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Printableluv4all7 said: purplerein said: you're painting the whole male gender with a broad paintbrush Susannah.
yes, there are some of us around who do nice things just cause. Thats the other problem. Men that AREN'T assholes. Well, I'm just not into them. So then what???? No, Im sooo over the bad boy thing. If they seem bad, they are bad. period. You cant change them. not a good idea Luv!  | |
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luv4all7 said: IrresistibleB1tch said:  why should i make a smart-ass comment? Cuz your an irresistiblebitch. In the NICEST sense of the word.  really, i respect you for wanting to improve your relationship. that's awesome. | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: luv4all7 said: Cuz your an irresistiblebitch. In the NICEST sense of the word. really, i respect you for wanting to improve your relationship. that's awesome. WHAT????? THAT'S IT? Just be mean to me.  Please? | |
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luv4all7 said: IrresistibleB1tch said: really, i respect you for wanting to improve your relationship. that's awesome. WHAT????? THAT'S IT? Just be mean to me. Please? well, if you insist... go ahead and say something about Paris Hilton and her animal advocacy.  | |
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luv4all7 said: purplerein said: you're painting the whole male gender with a broad paintbrush Susannah.
yes, there are some of us around who do nice things just cause. Thats the other problem. Men that AREN'T assholes. Well, I'm just not into them. So then what???? maybe it's time you learn that a decent guy can give you as much love as you need. that its okay to accept that, and not punish yourself by being with assholes. | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: luv4all7 said: WHAT????? THAT'S IT? Just be mean to me. Please? well, if you insist... go ahead and say something about Paris Hilton and her animal advocacy. Paris is going to initiate an endowment for animal causes. Someone has to write a grant application though. | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: luv4all7 said: WHAT????? THAT'S IT? Just be mean to me. Please? well, if you insist... go ahead and say something about Paris Hilton and her animal advocacy. Stay on topic people!
Now how do I get over this waiting for him to call thing? I really want a reply dammit, even though I just need to get over it  What do I do? Except be miserable | |
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susannah said: luv4all7 said: Thats the other problem. Men that AREN'T assholes. Well, I'm just not into them. So then what???? No, Im sooo over the bad boy thing. If they seem bad, they are bad. period. You cant change them. not a good idea Luv!  I know. I need to start adopting New Orleans refugee puppys or something instead of adopting roughed up men. | |
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purplerein said: IrresistibleB1tch said: well, if you insist... go ahead and say something about Paris Hilton and her animal advocacy. Paris is going to initiate an endowment for animal causes. Someone has to write a grant application though. oh, man... now THERE'S a moral dilemma if i've ever heard of one! | |
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luv4all7 said: susannah said: No, Im sooo over the bad boy thing. If they seem bad, they are bad. period. You cant change them. not a good idea Luv! I know. I need to start adopting New Orleans refugee puppys or something instead of adopting roughed up men.ooh OOH I like that idea better!!! Lets get some puppies 
I need to not adopt them too, I think Ive adopted this one...I dont want him anymore, shoo!! bad dog! | |
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susannah said: IrresistibleB1tch said: well, if you insist... go ahead and say something about Paris Hilton and her animal advocacy. Stay on topic people!
Now how do I get over this waiting for him to call thing? I really want a reply dammit, even though I just need to get over it What do I do? Except be miserable sorry!  
on the call issue - DON'T WAIT. he'll call or he won't. or you can call him. live your life in the meantime. | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: susannah said: Stay on topic people!
Now how do I get over this waiting for him to call thing? I really want a reply dammit, even though I just need to get over it What do I do? Except be miserable sorry!
on the call issue - DON'T WAIT. he'll call or he won't. or you can call him. live your life in the meantime.  *taking on board*
ok...Im too good at procrastinating And Im very stubborn, when I want something I cant do anything but want it - Im doing that now - sitting here in a huff! | |
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susannah said: IrresistibleB1tch said: sorry!
on the call issue - DON'T WAIT. he'll call or he won't. or you can call him. live your life in the meantime. *taking on board*
ok...Im too good at procrastinating And Im very stubborn, when I want something I cant do anything but want it - Im doing that now - sitting here in a huff! how's that working out for ya?
really, get all dolled up and go shopping or go see a movie with some friends. he'll leave a message if you're not home. | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: susannah said: *taking on board*
ok...Im too good at procrastinating And Im very stubborn, when I want something I cant do anything but want it - Im doing that now - sitting here in a huff! how's that working out for ya?
really, get all dolled up and go shopping or go see a movie with some friends. he'll leave a message if you're not home. Yeah, TOTALLY don't wait on him. DO NOT DO IT!!!!! | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: susannah said: *taking on board*
ok...Im too good at procrastinating And Im very stubborn, when I want something I cant do anything but want it - Im doing that now - sitting here in a huff! how's that working out for ya?
really, get all dolled up and go shopping or go see a movie with some friends. he'll leave a message if you're not home.
