! Like they have always been so sweet to me. I don't know if they can sense I'm a very open minded, accepting loving person or they like my clothes and can tell I'm such a girly girl. Hahha..

In this book I "Sextrology: The Astrology of Sex and the Sexes" by Starsky+Cox I read something recently that was so funny regarding my sign about this. I'm a Libra and this is what it said about the Libra woman...

"As with Gemini and Pisces women-the zodiac's preeminent fag hags-gay men hold a fascination for Libra; but unlike those other signs, she doesn't look to them for love. Rather, she feels herself to be like one o them. Libra is gender-bending personified: With a man, she's decidedly ungirly, far more like one of his guy friends who just happens to look like a beautiful woman-again a fairly butch gay man trapped in a demure debutante's body."

Hahah..I always knew there was a secret gay man trapped inside of me.. . I thought this was funny and wanted to share. If you guys like astrology you should get this book..it's pretty funny!

Anx said:

i'm condoleeza rice trapped inside dick cheney

cborgman said:

they have creams and jellies for that kind of problem, you know.

Do you have to be straight to be a fag hag?

Anx said:

how many times do i have to tell you? i don't care how much more it makes you feel like a man, i am not rubbing your jely on any part of my body!

I'm so over straight women claiming to be fag hags. Ever since Will and Grace it's like we're a novelity item.


there are few true fag hags!!!!


Maragret Cho and Madonna being the most famous.


it's not a title that you can give yourself it is something that is. My former boss before she had her daughter was a fag hag, she talked about gay sex, she went to gay clubs, she had all gay friends, she watched gay movies, she listened to cliched gay music, and presented herself as a gay man in a women's body. most of the other people i've met who claim they are fag hags come no where close to being that.

cborgman said:

i don't think you're ready for my jelly.

cborgman said:

i don't think you're ready for my jelly.

I have quite a few gay male friends, but thats more because we all used to work together, and we were all mates. Im not a fag hag! One of the other girls that worked with us definitely is, IMO, shes just so, all over them! Theyre no different to me....well, maybe a bit cutesy at times! I don't really want to be a fag hag, but I think a lot of women, myself included, have quite a giggle out with gay men, just all the giggling and bitching and I dunno, being cute! Its a fun change of scenery. I've never had a depressing serious conversation with any of them!

Apart from that, one of my best friends is a lesbian, but we just have this dynamic where we never talk about that stuff. Unless drunk. I really coulnt care less, just like she couldnt care less that I like men!

What was the question?

I have quite a few gay male friends, but thats more because we all used to work together, and we were all mates. Im not a fag hag! One of the other girls that worked with us definitely is, IMO, shes just so, all over them! Theyre no different to me....well, maybe a bit cutesy at times! I don't really want to be a fag hag, but I think a lot of women, myself included, have quite a giggle out with gay men, just all the giggling and bitching and I dunno, being cute! Its a fun change of scenery. I've never had a depressing serious conversation with any of them!

Apart from that, one of my best friends is a lesbian, but we just have this dynamic where we never talk about that stuff. Unless drunk. I really coulnt care less, just like she couldnt care less that I like men!

What was the question?

susannah said:

"what is the capital of america"

no points awarded.

susannah said:

most gay men i know are emotionally guarded around women. hince why there a few true fag hags.

ehuffnsd said:

I see I can definitely cite proof of that. But why do you think that is? On the surface you would think the opposite was true, but youre right, the most randomly open men Ive known have always been straight...

susannah said:

They don't want women to fall for them maybe?

My father's brother, Gary, is gay and married to a used to be married straight man, Geogre. They act like normal people and hang out with people. So, I guess you don't have to be a hag to be friends with them. I never hear Uncle Gary's friend called that. Then again, I am from Cincinnati. That is the normal. We have a stripe of gay/ libesins clubs and bars along with straight ones at a different street. At school it was okay to be that too. No one really cared as long as it is real and not bongus.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

:gasp: Gay men are never ugly or mean...lol.

Krystal666 said:

Oh, sorry, I must be thinking of lesbians.

That's right. . . the gay boys are all absolutely charming. I'm so grateful that they're around to enrich my life with their faggyness.