Mach said: NDRU said: You, know, I kind of took this as a joke, but you're right. Being too nice can be a problem. Actually it's a problem for me, though I suppose that doesn't preclude being an ass as well. not sure how spats meant it ... though for me it's no joke i so struggle with over giving and kindness and often times get burned by being so so i seek balance in my giving aspects ~ note to self to work on this ~ I was just kidding. Seriously, i should probably try and be less selfish and treat the people that care about me better. Particularly the women. One of my buddies who is friends with the babe thinks the way i treat her is pretty f**ked up. And when i think about it, our relationship is a little messed up. Mostly because of me i guess. The fact that i didn't know when her birthday is or that i forgot about it is a good indication of that. or the fact i still haven't talked to her since then.lol God, i sounded like a real wimp there. | |
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luv4all7 said: I would change that I think it's okay to live unhappily just cuz that seems like the right thing to do.
And I'm working on being more honest with myself and others, wether it hurts or not. Excuse my language...but you are so fucking right!!!!! Sadly I'm not working on the more honest bit because, in realtion to the first bit, I have a hell of a lot to throw away. | |
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Spats said: Mach said: not sure how spats meant it ... though for me it's no joke i so struggle with over giving and kindness and often times get burned by being so so i seek balance in my giving aspects ~ note to self to work on this ~ I was just kidding. Seriously, i should probably try and be less selfish and treat the people that care about me better. Particularly the women. One of my buddies who is friends with the babe thinks the way i treat her is pretty f**ked up. And when i think about it, our relationship is a little messed up. Mostly because of me i guess. The fact that i didn't know when her birthday is or that i forgot about it is a good indication of that. or the fact i still haven't talked to her since then.lol God, i sounded like a real wimp there. almost like a real human! | |
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evenstar3 said: Being less shy would be SO nice...but I don't think I'll ever really grow out of it.
I'm with you on that one - less shy, more confident & not giving a fuck | |
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DarkKnight1 said: my underwear
Don't change. | |
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Being that little bit less shy would be great. There's other usual stuff like being organised and more motivated, but the shyness factor would probably help with the other two. | |
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luv4all7 said: NDRU said: I only smoked once every ten minutes or so. Maybe not quite that much, but along with my E trauma that's why I don't do it anymore. One thing changed for the better. My Legacy
http://prince.org/msg/8/192731 | |
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I also need to stop procrastinating. | |
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I need to stop putting others needs and feelings ahead of my own.. | |
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I like the fact that I'm an energetic and impulsive person, as I seldomly become agressive and I don't mind getting the attention I need.
But sometimes, I'm feeling way too restless. Before it didn't bother me, but lately... as a teacher being restless and impulsive is not always the best thing. Today for example, all my students were very excited. Instead of being able to calm them down, I promised them to stand on my head during one of the next lessons if all of them have at least 12/15 on their grammar-test. (this time I really wish not all of them do well on the test) | |
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My short fuse. Where can I get a longer one of those, anybody know? Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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