JustErin said:

I think I'd qualify for that one!!!

luv4all7 said:

we all..men and women, need to be ready to be in a relationship with someone nice. I wouldn't have gone on a second date with my wife, if I hadn't have gotten out of a relationship with a bitch first. The change was eyeopening.

And actually men really are a dime a dozen. Single straight good looking hard working ready for a relationship men. I jsut have a hard time finding a man that I feel sparks with, yanno?

applekisses said:

like I posted on another thread already, I'm a mess & high-maintainance.....and really cynical right now.....a lot of layers on me!

luv4all7 said:

rent this movie. it will teach you how to find that man.
[Edited 9/16/06 9:20am]

abierman said:

I can gaurantee I'd peel you like a banana.

luv4all7 said:

Maybe it's because you've been conditioned through your upbringing to be drawn to men that are not the nicest to you.

I know that this was the case with me.

abierman said:

I hear you, my brotha!

luv4all7 said:

it's a big banana though.....

JustErin said:

I'm not sure. I think I do tend to have this sick twisted thing for being treated like and feeling like shit, but I'm not sure why. My Dad was Honest to God thee best man in the world. So I'm not sure where it came from.

abierman said:

Please.

purplerein said:

I swear you must have stock in the company that put out that film

abierman said:

:cough:uhhuh::cough:

luv4all7 said:

It doesn't always have to be about what your dad did. It came from somewhere, maybe figuring out where it came from will help you understand why you do the things you do.

JustErin said:

Thanks.

luv4all7 said:

I'm being serious!!

....or maybe that was a genuine response. I can't tell on this place anymore!

luv4all7 said:

But thats the point of the thread! For us all (me, and you since you seem to feel the same) to realise this, just enough to give us enough faith to keep going for a little longer... Glad ya found it!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

But i still think I agree with apple though!

applekisses said:

applekisses said:

And even ten theyre all green, midgets, full of straw or completely immoveable!

susannah said:

Or too young!

you're never short of male company at the parties i've seen you at,you have plenty of opportunity to bag yourself a fella there!plus the bonus is...there prince fans too! but beware some of the good guys can be a bit bad too....

Im both gay and want to get into your pants? Are you a medium?

Good men tend to want to pursue, to be initiators. But they also might be less used to taking the risks necessary to get a woman's attention or to follow through.

And, a lot of times, they've been hurt soooo many times before, too, by women dealing with their own issues and scars, that the risk seems to be less worth it as time goes on.

Surely men and women must take responsibility for our own respective romantic histories and decisions. A lot of the lesson tends to be connected to mistaking attraction for substance, or giving chemistry too much of a priority in interaction.

There also is something to be said for having a good pool of men. My suggestion: Get active in a church, and make plenty of friends. Positive people with their heads screwed on right tend to attract the same. I met my girlfriend -- who I'd be the first to admit is way out of my league -- through befriending two other such positive people.

Women are the same in many ways, really.

abierman said:

I second that.

abierman said:

I second that.

susannah said:

no. not right now i don't

I'm nice...

I'm not nice...