weird

sad but sort of exciting

so much but a bit of

Tell me about it.

Actually, don't. I know all too well it's no walk in the park, no matter how many options are out there. That's half the problem really, once you're single again. Too much choice...

So, good luck!



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Hope you're feeling okay, Jony.

Good luck for the future.

jonylawson said:

I am going to be going through that soon myself- once again...
I know how you feel

Keep thinking about the

and things will be again soon.

Don't look at it as a negative man, focus on yourself.

Being single can be practical, but also very, very lonely.

jerseykrs said:

True, and that's a great thing to do for a while... but damn if it doesn't get dull in time, as well.

awwwww....its ok


I've been single for awhile. You learn to actually appreciate some aspects of singlehood.

until you get horny....

didn't you guys have a baby not too long ago?

sorry things didn't last.

anyway, you'll be fine in a while! take care

Why be depressed about being single? You are free!!!!! Nothing or no one is holding you back from doing anything you want to do. Being in a relationship or being married is overrated!!!! Society tells everyone that's the way it's supposed to be but that's a bunch of crap. Enjoy your independance!!

for me, being single right now means choosing the salad bar over picking something from the menu. eventually i'll want something that's laid out and prepared and defined, but for right now, a little bit of this and a couple spoonfuls of that are good right now. i'm less hungry and more peckish.

Anx said:

When did you become single? Did your ex turn the fan off at the gym or something?

sextonseven said:

let's just say it's been a gradual process...and i saw mr. gym etiquette last night. he was completely soaking wet and covered in towels, stumbling around on the ellipticals. it was creepy.

I'm sorry, honey

but...

My last girlfriend was very controlling so when we broke up, I loved the freedom of being able to talk to who I wanted and not having to report in every hour, lol.

But as others have said you miss the intimacy.

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sextonseven said:

Exactly. The only thing you miss when you are single is sacktime on a regular basis. But married couples and people in relationships will tell you that there is no guarantee of regular sacktime either.

jonylawson said:

roll with it and have fun.

jerseykrs said:

Exactly. It bugs the hell out of me that society looks at being single as a negative. F--- that sh!t. I say do whatever makes YOU happy. I'm never tired of being alone, just tired of mfers thinking there's something wrong with me because I'm 45 and never been married.

im off to, get laid tonight

jonylawson said:

wow- lucky you...