yes Mum! ok I am getting up to do things now. I just have to take my mind off it 
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IrresistibleB1tch said: susannah said: *taking on board*
ok...Im too good at procrastinating And Im very stubborn, when I want something I cant do anything but want it - Im doing that now - sitting here in a huff! how's that working out for ya?
really, get all dolled up and go shopping or go see a movie with some friends. he'll leave a message if you're not home. speaking from experience are we? | |
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Susannah, i also think you're afraid of committment. nice guys give you no reason to not go out with them, so the relationship would have to progress forward. Assholes give you reason to not go past a certain point. | |
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Seriously? Go do some crunches or something. That way when he does call and ya's hang out or whatever. You'll have the better ab's and THATS defineltly grounds for the upper hand. Dontcha think? | |
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luv4all7 said: Seriously? Go do some crunches or something. That way when he does call and ya's hang out or whatever. You'll have the better ab's and THATS defineltly grounds for the upper hand. Dontcha think?
I so totally agree with you!!!!! .  | |
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abierman said: luv4all7 said: Seriously? Go do some crunches or something. That way when he does call and ya's hang out or whatever. You'll have the better ab's and THATS defineltly grounds for the upper hand. Dontcha think?
I so totally agree with you!!!!! . Do ya or don't ya????? And I just feel like Aksel could be the perfect balance in a guy for me. | |
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purplerein said: Susannah, i also think you're afraid of committment. nice guys give you no reason to not go out with them, so the relationship would have to progress forward. Assholes give you reason to not go past a certain point.
Im sorry man, but thats rubbish! I want a relationship, a proper one, in fact I wanted one with the subject of the thread, but was denied it  I dont meet a lot of guys when Im out or anything, hardly any acutally, never have, and Ive never met enough to be able to differentiate between the nice ones and the assholes. I havent had that many boyfriends either. Im not a person who chooses the wrong guy, over and over again - this is the first time this has ever happened. I chose the wrong guy this one time, and Im never gonna do it again.
but no, I am definitely not scared of commitment! 
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Oh, you mean the nice guys that girls don't want? Yeah, there are plenty of those. But you aren't attracted to them. | |
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kidelrich said: Oh, you mean the nice guys that girls don't want? Yeah, there are plenty of those. But you aren't attracted to them.
Thats correct. Isn't it unfortunate? | |
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luv4all7 said: Seriously? Go do some crunches or something. That way when he does call and ya's hang out or whatever. You'll have the better ab's and THATS defineltly grounds for the upper hand. Dontcha think?
I just ate!  | |
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kidelrich said: Oh, you mean the nice guys that girls don't want? Yeah, there are plenty of those. But you aren't attracted to them.
Who says?! Im really shy and I dont like talking to guys in bars and stuff. The ones who do have tha balls to come up and talk to me tend to be sleazebags, so where does that leave me?! Apparently these nice guys never come up and make the first move anyway... Its a 2 way street! Besides, y'all, the point of this thread was for the guys to make me believe there is better out there, not to take out theire bitterness over girls not likeing them on me! And no fighting - this thread absolutely cannot get deleted!  ? | |
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luv4all7 said: abierman said: I so totally agree with you!!!!! . Do ya or don't ya????? And I just feel like Aksel could be the perfect balance in a guy for me.  I'm a mess and high-maintainance! but thanks, anyways!  | |
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susannah said: kidelrich said: Oh, you mean the nice guys that girls don't want? Yeah, there are plenty of those. But you aren't attracted to them.
Who says?! Im really shy and I dont like talking to guys in bars and stuff. The ones who do have tha balls to come up and talk to me tend to be sleazebags, so where does that leave me?! Apparently these nice guys never come up and make the first move anyway... Its a 2 way street! Besides, y'all, the point of this thread was for the guys to make me believe there is better out there, not to take out theire bitterness over girls not likeing them on me! And no fighting - this thread absolutely cannot get deleted! ? Don't wait around for anyone honey! Your worth so much more.
(Look how much U helped me the other day) | |
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abierman said: luv4all7 said: Do ya or don't ya????? And I just feel like Aksel could be the perfect balance in a guy for me. I'm a mess and high-maintainance! but thanks, anyways! Yup. Perfect. | |
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luv4all7 said: susannah said: Who says?! Im really shy and I dont like talking to guys in bars and stuff. The ones who do have tha balls to come up and talk to me tend to be sleazebags, so where does that leave me?! Apparently these nice guys never come up and make the first move anyway... Its a 2 way street! Besides, y'all, the point of this thread was for the guys to make me believe there is better out there, not to take out theire bitterness over girls not likeing them on me! And no fighting - this thread absolutely cannot get deleted! ? Don't wait around for anyone honey! Your worth so much more.
(Look how much U helped me the other day) Thanks honey - and ANYTIME | |
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I am not "men".
I am a man, but I don't relate to this "men" thing and never have. 
I totally get where you are coming from Susannah, but it is more about INDIVIDUALS. Some "women" piss me off just as much, thinking they're pulling the wool over your eyes with their superficiality just as much as some men. Those kinds are made for each other, luckily. 
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